How far should you plan ahead in a new LDR? (Page 7)

Question

So how far have people planned ahead to visit someone if they are in a long distance relationship? 2 months? 4 months? Longer … thanks

stayorgo · Answer

Take it and put it in the garbage better yet hopefully the world will end . And people we'll within time we'll be able to breathe And relax

RedHiHeels · Answer

The first time I went to visit my now fiancé we planned it a month in advance and now we see each other every month to month and a half

Anonymous · Answer

If I really love a lady, and can afford to visit her. Then any country of this world for sure.

Anonymous · Answer

Why is this two-month-old question still popping up after I submit a response to other questions? What's going on with you GAG?

Anonymous · Answer

Does it really matter? I mean it's a pretend relationship. You can pretty much do whatever you like.

LaurenLoves · Answer

I don't know ldr scares me

driven159 · Answer

You can't really plan just let things come as they may

fish5505_87 · Answer

It's a fine question, but why is GAG promoting it so much?

Jeff51 · Answer

I married in the Philippines in 2010. That's a long way.

Nicole12t · Answer

Im not sure but i think maybe at least 2 months!

888theGreat · Answer

Long Distance romance don't work. You need to be close.

mysteriousN · Answer

Yes I also plan massive wish lists in my mind of what my ideal LDR should be ☺️

BigSwingingBalls · Answer

pension plans should be exchanged as pdf attachments at the earliest convenience

Lilly1979 · Answer

When you find out let them know early so you’s can plan things work around it.

justarandomperson_55 · Answer

Not at all in the future, because if it does not happen, you will be devastated. True story.

David_beckham · Answer

In a long-distance relationship? According to me, not even a month in the future.

Breezie2024 · Answer

1 month. Enough time to make reservations on a plane and move your schedule around.

Yohenis · Answer

Long distance relationships don't work period

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

As far ahead as both parties feel comfortable

seanscoopers · Answer

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shades777 · Answer

You can plan a pretty picnic but you can't predict the weather Ms Jackson - Outkast

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Just answering to get off my feed. If it’s a permanent thing, up to a year out.

disappoint3d · Answer

Tldr; long distance relationships don't work.

Yamaal · Answer

I don't know, but I guess I'll see my boyfriend after a while. 🥺🥺

AdolfWasRight1488 · Answer

Just long enough to find a short distance hole to put your dick in.

MrDaveAPSI · Answer

As far off as you can but, honestly, I don't know why you think ldr's work

shortster · Answer

I plan on breaking it off if she says she lives more than 120 miles away.

DreamLife7 · Answer

LDR does not work. Why aren't you seeing people locally?

ella617281 · Answer

I think it deoends on the distance. If its a long flight maybe two months, if its just a train visit, then maybe a week

straightmax12 · Answer

Ldr relationship don't last long unless one of you takes a leap of faith and move to wherever the other lover is located.

voreguy1 · Answer

Personally if we had been talking for a while and I really loved the person I wouldn’t prepare much I would just let it be naturally.

Jason4040 · Answer

I don't believe most work out but since you didn't ask that I'll answer your question. If it was me, I'd probably plan about 1 month out

Seveceksin · Answer

LDR are hard and usually don’t work out unless you are both on the same exact page with things , but sadly it’s a slim chance.

Summer-nights · Answer

I used to be in a relationship with a guy from the Netherlands (I'm from the UK). We would plan to see eachother every 4 months.

4ngriffKitty36 · Answer

It depends on ur conditions and opportunities that you and ur partner have but it's extremely difficult to sustain it.

Despina6 · Answer

Depending on how far you found out. Even if you know their possibly you could be heading out.

Femmefatale98 · Answer

I personally think if you are a woman he should be doing all the planning and officially be the one to tell you he needs to see you.

Rena90 · Answer

Depending on how long you know about if you're giving a year that good to 3 months. I mean able to communicate Through Skype.

katsiaryna_994 · Answer

It will not work like he will be another country and you too. You guys will not even to make out and no fun.

Twendie · Answer

I don’t know, I was never over the age of a teenager when I was in them, so I had no real way of orcastrating a meeting

DarcyDarcyDarcy · Answer

I wouldn't want to be in a LDR. It would be annoying going backwards forwards. Would rather date someone in my state

MorningMiranda · Answer

I'd say a lot. It's all about making time for each other. Cause if not it's not gonna happen.

Megcait · Answer

As soon as possible after connecting. Make sure it is what you want but even then it is tough.

joselyn002 · Answer

You can give some months because if you don't plan it well and get to know him or her very well, is matter of wasting time

Idontknow45 · Answer

My sister was in a LDR for about a year before she visited him but after a few years the recently moved it together

AGメtheloneWOLF · Answer

I don't believe in ldr but the longer the ahead visit the bigger the chances of getting relationship more distant

Katherineny · Answer

LDR are seriously difficult. I don't really think you should plan ahead before having at least 2 years of it going well

Anonymous · Answer

I planned like 10 years down the line. I was smitten. down to marriage, kids, house, jobs, everything. its free to dream

Manuelwe · Answer

Do not. As sign it is coming to an end of relationship

Godihateyou · Answer

If you have to pay a toll to see them it's too far. End it.

CubaPirate · Answer

Never had one really they're a recipe for disaster 🤔

IWILLPLEASEYOU · Answer

I have been trying to make it easier but I'm pretty sure 2 weeks

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, I've never been in LDR, or any other kind of relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know I’m not 12 years old and I don’t get into LDRs

Anonymous · Answer

I have never engaged in a LDR because I am not stupid and I know time is valuable and you shouldn't waste it.

Anonymous · Answer

LDRs don’t usually work out. They are difficult to keep up. Plan nothing or plan for the inevitable break up.

StupidHero · Answer

Plan to get married and get old together on the day you enter the relationship

Sarah8000 · Answer

I'd say between 1.6 and 3.7 months - definitely no longer than 4.2 months

Shp22 · Answer

Don't have any experience about it. But i think instant plans are best

Desserter4 · Answer

How long is this question gonna remain at the top of the feed? My God

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