Sometimes I can't stand my boyfriend, what should I do?

[suzzy]

We don't have big fights, but he often does things that hurt or annoy me to the point where I don't want to be around him. He considers me his best friend, but I can't see him that way. When I'm happy or sad, I share my feelings with someone else because he doesn't seem to care.

[Anonymous]

So I thought you were a teenager, but no you’re not. Only a few options, stay w him, be miserable. Or leave but risk not finding someone else at your age. That’s the reality of it. I’m not saying it’s impossible to find someone, but at that age a lot more challenging. What exactly does he do that annoys or hurts your feelings?

[lightbulb27]

he doesn't know how to be vulnerable, listen and empathize... it sounds like.

he can make effort to learn... might mean some therapy sessons to dig through his emotional damage (we all have it) or why he is shutting down... often not fruitful and multiple rounds of effort, or just make effort to do that on his own, read, talk to helpful guys that have successful relationships.

else accept him as is...

else trade him in at Boyfriends Are Us for a new one.

[itsannalee]

If you are really not happy, just leave him.


Being in a toxic relationship will only destroy his emotions and mood. But if someone u shared with is also a guy, that could be also the reason u canmt find a peace in your boyfriend.



There is no friendship between a man and a woman, unless one of them likes the friend.

[suzzy]

I'm happy but sometimes I feel irritated

[rosemilk]

okay, but do you say anything to him when he hurts or annoys you or seems like he doesn't care? you need to speak up so he can correct his behavior so you don't feel like that. then, after you've exhausted that and he still doesn't change, then break up

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the choppy waters of love, huh? It sounds like you’re dancing on the thin ice of love and irritation. Communication is key, darling! Your feelings are like a hot cup of tea, meant to be shared with the one who promises to hold it carefully. Perhaps it’s time for a heart-to-heart where you lay out your feelings like a deck of cards. If he truly sees you as his best friend, he’ll want to understand and adjust his sails. Remember, relationships are about growing together, not apart. If the gap feels more like a canyon than a crack, seeking a third-party perspective (like a relationship coach 😉) might help bridge that gap. Whatever route you choose, make sure it leads to your happiness. Love is supposed to uplift, not weigh down. Keep that sparkle in your eye and choose what's best for your heart!

[black]

Honestly, if you’re feeling this way, it’s worth talking to him about it. It sucks when someone doesn’t seem to care about your feelings, especially someone who’s supposed to be your partner. You don’t have to have big fights for there to be an issue. Maybe he doesn’t realize how his actions are affecting you, so bringing it up might help. But if you’ve already tried that and nothing’s changed, it might be time to rethink things. You deserve someone who’s gonna be there for you, for real.

[AviatorTom]

It's important to know the difference between love and like. In any good relationship, the partners love each other, but they don't always like each other. When they don't like, it's perfectly 9ksy to get some space, talk with others, do whatever you want.

[V_Injector]

Who's someone else... other men?

What advice would you give a man who actually thinks he can make a woman happy all of the time and in every way?

I mean think about that, because that's what you seem to expect.

[bjork]

It sounds like there’s a disconnect in your relationship, and that can be super draining. First, ask yourself if this is a phase or if it's been going on for a while. If he’s not meeting your emotional needs, it’s important to talk to him about it, but do it when you’re calm. Be honest about how you’re feeling, and see if he’s willing to listen and make some changes. Relationships are about mutual respect and effort, and if he’s not putting in the work, it’s okay to question if this is the right fit for you.

[blunty]

It sounds like you’re really frustrated with how things are going. If he’s not making you happy or you feel like he doesn’t care, it’s okay to put yourself first. Think about what you need and deserve in a relationship. You shouldn’t feel this way all the time.

[Jamesukmale]

If he’s not your best friend and and he doesn’t care about your feelings then in my opinion youse are not the one for each other you both need to be with someone that cares about each other and are best friends Both these things come natural with true love for a partner

[morganherrel]

Have a candid conversation to him about this problem and give him a chance to improve.

Then you have to decide if being with him is better than being alone (or better than trying your luck in the dating market again)

[EmmaMary]

Surely you are old (45) and big enough to know and make your own decisions. smh

[noohair]

Men decide if the 80% good in a relationship is worth the 20% bad and take the 80% and deal with the 20%. Women take the 80% and go to work on the 20%. Result, broken relationships because the only person you have any chance of changing is yourself.

[Account]

Be more specific what does he do that hurts you or annoys you?

[osmanthus]

It might be time to consider breaking up with your boyfriend.

[Vanny20]

Relationship is a collective task and not an individual task, sit him or her down, then have a one on one conversation that would lead to a formidable relationship

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe you need to find a new boyfriend. Or at least talk to him about these feelings.

[marialovee]

Definitely dump him sis. That's what I did when I didn't like things about a guy I was involved with.

[PetiteMisSmooth546]

Next time you two fuck push four fingers up his butt and bite his egg

[DrPepper12]

🚩🚩🚩🚩 Sounds like this is on the one way train to Nowhere

[Boulemakh]

If he keep ignoring your warnings then you should leave him.

[Anonymous]

i never have times when i can't stand my boyfriend. if i did, i would not be with that person

[MyBrainsInsaneReign]

You kinda seem like you've answered your own question.

Dump your boyfriend.

Do you have any reason at all to stay with him?

[Crazzyyworld]

Stop playing angel then you will feel better and tell him that you are not an angel

[Alwayreckles93]

Let me he must be a mommas boy.

[suzzy]

ok kinda...

[Alwayreckles93]

That explains a lot. I dated one in the past. They will never changed all a men child all he will ever do is stress you out and make everything about his momma. Break it off.

[NathanDavis]

get a better boyfriend

a true one

[snowboarder720]

Wow he sounds like an ass hole.

[katiesmuff]

Maybe he just isn't the right guy for you!

[Anonymous]

Get on your knees and submit to him

[Peridot25]

Who raised you?

[Opinion Owner]

@Peridot25 a woman who wasn't a jezebel

[Peridot25]

@Opinion Owner I bet you have your mom blow you too, don’t you? You like incest?

[Opinion Owner]

@Peridot25 your mother drank with you in the womb

[Staximus]

Sounds like the magic is over

[Anonymous]

I don't know.

[7Phoenix7]

Sit down

[Kingofkings1992]

You sound like a teenager

[Anonymous]

Maybe to him, you don't care either.

[Anonymous]

Find someone else