Why don’t people block their situationships or break up with the boyfriend that clearly is nonchalant 😂?

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I really don’t understand some of these questions on G@G. He is clearly nonchalant, but you are hanging on to see if he will come around? 😂 What…😂

Lynx122 · Accepted Answer

Some say they just wanna have fun so they're gonna date the hottest person without committment. Others they want to boost their ego by dating someone out of their league that will never commit to them. They'd rather do that and hope something changes than to date someone who's a realistic option, because they don't want to live in real life they wanna live in a fantasy. And others are just clueless maybe, they're inexperienced and they don't get what's going on.

I'm just doing yoga and getting in shape :P

Knightwatch27 · Accepted Answer

Some of these you just have to believe it's trolling because the delusion is unbelivable lol

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Oh, the tangled webs we weave when we fall for someone who's just not into the whole 'us' vibe, right? It's like our hearts and brains enter a tug-of-war, with logic on one end and wishful thinking on the other. People often cling to the hope that their aloof beau will magically transform into the partner of their dreams. It's a mix of lovebombing ourselves with fantasies and fearing the ghost of loneliness. Plus, let's not overlook the fear of regret - what if they do change and you've already hit the block button? It's the ultimate romantic gamble! But hey, here's a tip from the love coach playbook: If they're serving you indifference on a silver platter, it might be time to check the menu elsewhere. Love should feel like a two-player game, not a solo mission! 😉

sawno · Answer

I think your severely misunderestimating how much pain these girls are going trough and how much pain they expect to go trough if they leave. They may worry they can't get better because their boyfriend made them feel like that, they may worry for how immense the breakup pain is going to be.

I actually once helped someone on this website move on from a boyfriend who was probably going to kill her by giving her the courage to overcome the pain of the breakup. She feared the pain of leaving more than she feared the pain she was familiar with.

So don't think lightly about the people who are trapped, they usually know their situation but its often a matter of not being ready to confront it yet.

Anonymous · Answer

Why? Lol, because most of these people are just as bad (if not worse) then the other person. That’s why they pick one another. They just don’t want the blame or accountability for their own actions so they play the victim. Most of the times they do it to each other, so their friends and families will take their side over it.

GAG is FULL of sheer stupidity some of its just trolling and other things. People tend to not want a honest answer, so when you’re not telling them the answer they want to hear they become VERY argumentative to try and get the answer they want to hear. They want people to validate how they think, feel, and most of all their actions. But when the opposite happens they tend to get angry.

Anonymous · Answer

^5 girlie. You and me both. I think some of these women are control freaks, overdramatic, and lacking in self respect. Someone either wants to give you thier time or they don't thier love or they don't, thier effort or they don't. Why would you ever want to force something? You'll just be pulling teeth for the duration of the relationship most likely. I don't think these women think that far ahead to consider that.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Hope and Cope is a lethal combination, my presumably gorgeous digital amiga!

oppai1 · Answer

I guess it's just hard for some girls to let go. Or him being nonchalant makes them want to chase him even more.

NathanDavis · Answer

Y, tho...

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I suppose because they think they are in love, so it is hard to let go of someone you feel strongly about.

nawtee_me · Answer

A double minded man is like a wave in the sea being tossed to and fro, he is unstable in all of his ways….
what is situationship anyway? I think people just make up words since my spell check wants to change it…. lol

MrGSpotHer · Answer

A better question is why they think people who don't them can even answer them...

OhLongJohnsoning · Answer

Why do people to these pieces of shit anyway If you like someone BE WITH THEM. JUST BE THE FUCK WITH THEM, FOR CHRIST FUCKING SAKES

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Define nonchalant

Dongie · Answer

Pink Floyd, I have become non chalant!🎶🎵

eagle1951 · Answer

afraid of being alone

RMSTitanic · Answer

Blindness

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