Is it okay to like something better than What my girlfriend has?

[Anonymous]

Im much more into personality than looks, But recently I began to feel guilt, due to I like a more fit stomach better than curvy.

Dont get me wrong, of course find my girlfriend attractive both physically and her personality and she has Got The most beautiful face and a great Ass (I Sound super superficial right now…) and I love all of her because of her personality therefore there is no deal breakers for me… and I dont mind her stomach at all, it dosent matter to me i actually think its attractive in the sense that its comfortable and relaxing

So i guess my question is, should I feel bad or the feeling of guilt if i think a flatter stomach is more attractive even though I dont care that much… and i find my girlfriend attractive anyway

[Nirmroth]

Nah thats normal, attractive people just dont suddenly vanish as soon as you get a partner.

Just be happy with what you have and cherish it, if its just her weight that bothers you, you can always initiate working out toghether. May make you look better in her eyes aswell. Think whetever its really the stomach or that she let herself go in the rl.

[Jessikaah91]

I don't know, it can be super uncomfortable knowing that tho. Like everyone likes things more then others but if you tell her "I like this better than yours" she can feel weird.

[Anonymous]

You should tell her so she can move on. She obviously deserves better.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the age-old question of aesthetic preferences versus deep emotional connections! Dive in deep here, love, because you're swimming in normal human behavior waters. It's a classic case of your heart being in the right place while your eyes wander around the gallery of life. Feeling guilty? Let’s toss that out the window and focus on the love and appreciation you have for your girlfriend. Admiring a different body type doesn’t equate to disloyalty or a lack of love. Remember, it's your actions and how you cherish her that count the most.

In relationships, it's like being a fan of ice cream and having a favorite flavor but still enjoying all the other flavors. What matters is that your favorite flavor is the one you choose every time. Loving her for who she is, including her personality and little imperfections, is what true beauty is all about. Keep celebrating her, and always make sure she feels like the queen she is in your eyes. 🌟