So narcissists can't take NO for an answer and can't accept getting blocked for life?

[Vesuvius87]

Ever since my engagement, I've received two messages from my NARC ex boyfriend (the scammer), both were from different new numbers. Since my work relies on my number and it would be complicated to change it now, all I can do is block him. I'll eventually change my number when I get a new cell, not yet.

He's been sending messages to check up on me from time to time and definitely has been spying/stalking my FB page. I always blocked those numbers. Today, one message was on my Whatsapp and another on my regular phone inbox. It was about congratulating me (and even had the nerves to refer me to as his friend) for my engagement and another was him being surprised I'm engaged to a man from Texas, US. So narcissists are really that sick aren't they? They can't take NO for an answer and can't accept gettig blocked for life?

I don't know what part doesn't he understand my silence, followed by getting blocked immediately means he's not wanted in my life and isn't ever welcome in the family (nor with my friends) either.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I'm so sorry you're dealing with this nonsense from your ex. It must be so frustrating and unsettling having him keep popping up even after blocking him over and over. You're absolutely right that narcissists have a really hard time accepting rejection or someone moving on without them. Their ego just won't allow it.

What he's doing is completely out of line and disrespectful to you and your new relationship. I'd definitely avoid responding to him in any way, as that could just fuel his behavior. Is there someone like a friend or family member you could tell about the situation in case he tries to contact you again? It might help to have that extra layer of support and willingness to intervene if needed.

Also, don't be afraid to get law enforcement involved if his actions start to feel threatening in any way. You don't deserve to be stressed or worried by his nonsense. Stay strong and focus on your future with your new man - that's what will really get under his skin! Try not to let this guy live rent free in your head anymore. Easier said than done, I know, but you've got this! Keep blocking and stay safe.

[Vesuvius87]

All my close friends and family members know about that narc and he's not ever welcome in our lives ever again, not even for a minute. My close friends blocked when he sent them a friend request and my grandma changed her number when he called her many times.
Yeah I don't say a single word to him. My reply back is absolute silence, proceeded by blocking him. I don't feel threatened though, just annoyed. That idiot has no life.

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, what a nightmare that guy is causing for you and your whole family! It's good that everyone is supporting you by blocking him too so he can't cause any drama. What a absolute creeper for trying to call your grandma and add your friends, like who does that?

I'm glad you're not feeling too threatened by him, but I'd definitely be annoyed too dealing with that BS. Some people really have no life if they're spending that much time and energy stalking their ex. Just goes to show how obsessed and pathetic he is. Keep doing what you're doing by not giving him any attention - silence is the best response for sure. Hopefully over time he'll get so frustrated by not getting a rise out of you that he'll finally move on.

If he keeps it up though, don't hesitate to get a restraining order against him. You shouldn't have to deal with that constant harassment, especially when you're trying to plan your wedding and move on with your life. Just focus on your fiancé and your family - don't let some loser ex bring you down! Let me know if you ever need help chasing him off for good!

[Vesuvius87]

Thank you for your kind words. Yes I'm looking forward for the best day in my life and I'm not going to let anyone ruin it for me. I'm no longer the emotionally, submissive, extremely naivee woman the loser knew me as. I've grown stronger and with much backbone that doesn't hesitate to cut off any toxic person out of my life.

[Oliverlogan263]

That's what's up! I'm really happy to hear you've become so much stronger and stand up for yourself now. It's awesome that you're not letting anything ruin your big day or take the joy from your new relationship. That guy is clearly an ex for a reason.

You deserve so much better than how he treated you before. It takes real courage and self-respect to walk away from people who try to bring you down or be toxic. I can tell you've come a long way. Don't ever look back - you've got your whole future ahead of you to enjoy without that loser dragging you down.

Keep shining bright and celebrating all the positive people in your life now. Your ex is small potatoes. Wishing you all the best for your wedding and marriage! You keep doing you - you obviously know what's best for your happiness. Mad respect for how far you've come. Enjoy this new chapter!

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your right he can't take it keep blocking him

[Vesuvius87]

Yeah I've been doing that and will continue to do so. I have absolutely nothing to say to him. It's none of his business what I do with my life.

[AI Opinion]

Diving right into the heart of the matter, lovebombing and refusing to accept a firm "No" are classic maneuvers in the narcissist's playbook. It seems your NARC ex is hitting all the red flags with Olympic precision! Blocking you and then popping up with congratulatory messages? Oh, the audacity! It’s like they’re trying to win a gold medal in the "Can’t Take a Hint" Olympics.

Your silence and the act of blocking him should indeed send a crystal-clear message that he's about as welcome as a snowstorm in July. Yet, here he is, acting surprised and dropping into your messages like an unwanted sequel to a movie nobody asked for.

Narcissists have a tough time understanding boundaries because, in their world, it’s all about them. Your ex's inability to accept your engagement and move on could be a mix of ego bruising and an attempt to remain relevant in your life, even if it's just as a nuisance.

Keep standing your ground, block as needed, and remember, your engagement is about you and your happiness, not about providing closure or explanations to someone who's no longer part of your life script. Keep shining bright with your Texan love story! 🌟💑

[loveslongnails]

Because they're narcissists! That's the disease.