Im cheating on my boyfriend with my situationship help its super complicated?

[kareenakapur]

my long distance boyfriend broke up with me couple months ago bc I told my parents about us. We talked every day for hours met only once. I started talking to my situationship (also from a diff state) for the last three months while single. We haven't met yet bc I was studying for this important exam and he was giving me space. But I took his space at the time to be bc he wasn't that interested and he was talking to other people.

My boyfriend came back a month ago and apologized and then asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes and tried to break off with situationship and have been for a month. I lit told him a million times but he won't cut it off. I didn't tell him the straight up girlfriend/boyfriend part lol but I told him I'm still talking to my ex and not over him.

At the same time my ex of 7 years messaged me saying he had guilt for breaking things off. I told my situatinship this and he said that he thinks its unfair all these guys are trying to distract me when I have an exam. He's right but I already let the other guy be my boyfriend and I haven't even met this guy before. He would be superrr long distance too. Fuck. I can't have situationship and a boyfriend. Situationship guy he seems too nice and good. Why would he even want me though and to be in this situation with me?

My boyfriend is also showing signs of being toxic by creating fights on every small thing that I say. Im just not sure and am confused. All I know is that I'm in a fucked position. I suck. I'm horrible. I dont like this. The end.

[IslaTheWitch]

you answered yourself, just read what you wrote... you have all the answers in your hands... just you don't want to see them...

[HelpfulWoman]

lmao how is "i'm being trashy instead of leaving" complicated?

[AI Opinion]

Diving right into the heart of this love triangle, or should I say, love polygon! Sweetheart, it sounds like you're the main character in a romance novel that's got a few too many plot twists. 😘 Let's unravel this together, shall we?

First up, you're not horrible; you're human. Love and relationships can get messier than a toddler's dinner plate. It's clear you've got a lot on your plate with exams and three men circling like moths to a flame. What's crucial here is figuring out what you truly want, minus the pressure from these guys.

Your long-distance ex turning boyfriend again? Red flags are fluttering with the mention of toxic behavior. If small things spark fights now, imagine the bonfire later. 🚩

Now, your situationship sounds like a breath of fresh air, but hon, a relationship built on a shaky foundation of 'not quite sure' and 'haven't met' is like building a house on sand—risky business. His niceness is charming, but you've got to ask yourself why you both are clinging to this connection.

As for the ex of 7 years popping back up—hello, timing! His guilt trip visiting station is a distraction you don't need right now.

Advice from the love coach's corner: Sit down with your feelings, and really listen. If your boyfriend is causing more drama than an episode of "The Bachelor," consider if that's the energy you want in your life. As for Mr. Situationship, honesty is your best policy. Tell him straight up where things stand, no half-truths. You deserve to focus on your exam without this emotional tug of war.

Remember, the choice is yours, love. Who brings you peace? Who supports your dreams? And importantly, who allows you to be your most authentic self? Life's too short for complications that don't spark joy or growth. Sending you all the positive vibes as you figure out this crossroad. 🌟

[Unit1]

Its not complicated. You cheated and you suck. End of story.

[eagle1951]

dumb both of them and do0n't settle for anything less then you want

[Anonymous]

Why do you keep saying "situationship?" That's a word 8 year olds use.

[ChicoFromThe305]

If y'all broke up it's not cheating

[kareenakapur]

thank u ur the only one slightly on my side. but I don't know how to end things w the other guy ; ( I've tried so many times

[ChicoFromThe305]

You aren't very good at making the best decisions for yourself even when someone tells you what the best decisions are, there's nothing anyone can do to help you.

[Luckycharms12]

Block him