Why does my boyfriend avoid conflict?

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serious · Accepted Answer

Well that is because one he doesn't want to hurt or say anything that would be hurtful and second he doesn't want a conflict that will open the door to break up.

Simple. Hence certain things if avoided will actually yield good results.

However, yes avoiding everything and not communicating is equally bad

The_Maphio · Accepted Answer

Because most often than not, it's not necessary and only builds up stress.
We all have our problems, and gathering more is last in our priority list. If you're angry about something serious it's a thing, otherwise see you tomorrow.

19magic · Accepted Answer

I hate conflict I often run from it and avoid it so much so, that in the past when I was served raw chicken, I wanted someone else to complain about it because I don't like being negative

PaynefulPleasures · Accepted Answer

He probably doesn't want say anything he might regret. If everything is good don't worry about it ✌️

Anonymous · Answer

Women love starting conflict, men hate it. It's never a winning situation, because women don't argue fair, they argue emotionally and use a lot of bullshit tactics and lies, it's just easier for guys to avoid it. If a woman wants to sit down and talk rationally, we are all for that, but women tend to use blaming tactics etc, they don't want to hear what the guy has to say, they just want to vent, which is not a discussion.

kingjulienstoe · Answer

I can say for myself, that I tend to avoid conflict because as a child I grew up with it. So it stresses me out. However, it may just be as simple as he doesn't feel like arguing.

ohshee · Answer

Because he's mature and he understands the conflict isn't going to solve anything communication will but not being pissed off and being loud that doesn't solve anything

slatyb · Answer

You are young. This can be a result of being raised in a home with a lot of conflict. I also hate conflict. Happily my wife and I never fight, have not in all the time we've been together.

Siren777 · Answer

He doesn't like conflict as it causes more problems.

jasco · Answer

Some dudes simply don't like it because its annoying and hard to understand, even more so when arguing with a women ( depends on the type of woman )

princeofromance · Answer

I think it is good that your boyfriend avoids conflict. He just wants what is best for you and the relationship. He does not want to disturb the peace and harmony. That is a good boyfriend in my opinion.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Because conflict is unpleasant. It's stressful and often doesn't accomplish very much.

exitseven · Answer

Lets face it, most conflict is not fun at all. He sounds pretty intelligent.

kkirk4442 · Answer

Some people are very poor at dealing with conflict. He may be one such person.

EmotionOfFear · Answer

Who wants to WALK INTO conflict? If you're always starting conflict, of course he'll want to keep dodging it.

Peter0076 · Answer

Because maybe you are just searching conflict like many women... Because, finally, girl always do what they want. They always try to change men's mind and they don't really listen men

Anonymous · Answer

He doesn't like stress and finds that it accomplishes little, if anything at all.

blondfrog · Answer

Probably because he knows how stupid conflict is and he is smart like me.

EaterPeter · Answer

Guys do that. It's loose loose situation for us. We run as soon we see first sign of emotion.

oncpl · Answer

He is a wise and sincere, doesn't want to create unpleasantness.

Anonymous · Answer

We hate being in the middle while both sides pulling out fucking arms 😠.

sheikalana · Answer

He doesn't like to argue or confrontation.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Maybe he's afraid of losing contact with you

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Because conflict sucks?

RCLJT · Answer

He doesn’t like drama.

JamieLoves · Answer

Because, you Love it !

Wise4myage · Answer

He might be afraid to stand up for himself?

Pogi-Paddy-2 · Answer

Bare bones, he is a smart guy.☯️

anylolone · Answer

Same reason as chicks.

jahaims · Answer

How would we know

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

wouldn't you?

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