How far should you plan ahead in a new LDR? (Page 7)

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So how far have people planned ahead to visit someone if they are in a long distance relationship? 2 months? 4 months? Longer … thanks

Anonymous · Answer

Plan to get married and get old together on the day you enter the relationship

LastAlphamale · Answer

I would say zero days. LDR never work out. Women use them just for an ego boost. I can guarantee you that your long distance squeeze will be banging some one else while she strings you along.

cutieMommy · Answer

I mean, if you are anticipating the matter, longer than the duration of the initial plans... what's the point? So you're both co dependent and hyper fixated lol

Handsomegirl · Answer

Distance matters. For the country, it was months ago. For the city, it was weeks ago. I'm just thinking logically; I've never had a long-distance girlfriend.

CaptanHellams · Answer

I don't know, anytime I've been with someone and there was distance I either closed the distance fast, or let go of them fast. It doesn't seem to work out as a long term solution.

Anonymous · Answer

This question has almost 300 opinions but I need those 5 xper points.

Anonymous · Answer

Does it really matter? I mean it's a pretend relationship. You can pretty much do whatever you like.

WhiteMamba11 · Answer

depends on distance, I think. If it’s drivable, you don’t really need to plan. It can be spur of the moment. It’s not drivable or international. I think you have to plan in advance.

pinksonic · Answer

LDR is too much work for most people especially if you're not in a long term relationship or married. Don't recommend it'll tear your relationship apart.

ABitShattered · Answer

I don't. I quit LDR after my first love broke my heart.

Shortkay45685 · Answer

at least 2 mouths and make sure you not on your period.

altaboy · Answer

Who cares? Why do I see this question every time I come here?

yulbsari · Answer

Distance to be traveled and traveling costs are the main factors...

an_nMary · Answer

I'm kinda winging it with LDR - no concrete plans in sight 🤔.

ThatCanucker · Answer

My whole life has been a long distance relationship with the women I will never meet. 😆

Hdeesggh · Answer

They're hard to do, really do need to be on the same page and decide when you'll get closer

Catailian94 · Answer

Within a week when you found out. Especially if it is for work.

Sal_Monella · Answer

My last long distance relationship was in the long distant past.

Samuel75 · Answer

I'm not into LDR But it depends on whom you are in with.

Vegasrunner · Answer

I've got a couple going on. At least a month out is standard.

boobliker · Answer

as far as is safe for you to do so as you may nee cash in the mean time

Dongie · Answer

Well thanks spell fuckin check. I'll fuckin try again. *Who's the fuckin chick?

Emmytexrex · Answer

Ldr is not that easy it takes two determined people to make it work

clampfan101 · Answer

Just know which things are needs and which are preferences.

Sasquach · Answer

People act differently in person, so the sooner the better

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Not very far. LDR are almost always doomed to fail. Thus you are planning for not.

Staximus · Answer

Long distance relationships are bullshit and a waste of time

Sunnyrjs · Answer

I would not plan to far ahead if it is new. I would let the relationship breath a little and then see it from there.

kerem2NT · Answer

They make preparations and plans, taking into account their spouse's job. This process is completed within 2 or 3 months.

123459876 · Answer

I wouldn't plan as far ahead as you can throw the other person because 90% chance that it's not going to work

stayorgo · Answer

Take it and put it in the garbage better yet hopefully the world will end . And people we'll within time we'll be able to breathe And relax

RedHiHeels · Answer

The first time I went to visit my now fiancé we planned it a month in advance and now we see each other every month to month and a half

Anonymous · Answer

If I really love a lady, and can afford to visit her. Then any country of this world for sure.

Anonymous · Answer

Why is this two-month-old question still popping up after I submit a response to other questions? What's going on with you GAG?

LaurenLoves · Answer

I don't know ldr scares me

driven159 · Answer

You can't really plan just let things come as they may

fish5505_87 · Answer

It's a fine question, but why is GAG promoting it so much?

Jeff51 · Answer

I married in the Philippines in 2010. That's a long way.

Nicole12t · Answer

Im not sure but i think maybe at least 2 months!

888theGreat · Answer

Long Distance romance don't work. You need to be close.

mysteriousN · Answer

Yes I also plan massive wish lists in my mind of what my ideal LDR should be ☺️

BigSwingingBalls · Answer

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Lilly1979 · Answer

When you find out let them know early so you’s can plan things work around it.

justarandomperson_55 · Answer

Not at all in the future, because if it does not happen, you will be devastated. True story.

David_beckham · Answer

In a long-distance relationship? According to me, not even a month in the future.

Breezie2024 · Answer

1 month. Enough time to make reservations on a plane and move your schedule around.

Yohenis · Answer

Long distance relationships don't work period

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

As far ahead as both parties feel comfortable

seanscoopers · Answer

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shades777 · Answer

You can plan a pretty picnic but you can't predict the weather Ms Jackson - Outkast

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Just answering to get off my feed. If it’s a permanent thing, up to a year out.

disappoint3d · Answer

Tldr; long distance relationships don't work.

Yamaal · Answer

I don't know, but I guess I'll see my boyfriend after a while. 🥺🥺

AdolfWasRight1488 · Answer

Just long enough to find a short distance hole to put your dick in.

MrDaveAPSI · Answer

As far off as you can but, honestly, I don't know why you think ldr's work

shortster · Answer

I plan on breaking it off if she says she lives more than 120 miles away.

DreamLife7 · Answer

LDR does not work. Why aren't you seeing people locally?

CaribbeanPrincess91 · Answer

I have never been in an LDR, but if I were, I would make plans with my significant other at the beginning of every month.

Anonymous · Answer

Is this the most popular question ever on this site?

straightmax12 · Answer

Ldr relationship don't last long unless one of you takes a leap of faith and move to wherever the other lover is located.

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