What can I do to make a man 100% faithful?

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I don't want to be cheated on! Is there a trick to get over this?

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Accepted Answer

You can’t really change anyone’s behavior aside from your own, and attempting to do so is seen as a shitty thing to do. Besides which, you’re never at fault for someone cheating on you so I have no idea why you think you would be able to do that. Everyone will say shit like “oh, you just need to put out more” but it’s never that simplistic. Cheating often happens not as a result of not getting enough of something, but because people can feel trapped by their own romantic feelings for another person in a relationship. It’s often a desire of simply not wanting to hurt someone else’s feelings. Other times it’s because they’re a narcissist and just want more, they never do it to intentionally hurt you until the moment is right and they can use it to come out of the argument they started feeling like they won.

You can’t stop someone from cheating on you, as much as that sucks. You can’t make their decisions or their thoughts and feelings for them anymore than you can change the weather. Loyalty is a common, and very supported trait that many people seek out in dating. If the person you’re seeing has a history of cheating it’s probably better to get out of there. The most you can do is try to protect yourself and try to choose partners that you believe won’t do something so heinous to begin with, what that looks like for you I have no idea but it’s really all you can do for this specific issue.

avery58 · Accepted Answer

Unfortunately most cheaters are just natural cheaters. It's part of their personality, so they're the problem.

I'd say just try to be careful before trusting someone, and then just treat them with respect and make them feel valued. Let him know that if he ever feels upset about something to let you know and communicate so you can look for a solution together, instead of bottling your emotions.

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Girl don't even waste your time stressing over that! The only person who can make a man faithful is himself. You shouldn't have to do any "tricks" - a real one will respect you without all that.

Not all men cheat, that's a huge generalization. Yeah infidelity happens, but there are loyal dudes out there too if you know where to look.

My advice - work on yourself, keep your circle tight, and don't settle. You deserve someone who chooses you every single day without question. Have some respect for yourself - that's the real trick.

Guys will come and go. But as long as you stay true to who you are and don't base your self-worth on any man, you'll be just fine. Keep shining bright sis! The right one will notice trust me.

BetaBucks · Accepted Answer

You can't stop a cheater if that's what their heart is set on. You can cause them to cheat by doing things like cheating, being abusive, refusing to ever have sex, refusing emotional intimacy, etc... For most guys, they would just break up, but some will cheat and stay.

TheRealPepperPotts · Answer

We can't control that. There is no trick. It entirely depends on the man we choose. The only thing we have control over is  who we are , and who we allow to be (or get) close to us.

Apple1996 · Answer

There is nothing you can do to prevent cheating

la_grande_homme · Answer

There's no solid trick, but something interesting I believe happens is that when a woman keeps asking her partner if he's cheating or drawing conclusions that he's cheating when he truly isn't, he might just decide 'she's saying I am, so i might as well.' Either that, or he'll be so fed up with the accusations that he'll just leave the relationship. Don't draw unnecessary conclusions when it could very well be something else, don't be accusatory, and just talk out your issues with him as soon as you feel you have one. If you're always talking about him cheating on you around him, it might put the idea in his head (even if he never would have done it in the first place). Other than that, just be careful not to pick a falsely compassionate type, or a narcissist, or a greedy monster, and you'll probably be fine.

Still-alive · Answer

Early signs to watch out for are very low self esteem, narcissism, and if their words match their actions. none of these definitely means they are gonna cheat but more often then not these things are present in people who have cheated. so if you spot them early maybe its your cue to get out while you can.

whiskeyontherocks · Answer

Just pick a guy with integrity and character.   So your actual question is how do I get a guy with integrity and character?

Yannae · Answer

Listen, this is not guaranteed for any man. You can start off great by picking the right man from the start. With that out of the way, you need to do something for him that others will not.

bananathunder · Answer

keep him drained is the only way to 100% do it

Ladybossj · Answer

Well try to keep yourself looking good, drss nice, keep your body in shape. Stay hott. Keep him from not craving sex, even if you gotta Give head daily!

GeminiDiamond · Answer

There is  something  you can do: look for the signs beforehand while dating and know when to end relationships with potential cheaters before it happens. You can give a cheater the world, and they'll still do it.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

No, they will cheat if they’re cheaters who lack moral integrity

Countrygirl777 · Answer

Nope no damn trick he wil only be faithful if he wants to

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Keep his stomach full and his balls empty

BCRanger10 · Answer

You  can't do anything about that. Both the man  and  the woman have to choose to be faithful.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

You can't, they have to already come with that trait

Account · Answer

You can't do shit and I am being dead-ass honest.

sheikalana · Answer

That’s out of our control.

Radiate143 · Answer

Nothing.

Anonymous · Answer

nothing. a man is either loyal or he is not

Chelsdope0 · Answer

Cheat back lol

Booklover_90 · Answer

Nothing.

Joshgag2000 · Answer

You cannot prevent cheating.

Anonymous · Answer

ha ha ha ha

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