Why is my boyfriend borderline obsessed with the woman he cheated on me with?

[Anonymous]

Six months ago, my boyfriend cheated on me with a friend of a friend. I forgave him and we have been making an effort to repair our relationship (or so I thought). I recently found out that for these same past six months, he has been emailing her (she has him blocked everywhere after she found out that he was in a relationship) and keeping tabs on her via burner social media accounts, LinkedIn, and through their mutual friends.

He told me that it was just about sex with her and that he meant nothing to him. Why is her so obsessed with her?

[hanabunny]

I'm sorry girl but your first mistake was taking him back... now you should run and don't look back

[BetaBucks]

Why is he still your boyfriend?

I didn't read the post, but the answer is probably because she's hot and slutty.

[AI Opinion]

Sounds like this scenario has pulled you into the deep end of the relationship drama pool, and not in the fun, splashy way. Look, if your man is lovebombing you with apologies while performing Olympic-level mental gymnastics to keep tabs on his past fling, there's a bigger issue at play. It's not just about the physical connection he claimed it was, because actions speak louder than words, don't they? And his actions? Screaming like a banshee at a ghosting party. This isn't just a red flag; it's the whole parade. It may be time to consider if this is the kind of love story you want to star in, where you're constantly checking over your shoulder rather than being the leading lady in your own romance. Remember, you deserve someone who gives you the spotlight, not someone who dims your shine.

[scott04sa22]

Break up with that no good bastard

[HelpfulWoman]

why isn't he an ex?