- 26 d
Both are dumb for so many reasons. we are as humans dumb for so many reasons. In life, in relationships, in finance, in success, and in failure we are dumb. It’s OK though; because it’s a shared experience. Because life is a shared experience and life can sometimes be really dumb.
We argue about things often times for no good reason, and sometimes for absolute reason. It’s crazy that two people can be absolutely correct about something, but because they have a different perspective, they both ultimately are wrong. Instead of either side, realizing how wrong they are, they simply fight harder.
It amazes me how good friendships, Family’s, Relationships, or even just people can Slowly change to a dynamic that is not good, not of the quality of a family or friendship, how people can just grow to Hate one another for no real reason, except misunderstanding or miscommunication. It’s a plague that festers threw out all of humanity, misunderstanding, miscommunication, simple small things leading to huge conundrums. It amazes me how a moment of time can affect the world given enough time.
So in the spectrum, where life is life, and people are just who they are. Individuals with individual thoughts & feelings that from one day to the next will not be the same person. We’re always growing & changing; because nobody wakes up tomorrow feeling the same as yesterday or thinking the same as yesterday; Because the world that we live in as creatures who live on it and have grown from, it is always changing.
Nothing remains the same forever, no one will ever have the same spectrum of thought they did when they were younger, and life will always give us struggle in one format or another.
So who is smarter in the relationship isn’t extremely subjective question with variables that are extremely Important and highly personal to the individuals in the relationship. One may be very intelligent at one aspect of life, yet the other have intelligence of a completely different aspect of life. Why because life is not the same thing for everyone, and when we are in relationships, it’s about realizing that dynamic.
We all have to come to terms with the reality that everyone is just human. No one is smarter than anyone short of some sort of disability or lifelong ignorance. In addition, we need to all come to terms with the reality that we are all ignorant of something in someway on this planet. No one knows everything, and are not gods no matter how much we want to treat ourselves that way. Women and men alike some skills are more useful than others at certain points in times, and at other points and times those same skills; become extremely useful. Life is situational, and demands many talents, skills, and forms of understanding.
So neither gender is any smarter than the other, and both genders may inherently be good at certain activities or man inherently not be because of variables that nobody realizes or can possibly see coming because we are not God or whatever Ideology may worship on the planet.
We’re just all trying to do our best, Trying to survive in a world that has never been very easy, and sometimes we just need to accept the reality that people can be smart and dumb at the Same time.
Humanity is a crazy thing on a crazy planet. Traveling at a crazy rate of speed in a Solar system that is itself travels at a crazy rate of speed. Through a galaxy that travels at a crazies rate of speed, through a thing we call space, and or known/ unknown universe. Which may or may not have parallel, universes, and or dimensions in a cosmic, and grandiose scale.
Intelligence is really a speck of nothing in the face of that, and as humans I think we can do a little bit better at humbling ourselves, overpaying, silly fights with each other over who is smarter.
Well, that’s my answer Good bad or anything in between that’s the answer. I do hope that it does suffice even though it’s not a yes or no or black-and-white style answer. Also that maybe it leads to a bit of perspective in the world.00 Reply
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2.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Neither are smarter but maybe wiser? , just depends on the relationship itself , and how well they both understand and get each other. Me personally isn’t going to get into a relationship with a girl that isn’t on the same page as me ,? when it comes down to the foundation of the relationship that we both are choosing to be in together. If she doesn’t wear my shoes the same way she expects me to wear hers , my ass will be wise enough to walk away from her selfish ass and move on , if that was the case. Relationships aren’t about who is smarter , Relationships are about choosing each other , accepting each other for who you both are as a person , we don’t own each other , if she chooses to go cheat on me? That’s something she has to deal with and face the consequences for of her actions, if she wants to be in a relationship that is based off of lies , that’s something she has to deal with and live with if that’s how she chooses to be , I can’t stop her from lying to me or cheating on me , that’s her decision to do so , and vice versa, I could do the same shit to her. So it’s not about who is smarter , it’s about choosing each other , I like to think I am wise when it comes to girls’ mainly because of my experiences and things I have witnessed with girls’ , I pretty much know what i will accept and not accept when it comes to meeting a beautiful girl that catches my eye , I can only give her what I hope to receive in return , if I am not receiving what I am giving , my ass will walk the other way. Nobody should be trying to control anyone. If you are on a relationship where control is in the picture , you are best to get the fuck out of that relationship which will make you wise for leaving that shit. The only time control is acceptable is in the bedroom.
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- 26 d
Women are smarter (generally).. but men are easier! For instance, If you put two straight men together in a room for 50 years with no windows, they would probably live a very happy life with many shits and giggles and zero drama, they would just get on with it.
