he's obsessed with another woman?

[Mariaelza87]

a while back my boyfriend of 5 years and 2 kids added this girl on snap chat she's from the same town we dont no her really at all just to see. she was putting up pics of herself barley wearing anything i expressed my anger and he said he would delete her. so that was fine but he continued to look at her fb pics i seen him lots of times i explained to him that this was hurtful and said he would stop. then one night we had silly row he went to bed i stayed up and next morning he was getting into shower our son was having a tantrum i asked him could i put YouTube on to calm him down he said my fone is on locker anyway wen i unlocked his fone he didn't close his fb app from the night b4 he was in her pics again i was upset that we had a row and he went to bed to look at pics of her even tho he knew how it hurt me. i confronted him he said he was sorry he loved me and he would block her. i was still a little hurt but forgot bout it then it was my bday other night we went to friends house for drinks and i seen him on her page again. dont no what to do he knows i seen him. what should i do? should i be worried?

[Anonymous]

If he has been doing it over and over again after telling you he won't then he clearly won't stop and is capable of doing more than just that him "just looking" can lead to more because he seems to not be able to let go of her, i would be worried if i were in this situation specially the fact that she is in the same town, he might even end up chatting to her you dont know what else he has been upto i wouldn't give him so many chances, he needs to realise what he has and stop having wondering eyes for this other woman its disrespectful you deserve better, tell him you have told him many times now to stop but he clearly fantasizes or has a crush on this woman so he needs to fully stop or go bang her and lose you because you not putting up with it any more

[ssilver]

My suggestion would be to end the relationship because he has no respect for you or your feelings. If your concerns can be disregarded so easily, in favor of his own selfishness, he is unlikely to make you a priority. The fact remains that he lied to you multiple times, and as a result, you will be constantly questioning his words and actions in the back of your mind. That makes for an unhealthy relationship from the start. It's a major red flag, the first of many to follow, if you stay in it.

[assley]

Guys are weird. I wouldn't put up with that. He obviously thinks she's pretty or nice to look at. And if she is in your town he might have something more going on. I'd be worried about cheating and confront him. If he isn't cheating then there's nothing wrong it's just disrespectful. I'd want to leave him and find someone that wouldn't disrespect me like that.

[Mariaelza87]

thing is ok he might think she's pretty but why keep doing it wen its already caused so much trouble already. we have a good relationship usually good sex life dont fight much at all. all i wantvis the respect that i give him

[johnmichaei]

to me it shows no respect at all for you