How far should you plan ahead in a new LDR? (Page 7)

[Vegasrunner]

I've got a couple going on. At least a month out is standard.

[boobliker]

as far as is safe for you to do so as you may nee cash in the mean time

[Dongie]

Well thanks spell fuckin check. I'll fuckin try again.
*Who's the fuckin chick?

[Emmytexrex]

Ldr is not that easy it takes two determined people to make it work

[clampfan101]

Just know which things are needs and which are preferences.

[Sasquach]

People act differently in person, so the sooner the better

[Blueeyes81]

Not very far. LDR are almost always doomed to fail. Thus you are planning for not.

[Staximus]

Long distance relationships are bullshit and a waste of time

[Sunnyrjs]

I would not plan to far ahead if it is new.
I would let the relationship breath a little and then see it from there.

[kerem2NT]

They make preparations and plans, taking into account their spouse's job. This process is completed within 2 or 3 months.

[123459876]

I wouldn't plan as far ahead as you can throw the other person because 90% chance that it's not going to work

[stayorgo]

Take it and put it in the garbage better yet hopefully the world will end . And people we'll within time we'll be able to breathe And relax

[RedHiHeels]

The first time I went to visit my now fiancé we planned it a month in advance and now we see each other every month to month and a half

[Anonymous]

If I really love a lady, and can afford to visit her. Then any country of this world for sure.

[Anonymous]

Why is this two-month-old question still popping up after I submit a response to other questions? What's going on with you GAG?

[Anonymous]

Does it really matter? I mean it's a pretend relationship. You can pretty much do whatever you like.

[LaurenLoves]

I don't know ldr scares me

[driven159]

You can't really plan just let things come as they may

[fish5505_87]

It's a fine question, but why is GAG promoting it so much?

[Jeff51]

I married in the Philippines in 2010. That's a long way.

[Nicole12t]

Im not sure but i think maybe at least 2 months!

[888theGreat]

Long Distance romance don't work. You need to be close.

[mysteriousN]

Yes I also plan massive wish lists in my mind of what my ideal LDR should be ☺️

[BigSwingingBalls]

pension plans should be exchanged as pdf attachments at the earliest convenience

[Lilly1979]

When you find out let them know early so you’s can plan things work around it.

[justarandomperson_55]

Not at all in the future, because if it does not happen, you will be devastated. True story.

[David_beckham]

In a long-distance relationship? According to me, not even a month in the future.

[Breezie2024]

1 month. Enough time to make reservations on a plane and move your schedule around.

[Yohenis]

Long distance relationships don't work period

[LunarEclipse433]

As far ahead as both parties feel comfortable

[seanscoopers]

Long time re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[shades777]

You can plan a pretty picnic but you can't predict the weather Ms Jackson - Outkast

[RedInnocent69]

Just answering to get off my feed. If it’s a permanent thing, up to a year out.

[disappoint3d]

Tldr; long distance relationships don't work.

[Yamaal]

I don't know, but I guess I'll see my boyfriend after a while. 🥺🥺

[AdolfWasRight1488]

Just long enough to find a short distance hole to put your dick in.

[MrDaveAPSI]

As far off as you can but, honestly, I don't know why you think ldr's work

[shortster]

I plan on breaking it off if she says she lives more than 120 miles away.

[DreamLife7]

LDR does not work. Why aren't you seeing people locally?

[straightmax12]

Ldr relationship don't last long unless one of you takes a leap of faith and move to wherever the other lover is located.

[voreguy1]

Personally if we had been talking for a while and I really loved the person I wouldn’t prepare much I would just let it be naturally.

[Jason4040]

I don't believe most work out but since you didn't ask that I'll answer your question. If it was me, I'd probably plan about 1 month out

[Seveceksin]

LDR are hard and usually don’t work out unless you are both on the same exact page with things , but sadly it’s a slim chance.

[Summer-nights]

I used to be in a relationship with a guy from the Netherlands (I'm from the UK). We would plan to see eachother every 4 months.

[4ngriffKitty36]

It depends on ur conditions and opportunities that you and ur partner have but it's extremely difficult to sustain it.

[Despina6]

Depending on how far you found out. Even if you know their possibly you could be heading out.

[Femmefatale98]

I personally think if you are a woman he should be doing all the planning and officially be the one to tell you he needs to see you.

[Rena90]

Depending on how long you know about if you're giving a year that good to 3 months. I mean able to communicate Through Skype.

[katsiaryna_994]

It will not work like he will be another country and you too. You guys will not even to make out and no fun.

[Twendie]

I don’t know, I was never over the age of a teenager when I was in them, so I had no real way of orcastrating a meeting

[DarcyDarcyDarcy]

I wouldn't want to be in a LDR. It would be annoying going backwards forwards. Would rather date someone in my state

[MorningMiranda]

I'd say a lot. It's all about making time for each other. Cause if not it's not gonna happen.

[Megcait]

As soon as possible after connecting. Make sure it is what you want but even then it is tough.

[joselyn002]

You can give some months because if you don't plan it well and get to know him or her very well, is matter of wasting time

[Idontknow45]

My sister was in a LDR for about a year before she visited him but after a few years the recently moved it together

[AGメtheloneWOLF]

I don't believe in ldr but the longer the ahead visit the bigger the chances of getting relationship more distant

[Katherineny]

LDR are seriously difficult. I don't really think you should plan ahead before having at least 2 years of it going well

[Anonymous]

I planned like 10 years down the line. I was smitten. down to marriage, kids, house, jobs, everything. its free to dream

[Manuelwe]

Do not.
As sign it is coming to an end of relationship

[Godihateyou]

If you have to pay a toll to see them it's too far. End it.