Why do some men find whores attractive despite having a good wife/girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

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Whores as in hookers/prostitutes

[Apple1996]

They use good girls to marry but really want sex with bad girls. It's really disgusting tbh. Like they should just go after bad girls if that's what they want in the first place and stop using good girls

[PeachyPie93]

Men are disgusting pigs that usually don't know how to control their lust for woman. Some man do but a lot of men don't.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the heart's desires and the mind's curiosity can be like a rollercoaster ride in the dark, my friend! When it comes down to the question of attraction, it's a labyrinth of personal fantasies, repressed desires, and sometimes, a quest for the thrill of the forbidden or the unknown. Attractiveness isn't always about who someone is with; it can also be about exploring different aspects of their sexuality or fulfilling unmet needs within their current relationship. The word "whore" is pretty loaded and carries a lot of societal judgments, but the essence of your question seems to be about why some people are drawn to experiences outside their primary relationship. It's a tale as old as time—sometimes it's the adventure, sometimes it's the escape, and other times, it's about seeking validation or excitement. Communication, understanding each other's needs, and keeping the spice alive are key to navigating these waters. It's all about diving deep into the heart and mind to understand those complex emotions and desires. Keep the conversation open and the judgment at bay, and you're on your way to understanding the human condition a bit better.

[OlderAndWiser]

Having a wife or a girlfriend does not mean that other women are no longer attractive, That is a myth which women choose to believe so that when their guy looks at another female for more than two seconds, they can portray themselves as the victim of "cheating."

[DishLady]

Some guys don’t get enough, physically, at home, so rather than deal with that and manage their expectations by sharing explicit details about their needs with their wife (perhaps bc wifey has been put on the “mom” or “trophy wife” pedestal), they just set out and look elsewhere… especially for kinky stuff they don’t think their wifey would like.


Is it wrong? Yes. There’s no justification for cheating on a wife/girlfriend/any relationship that’s supposed to be monogamous.

[AviatorTom]

I'm not sure guys find "working women" attractive... it's more like they are "available", possibly for things the guy may not get elsewhere.

[Anonymous]

Cause regardless of what they do, sex for money, she can still get a man off. Especially if she’s cute. Bottom line regardless of what she’s doing, she’s still a female. Men love women. A lot of times it has nothing to do w having a good wife or girlfriend, it’s purely a justice thing as far as finding her attractive. She could have the shittiest attitude but it’s looks that bring a man in. The attitude is what will make or break a relationship. I’ve met hot women who I’d fuck but never date because they have a bad attitude. There’s even things we call hate fucks. Like a girl you can’t stand but she’s hot as fuck that you’d still nail her. Might be a rough fuck at that. Like you hate her so you just rail her as hard as you can but she’s hot so it turns you on. Don’t know if that makes sense. It could also be that he’s not getting what he needs at home. A lot of women think everything is grand, that they’re the best wife or girlfriend when they’re really not. A lot of times these men won’t tell her the truth cause it’s going to turn into a big scene. So men tend to keep their mouths shut. In general a lot of men in society keep their mouth shut, we let women get away w saying stupid things or doing stupid things. Even if she is a good girlfriend or wife, a man’s brain doesn’t shut down that part of being attracted to other women. How do you expect a man to just completely dismiss that there’s millions of women on this planet that are as hot if not hotter than his girl?

[Skinhead-1979]

You mean 'Working Girls'?

Why not? They are still women.

Admittedly I would never go to one... though I do find it a really positive thing that the girls offer their services to men and women; and wherever it hasn't been done already their profession should be legalised... but they are attractive.

[Anonymous]

there's a difference between sexual desirability and relationship desirability

whores can still be physically attractive but that doesn't mean men want to commit their time, energy, resources and love to her

for example Amber Heard is an attractive woman. yes she's batshit crazy and a cheater too and she is still very good looking. it's foolish if a man puts a ring on her finger though

[katiesmuff]

Some whores are quite beautiful and have very wet and succulent open pussies which tricks those weak men into inserting their dicks in those pussies. Then they find out that they have just destroyed several lives.

[BetaBucks]

Straight men find attractive women to be attractive. That doesn't mean we like those women or want to sleep with them.

[dustybiker2]

The sex is probably better than some wives know how to respond or suggest.

[icedragoom]

Depend what do you define as a whore cause thats a very broad term here

[icedragoom]

there's a many reasons why there.
1. The love is not there in the relationship any more and just fell out of love
2. Have just the same sex every night has gotten stale and it does not excite him anymore and they know what your into and you will shoot down what he wants so he seeks to get that fun some where else it does not mean he does not like you
3. Some do it for the thrill of it.
4. The girl is not giving him any and he is sexually starved and is going to get it some where.

[DrPepper12]

Means, motive, opportunity.
Novelty, thrill of chase, taboo, ego, infatuation, peer pressure, easy score, and a million other reasons I can't think of right now

[OddBeMe]

It’s the lifestyle.

Funny how serial killers HATE hookers…but use their services compulsively. Until their compulsion makes them kill. But they hate them because they love them so much. Makes sense….

[Friendlybro79]

I don't think you can help to find someone attractive but you can just acknowledge that and it be nothing more to it.

[Anonymous]

Who are you to say who, and what is a whore?

[Asker]

Please read the update whore as in hookers and prostitute

[avery58]

Why are people so sensitive about that word? If anyone is confident in their life choices as they say they are and don't need to explain anything to anyone then if shouldn't bother them, it's not like it's a racial slur or something

[Dongie]

The way a person has blessed in the looks department doesn't come down to a decision. They find them how they are.

[Julian7312]

I find lots of women including prostitutes attractive. That doesn't mean I actually want to have sex with them

[Anonymous]

Same reasons some women find some douchebag attractive despite having husband/boyfriend.

[Cheerfull009]

Whores and sluts are always more attractive as they are free and ready always to go for sex

[zombiewoof]

Maybe the wife is vanilla

[Staximus]

Whores n' stuff

[handsomelad70]

They're randy a**holes.

[Anonymous]

They are simple, shutup and fuck.

[war_daddy]

it's called boredom