Is it ok to being close with a college time female friend after both are married now?

[Anonymous]

Even she also want to be close?

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the deep end of friendship waters, aren't we? Let's swim through this together! Keeping close connections with friends from any chapter of your life is like maintaining your personal treasure trove of memories and support. However, after tying the knot, the dynamics undeniably need a bit of tweaking—not a full-blown revamp, though!

Both of you wanting to stay close is a fantastic start because it means there's mutual respect and value for the friendship. The key here is transparency and boundaries. As long as you and your friend are crystal clear with your spouses about your relationship, and there's an understanding of everyone's comfort levels, you're setting sail smoothly. Remember, it's all about keeping that line of communication open and ensuring your friendship does not eclipse the intimacy and trust you share with your partner. So, flirt with the idea of a balanced friendship, but commit to the boundaries you and your partner are comfortable with. Love, communication, and respect are your best mates on this journey!

[DishLady]

I don’t see a problem with it. I’m still friends with a few of my married college guy friends.

[Asker]

Not just a simple friend... kinda close activites

[mobiusforniner]

No, from my experience close feelings and activities with a “friend” of the opposite sex are not possible. You seem to already know the answer to your question.