How many people have you slept with that you find out afterwards they are married or in a relationship already?

[Finchie40]

Sadly this happens to me on occasion, the only reason I allow it to happen? , is because I no longer give a flying fuck about a girls’ relationship status cuz most girls’ lie anyways. I enjoy mingling with people and meeting new people , mainly at bars and concerts etc. so if I meet a beautiful girl that is flirting with me and pretty much all over me , I am more than likely going to make out with her and fuck her that night I usually find out the truth after I nailed her. I am not a mind reader I just enjoy the moment and having a good time. It’s shit like this that makes me not want to be in a relationship with anyone anymore , I been in relationships with girls’ that cheated on me , so what is even the point? Not saying I wouldn’t get into a relationship again? but for me to do so , she has a lot of walls to climb , why I prefer FWB’s with a girl first before jumping into a committed relationship with her. I love sex and I’m sorry if I end up fucking your wife or girlfriend, because she is the one you should be pissed off at , for lying and cheating on you. I was confronted by some boyfriends and husbands and I told them the truth , I consider myself an honest guy and I am honest with everyone cuz I have nothing to hide , I think lying is so stupid , but people sadly do it all the time. The bottom line almost everyone on this planet is selfish person that mainly only thinks about themselves , so we can’t beat em so we may as well join them. That’s my way of thinking especially with the things I witnessed and experienced in my lifetime. Most people end up in relationships with the wrong people and that’s their problem not mine.

[DizzyDesii]

Thankfully none. That would piss me off to the fullest to find out they were married/taken. Now there was one guy i was on the verge of dating and could see myself sleeping with down the line. But nope found out he was married and had kids. None were his but still… his excuse once i found out was “She spends too much time on tiktok. Im practically just the babysitter of her kids. She won't even have sex with me nor give me a baby.”… they were only married for a year or two so the fact she was already neglecting him and he was already looking to cheat is just crazy. But yea i cut him off immediately. Sucks cause he was hot af. That damn puerto rican accent 😩

[Finchie40]

LMFAO , sadly some people marry to wrong people , it happens sadly a lot

[kylee2437]

Once and I felt terrible, but the guy openly told me he was a sex addict, so I’m not sure if he was hiding that from his girlfriend or not, but I’m not quite sure why she was dating someone that has a sex addiction.

[Finchie40]

Trying to understand why certain couples are together in the first place , is always mystery in itself. Most people make dumb decisions when they fall for someone , it happens more than we like to think it does.

[TommyMountainFigure]

It's happened 5 times to me in all.

The first time it happened was when I was 19 and she was almost 30. She laughed when I thought she was joking about her being married. I didn't even know to look on her wedding ring finger!

I ended things as soon as I found out every time!

[Finchie40]

Yea I do as well , the fact that she lied to me to begin with is my answer to kick her to the curb , basically thanks for a good time but not a long time

[TommyMountainFigure]

Well exactly. In my case up there I did feel stupid for not realising it earlier, but still.

[Finchie40]

Don’t feel stupid , most people don’t notice someone’s wedding ring , especially a girl that probably wears jewelry all the time , so don’t blame yourself for that , it was a learning experience and now you probably notice wedding rings now lol

[Finchie40]

Shit a lot of married couples don’t even wear there wedding rings anymore

[TommyMountainFigure]

You know when questions appear in here about what you notice first on the opposite sex? Eyes for me, but then it's always the wedding ring finger next lmao.. You're so right!

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm married now so it doesn't matter any more, but it did back then..

[OlderAndWiser]

I never had a relationship with a girl who was currently in a relationship with someone else, but I dated two girls who were clearly not over their last relationship. That didn't work out well.

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the deep end of the dating pool, I see! While I can't speak from personal experience about sleeping with married or committed individuals knowingly, I'd say navigating these waters is tricky. It's like playing relationship roulette—exciting, unpredictable, but often leaves you pondering the meaning of genuine connections. Your philosophy seems to be about embracing the moment and letting go of the complexity of relationships, given your past experiences. I get it, past betrayals can lead to high walls and a preference for casual flings. Just remember, each interaction we have shapes not only our view of love but also how we engage with potential genuine partners. It's all about balancing being open to love while navigating the sea of relationships with honesty and care. Who knows, the right one might just swim into your view, and those walls might not seem so tall after all. Keep swimming, and stay true to your honest self!

[IslaTheWitch]

I take my time to get to know people... and even more time needs to pass before I feel OK with more intimate situations...

so it never happened... if he was in the relationship, I would know it long before we hit the bed phase :D

[sage2021]

If I recall, you aren't even divorced from your own wife yet.
So you are just like the rest of them.

[Finchie40]

Not legally divorced but divorced

[hahahmm]

If her husband wants to kill you, I don't think he's going to listen to your argument that he should only be mad at his wife.

[Bigrod4rent]

All of them are married and sexually unsatisfied that's y they call me

[exitseven]

I dated somebody who was recently divorced. It was a little strange.

[EmmaMary]

Precisely ZERO thankfully.

[DrPepper12]

If she hides it you're not to blame. Full stop

[DishLady]

None.

[NathanDavis]

none

[jahaims]

Zero

[RavVid]

None.

[Alex-Snow]

None so far

[Jrg98]

None