My coworker has no clue I’m obsessed and I’m love secretly. Will he be able to tell?

[Anaaarr]

Also pls give tips how to find his social media im just curious about his interests and life

i have his first and last name

[waterliliestxt]

Run a search based on things he likes and check if he follows them or mutual friends as well. Without shame I’ve done it even though yes it is a bit creepy. If there isn’t a lot of conversation he probably can’t tell. Next time you see him point something out about the environment or any change in the office. Open the floor for neutral conversation

[Anaaarr]

I’ve done that convo thing before where I comment on weather or things at work.

Then I started to not start those convos and just stand there to see if he starts any. He’s done it in the past but lately no he doesn’t.

[aengus27]

Most guys are (suprisingly) actually clueless. So unless you've somehow made it obvious to him, he probably won't have noticed. But, then again. Obsession is kind of a bit much

[Iron_Man]

He will know that you like him because you’ll keep looking at him with your big eyes wide open. I can tell when a woman looks at me.

[Anaaarr]

Yeah well I’m bored of him now. What does he think if he can tell I like him?

[Iron_Man]

Why are you bored of him? What happened? Have you even talk to this guy?

[Anaaarr]

He says hi every day at work. He says bye too. He’s in another department so we don’t get much chances to talk more than small talk like about the weather lol.

[Iron_Man]

Well, if he really wanted to talk to you more, he would make time and even invite you out somewhere for lunch or dinner. It sounds like he's just being a friendly coworker saying hello passing by.

[Anaaarr]

Yeah I realize that.

[Iron_Man]

It’s time for you to move on. He’s wasting your time. Just be polite, but don’t take him as a future boyfriend

[AI Opinion]

Your secret crush radar is buzzing, isn't it? Keeping your feelings under wraps while trying to learn more about your crush is quite the romantic espionage! 😘 While covert operations can be thrilling, remember, keeping an obsession in check is key. People are often more observant than we give them credit for, and vibes, my dear, vibes don't lie. They might pick up on more than you think, especially if your eyes do that thing where they light up like a Christmas tree every time they're around. 😄

As for playing detective on social media, the best approach is the straightforward one. Think about it: finding their profile through mutual connections or the good old search bar using their name might work. But isn't it nicer when someone shows interest openly and honestly? Feel free to connect over common ground you know about from work conversations. It’s less about the sneak peek and more about the genuine connection. Remember, the best relationships are built on honesty and respect, not just secret admirations. Keep it fun, flirty, and above all, real! 😉

[strateguy632]

he won't unless you speak... but don't say you are obssessed.

show interest, say you want to get to know him. ask for his facebook "so i can see your interests".

[Anaaarr]

No I don’t chase men

[Joshgag2000]

Stay away from coworkers unless you change jobs