On a scale of 1 to 10, how important is having a similar sense of humor to you in a relationship?

[HawkPerception]

[DizzyDesii]

Extremely. So like 9/10. I have a light hearted sense of humor and bubbly energy. I've dated sarcastic assholes and guys with a sense of dark humor. Maaaajor turnoff. Im not even into that vdieo game banter type talk. I want someone who knows when to laugh and when its not called for. I dont want someone whose rude not picking at disabled people and so on. I’m still disgusted by one exes behavior in torturing homeless people “for fun”.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

In the last sentence, I don't think the word dark humor even qualifies here... more like psychopathic personality 😆

[DizzyDesii]

@Maybe_Maybe_not oh he was def giving that as well

[DizzyDesii]

Thanks for mho :)

[sage2021]

For me I would prefer it to be a 10 like it was with my late boyfriend. And yes, I mean later as he passed away last year.💔

[Summeroflove]

I think it’s important but it genuinely depends on the relationship, I think if someone’s too offended by the others sense of humor though it may just not be meant to be.

It’s amazing to have a relationship that you can genuinely laugh together but every person is different as well as what they’re looking for.

As for myself, I would say it’s pretty important to have a similar sense of humor. It would be hard if she was offended by my humor or vice versa I was too offended by hers. At the end of the day if we just had different humor but we had many other things that were the same it could definitely work.

[ariadneR]

I think it's very important. You have to be able to laugh with your partner, be friends with them. Otherwise your relationship will be very boring

[CuriousHubby]

7

Pretty important to make them laugh also! It might not match but you two have to laugh together at things!

[Unit1]

3/10

It's a nice to have but not what makes/breaks a relationship.

Point being - in a situation, where i was stuck in an abusive and dictatorship environment, the last thing I wanted was sense of humor and laughter and the top most priority thing for me was getting TF outta there. I escaped in spring 2022 and I sure as hell didn't do it using sense of humor.

[PeachyPie93]

8/10 it would be nice to be able to enjoy laughs with each other

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

which would depend, loosely, on which type of humor you're both entertained by.. So, do you have a vague idea of which type, or even a clear idea?

[PeachyPie93]

@Maybe_Maybe_not I don't know, I like dark humour, I like goofy stupid humour, I like most humour as long as it is actually funny lol

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Sounds like you know, after all, precisely👌🏼

[ICanSmellTheCosmos]

5/10 for a must.

8/10 for a nice to have.

I love a girl who can joke like one of the boys, but I'd be content at minimum with one who isn't a sourpuss and looking to be offended by everything.

[Mwolf]

8/10. Luckily my guy can take a fucking joke.

[MicahRaine]

4/10

It's a great plus, but humor isn't going to make or break a relationship (most of the time)

[MrOracle]

I need my girl to have a sense of humor - she doesn't have to be funny herself, but she at least has to recognize when something is said with intended humor, and she can't be easily offended by everything. That's what matters.

[faith_it]

As long as you make me laugh it's all good. Not that being funny is very important to me but yeah it's nice to have a funny SO

[blakebreen]

10, very important. humor is ur personality and when u joke, u want that person to have similar style.

[yulbsari]

It's important, but many times it's used as a weapon masking deep resentment and anger.

[SunnyGirly]

10 because laughing is fun and important

[Huntingnfishin]

Somewhere around a 12

[LiamJHayden]

10/10. Essential

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Quite important !

[tzdc21]

10/10

[lexie_xo]

9 out of 10

[soe11]

10/10

[Dongie]

7.5.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

[noohair]

Ten!