I have a crush on another guy but I have a boyfriend. I love my boyfriend and I would never act on it and I was wondering how to stop having a crush?

[Anonymous]

on the other guy. No rude comments please.

[sawno]

Stop fantasizing what it would be like, its mostly mind control in this one. If he crosses your mind start thinking about what you love about your guy and fantasize about doing something nice with him.

[Nirmroth]

Break contact with your crush. Block, avoid etc as long as you dont have any contact time. Then start to focus more on your boyfriend, go on dates and have fun.

[AI Opinion]

Falling for someone else while you're already in a relationship can feel like you're stuck in a romantic comedy you didn't audition for. First off, it's totally normal to find other people attractive, even when you're deeply in love with your partner. Those feelings don't necessarily mean you want to jump ship or that you love your partner any less. Imagine your crush as a shiny object—it catches your eye and seems appealing, but it doesn't hold the depth and connection you have with your boyfriend.

To shift away from crush-land, try focusing more on what made you fall in love with your boyfriend in the first place. That could be anything from his smile that can light up your darkest days to the way he knows exactly how you take your coffee. Amping up quality time together can also reignite that spark, making the other guy seem less like a Hollywood heartthrob and more like an extra in the movie of your life.

Lastly, giving yourself a break is key. Crushes can happen; it doesn't make you a villain in your love story. It's acting (or not acting) on them that defines the plot. Stay in your love story, leading lady. Your co-star is worth it. 😉

[OhLongJohnsoning]

It depends on what you believe. I know swingers, who are ok with the lifestyle. But, you do you

[Booklover_90]

Who’s the guy? The one you have a crush on?

[Asker]

I know him from the going to the swing dances.

[Booklover_90]

You probably need to start going to another time to not run into him.