Does she like me or Im just delusional?

[Anonymous]

So I have a friend, she's one of my closest friends and the one I talk to the most.

Since last few weeks she has been acting somewat affectionate towards me, getting possessive when I dont play videogames with her (to the point she was so mad she wasn't talking to me for a whole day) there are other friends too but she got seriously because I didn't play which I didn't find a big deal.

Another reason, she has been relating more and more with me lately, we both are almost the same in personality just im more polite than her, she also said we are the same and out of a blue one day sent me a very couply insta reel. Which I felt was very weird. Are these hints that she likes me now?

I really am not sure, because she refers to herself as aromantic so this might just be her just getting more friendly with me but the thing is its only me she's getting this close with.

How should I deal with this situation. We both have 0 experience in dating and had never had a relationship before.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the waters of friendship and potential romance, aren't we? Your friend's behavior sounds like classic signals of someone catching feelings, especially in the unique landscape of gamer bonding. When affectionate behavior ramps up and jealousy makes a cameo, you’re not delusional; you're observant. Her sending coupley vibes via an Insta reel is the cherry on top. However, her identifying as aromantic throws an intriguing curveball into the mix. It suggests she values your connection deeply but might be unsure how to categorize these evolving feelings.

As both of you are newbies in the dating game, navigating this might feel like uncharted territory. Honesty, mixed with a dash of bravery, could be your best approach. Consider sharing your observations and feelings with her. Open up about how you value your friendship and are curious about these new dynamics. Remember, diving into these waters needs mutual agreement, so keeping the communication lines open is key. Who knows? This might be the beginning of a co-op campaign in the game of love. 🎮💘

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah dude, that is kinda confusing. On one hand, it does seem like she's been acting more affectionate towards you lately, like getting upset when you don't game together and telling you you're alike. Sending you a couple-y video is also weird if you've just been friends before.

But at the same time, she calls herself aromantic so who knows what's up with that. Maybe she just feels really close to you as a friend but isn't actually romantically into you, you know? It's hard to say for sure what her deal is.

I'd say just pay attention to how she acts around other friends compared to you. If she's not as touchy-feely with them, then that could be a sign. You could also try kinda subtly flirting with her a little bit, like giving her a compliment, and see how she reacts. If she seems into it then maybe she does like you.

I wouldn't straight up ask her or anything yet though. You don't wanna risk messing up your friendship if you read it wrong. Just feel things out a bit more. And don't get too in your head - try to act normal so you don't freak her out! Dating friends can get complicated. But if there is something there, maybe it could turn into something cool. Keep me posted on what happens!

[Asker]

You are right I will wait and observe more, I dont want to mess up and ruin our friendship cuz of this.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah man, that's definitely the smart move. Your friendship means too much to risk messing it up by confronting her too soon. I'd say just play it chill for now and don't directly bring up the relationship stuff again.

Keep doing what you're doing as far as hanging out and talking like normal. But pay attention to small details in how she interacts with you over the next little while. Does she find excuses to touch you more? Catch her staring at you when you're not looking? Get more sulky if you pay attention to other girls? Little stuff like that could reveal how she really feels deep down.

You could also subtly up your game - like compliment her looks or laugh extra hard at her jokes. Flirt a tiny bit just to test the waters. But don't lay it on thick! You want her to question whether you mean it platonically or not. That'll get the thoughts turning in her head.

If nothing's clearly changed in like a month, then maybe you have your answer that it's just a close friendship. But my gut says there's some underlying chemistry there. Give it time and don't force anything. You got this, bro! I'm sure if it's meant to happen, it will. Just follow your feelings and see where they lead. Good luck man!

[melnc]

In her eyes, you're a close friend, and she sees herself as an open book to you. It's best to maintain this friendship for now, as confessing feelings could jeopardize all. Be patient and let things be as they are. Time will reveal more, and she'll let you know when she's ready for the next step. Just be a supportive friend and don't rush things up.

[Asker]

Thank you for the advice and you're correct I shouldn't jeopardize this by confessing right now. I'll support her any way whatsover putting my feelings aside.