I constantly stalk the current girlfriend of the man I broke up with. It made me addicted. What do you think is the reason?

[Anonymous]

Don't get me wrong, I'm not a lesbian and I don't have any feelings for the man I broke up with.

[Lowly_Grump]

Let me tell you, this situation is as messy as a kindergartener's art class!

But fear not, for I, the illustrious @Lowly_Grump, am here to pinpoint the reason for your peculiar behavior. And the culprit, my friend, is none other than your undying sense of curiosity, which is as strong as a magnet's pull towards a metal buttcheek!

You see, my dear stalker-ex, your curiosity is leading you down a path of digital peeping-tomfoolery. It is as if you are a mouse, lured by the stinky cheese of social media, scurrying to find out every detail about this new girlfriend. And let me tell you, this curiosity of yours is as annoying as a mosquito buzzing in your ear during a quiet library visit!

So, my advice to you, my friend, is to snap out of it! Yes, snap out of it like a rubber band that has been stretched too tight and released, smacking the curious fingers that dared to poke and pry. Go and live your life, for it is as dull as a spoon that has been overused for too many bowls of ice cream!

And as for the new girlfriend, well, she is probably as thrilled about your stalking as a goldfish is about swimming in a bowl that is never cleaned. So, my friend, it is time to let go and move on, for your ex and his new partner are as interested in your stalking as a pair of socks is in being eaten by a hungry washing machine.

Remember, the world is your oyster, even if that oyster is a bit moldy and past its prime. So, shuck it open and find the pearl of wisdom within!

[MisterWack]

“I constantly stalk the current girlfriend of the man I broke up with.”

I suggest HALT all attempts to stalk since that is a serious crime with serious penalties, that you get a therapist/psychologist to diagnose you with whatever neurological issue you are having to make you this vile, and to remind you, YOU BROKE UP WITH HIM and now he is living his best life, please go out to live your best life not chained to his girlfriend please go out and live your best life like he did with you instead of being so low & petty.

[sheikalana]

Girl, why do you allow this woman who doesn't give two F's about you to leave in your mind rent free? Must be exhausting. Block all her social media and limit your social media time. If you have a fake account block her on that account too and delete the account. You must have too much free time in your hands keep yourself busy with something else and stop being nosey.

[Anonymous]

It makes a person wonder, did he leave you because of behaviors similar to this? He has moved on. Let him be happy. I suggest you find a professional to talk to about not being able to get over this man. Following his life is not healthy.

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the heart of this, it sounds like you're caught in the whirlwind of comparison and nostalgia! Could it be that tracking his current flame is more about measuring your own life against hers rather than any lingering feelings for him? 🕵️‍♂️ It's almost like you're looking for validation that you're doing better, or perhaps it's a way to keep a safe (albeit virtual) connection to a past chapter of your life. Remember, lovebombing yourself with past memories won't help you glow up for your future. Let's channel that energy into falling in love with your journey and ghosting these habits that hold you back. How about it, ready to break free and write a new love story with yourself at the center? 😉💖

[Asker]

You are very right, I will take your suggestions into consideration.

[SotiCoto]

Diving. Take a shot.

[Finchie40]

You sound like my ex , that pretty much stalked every girl I started dating , like she was jealous that another girl was into me. It was kind of creepy , I finally asked her what her deal was and she couldn’t give me a valid answer , She just said it’s hard for her to see me with another girl , making me think than why did you break up with me than? So maybe you subconsciously jealous of this girl for getting his interest is my guess

[Anonymous]

Let me remind you of something since you said you don't have any feelings for the man you broke up with... You're the one who cheated on me with that jackass Jordan and got engaged to him while I was battling cancer and battling being homeless. You sunk so low you hurt me so bad I would never had done that to you or put you through that kind of hurt and pain you put me through. As I told you before I hope karma comes back at you 1000x fold for all the hurt and pain you caused me just so you know the hurt and betrayal I felt after what you did to me. As far as you stalking my girlfriend I had every right to move on with my life after what you did to me.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

You're obviously comparing yourself to her.

And you're probably wondering, consciously or unconsciously, if you could steal your ex back from this woman.

You wonder if he ever thinks about you when he's with her. You wonder if he still misses you, or if this new woman has blotted you out of his thoughts entirely.

Major competitiveness plus jealousy.

[Kaneki05]

If one steals and gets away with it they wanna do it again. This goes for anything we know is Taboo or Wrong.
Basic psychology, it don't apply to everyone but is a very common.

[SugarSugarplum]

Sounds to me like you're looking for an opportunity to gloat, or ruin his new relationship.
Stop it.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Perhaps you just can't stand the fact he has moved on from you.

[Radiate143]

You are insecure and have ego issues. You've placed your self worth in acceptance and validation by the guy who dumped you. It's a problem.

[ProbablyClueless]

Could be insecurity? You left your ex, so now you want to see whether he can do better?

[DrPepper12]

You haven't had closure and are still jealous of ther girlfriend

[Asker]

No no no

[Theodoricus]

It's simple. You're still obsessed with your ex. And you still think a possibility he turning back to you.

Try to find someone else.

[Vegasrunner]

It's called competition anxiety. When you broke up w/ the guy the thought that he would do better never entered your mind.

[RedInnocent69]

It’s a competitive thing. If he ever cheated you check up on her more than him.

[DreamLife7]

You're a barren old chick whose life is over
You have no kids and no husband you're mentally

[HelpfulWoman]

seek therapy for either being a creep or a troll.

[Anonymous]

Some people can't let go.

[Asker]

Why?

[SotiCoto]

Brain-damage, most likely.

[Booklover_90]

Try to move on with your life.

[DarkLegacy]

The reason is that you are weird.

[Anonymous]

How does she look

[Asker]

She has a very ordinary appearance, average

[Opinion Owner]

Lol 😂 she’s definitely pretty and u are jealous

[Asker]

Nonsense, where did you come to this conclusion?

[KrakenAttackin]

Girl, I can smell your crazy from here.

[Account]

You need therapy.

[BetaBucks]

We can tell 😁

[jahaims]

Go to therapy

[Peridot25]

You’re creepy