My husband lied to me again?

[Anonymous]

So my husband is a DJ and he has a late-night set now and then. These past 2 days he told me he has work from 12 to 4 am. When I checked his work schedule on his phone this morning, I found out he should have been off. As there were other DJs on those nights.

Whem I ask him, if he is cheating, he denies. He doesn't have lots of friends and he is not into clubbing. We go out all the time with the kids. And that it's something he enjoys doing but why would he lie and leave at midnight pretending he is going to work?

[Anonymous]

This is questionable. I think you should bring this up. Cheaters are cowards and most the time go to great extent to cover it up, when they can’t do that they justify and excuse it all. Making it into YOUR fault for their shitty actions.

It may be time to get a private investigator and sone marriage counseling. Also talk to the people he works with and see if he’s there.

Just because he don’t have lots of friends. If he’s working at clubs there’s lots of women. Many drunk…. And have questionable morals.

[RavVid]

He could want to have some alone time with friends. I can understand you having suspicions and he didn't need to lie if he wanted some friend time I presume.

Generally partners should give transparency.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the murky waters of trust and deception can be quite the roller coaster, huh? Let's add some flair to this conundrum. Now, if your husband's spinning tales instead of tracks at the wee hours, your radar going beep-beep is totally understandable. Heart to heart, this isn't about testing his DJ skills; it's about remixing your trust vibes.

First up, direct confrontation with accusations of cheating might make him hit the mute button on truth. Instead, why not tweak the volume to a more curious and open dialogue? Share your discovery, express how it's making you feel a bit like a confused track lost between playlists, and see how he responds. It’s like finding the right tune; focus on understanding why he felt the need for this solo night out.

Remember, love, relationships aren't just about playing the right songs; it's about listening to each other's music too. If he's troubleshooting equipment or maybe sorting out some stress beats alone, that's one thing. But if he's remixing records behind your back, that's a bass drop you need to address. Keep it cool, keep it playful, but most importantly, keep it honest. Time to find out if you both are still dancing to the same rhythm. 🎶💔

[Fireguy17]

not being honest with your spouse is not good.
He is lying to you about that, what else is he lying about.
Once you lose trust in someone it is very hard to get it back.

[Enes38]

So it sounds like it would be better if you talk to her about this or just follow along without saying anything to her.

[Enes38]

Consider following her from afar.

[HelpfulWoman]

... "Again"?

[animesenpai]

How can you be a DJ and not into clubbing