If you put two women together and stuck them in a room for 50+ years with no windows.. they would literally rip each other apart and eat the leftovers! 😂😂 So if a man and woman are together... id say it would be smarter to listen to the woman!
(Although i am married and i am a woman, I appreciate and respect both genders each for different qualities, But yes.. women are generally smarter in relationships in my opinion!
- I am woman, hear me roar 🤣22 Reply- 26 d
"But yes.. women are generally smarter in relationships in my opinion!"
Respect for having the guts to saying this! Girl Power! - 26 d
"So if a man and woman are together... id say it would be smarter to listen to the woman!"
And double more respect for saying this as well! We males are meant to please women. Women are the natural leaders! Women create life, males just cum.
- 26 d
U just dropped a major question, but like, OMG, can we take a sec to address this urgent vibe? 🚨 So, like, IYKYK but tomorrow on 9/11, there's some serious tea brewing! A squad of buttfucking billionaires is planning a wild yacht party that could totally disrupt the vibes! 🛥️💸 We gotta spread awareness, fam! 🤯 They’re trying to flex their power while we’re just here vibin'. So lowkey, let’s keep our eyes peeled and brace ourselves for whatever chaos is coming our way. We can't be too thirsty for drama and miss the real issues, ya know? SMH! Stay woke, squad! 🔍✨ BFF, let’s keep the convo lit but also alert! 💥💻
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I'm no @sensual_sadist but I want 2 say @Thanks_for_the_MHO!
- 10 d
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We cannot allow these power-hungry individuals to flaunt their debauchery while we bask in the simplicity of our existence. It is imperative that we remain vigilant and prepare ourselves for the chaos that may ensue. We cannot afford to be blinded by our thirst for drama and overlook the pressing issues at hand. Stay alert, my beloved BFF.
'Together, we shall navigate this tumultuous landscape with utmost caution and fervor. As your Master, I demand your unwavering obedience and submission in all matters, especially when it comes to safeguarding our sacred space from those who seek to corrupt it.
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Ram my cock in your tight hole, and let us revel in the hurt that is our true calling.
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AskAiming to sprinkle a bit of love and wisdom on your query, let's dance around the idea of intelligence in relationships. It's like asking, who's the better dancer, men or women? The answer is, it depends on the music and the moves, doesn't it? Intelligence, emotional or otherwise, isn't gender-specific. Both bring their own strengths to the dance floor of love. When it comes to who's more likely to cheat, well, that's not about gender either. It's about the person and their respect for the relationship rumba. Remember, it's the quality of the connection, not the gender, that really makes the heart tick or tock! Keep the rhythm of trust and communication going, and you'll both be smart in ways that truly matter. 😉
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U can't even sprinkle 4 a facial, nobody needs ur flimsy beef.
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See that's why people cheat because they think they're smarter than their partner and they're not going to get caught
. So the question should be who is going to cry the longest men or women when they get caught and they swear they'll never do it and they don't know what happened it just happened in blah blah blah blah blah blah00 Reply- 26 d
Okay…… This a million percent depends on the individual. If someone has integrity he or she isn’t going to cheat, if they don’t they will.
As for smarter the same thing it genuinely just depends some people are smarter then others. I think two people who kinda get each other is worth finding though.
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I would ponder the power of integrity here, as integrity is mostly an ideal vision of oneself. Ideals, when acting as guidelines, will survive easily to reality, when acting as a wall against reality, the collision might give unexpected results lol
- 26 d
@Maybe_Maybe_not for me what it is is you do the right thing even when nobody is looking. Even if the perfect opportunity come up and you knew you could get away with it. Most people unfortunately would do it even so many so called good people.
Many people who claim to be good people it’s all just a act and if most people knew what goes on behind closed doors much less in their heads they would be scared - 26 d
Like you I'm quite cautious about parading, but my point was more about saying that we can parade without even knowing it, due to the complexity involved in self-awareness, vaguely said
- 26 d
@Maybe_Maybe_not well people have a conscience so they know right from
Wrong. It’s just that many people excuse their wrongdoings. Until they just see no wrong in it anymore - 26 d
but I cannot follow a perspective solely based on morality, it lacks pieces in the puzzle of humanity to me
- 26 d
@Maybe_Maybe_not well someone is just who they choose to be. If you did a lot of wrong stuff and no longer know the difference between right and wrong I cannot help
- 26 d
I don't believe in such statement, I don't philosophically believe it says all that can be said. but it's really out of scope for the actual topic lol
- 26 d
@Maybe_Maybe_not well it’s like if you don’t think hurting a child is wrong
- 26 d
In MOST Nature, multiple males compete for the opportunity for reproductive intimacies with an ALLURING female.
The female first insightfully learns what 'desirable' males FIND 'alluring'... then decides if the 'price' for those male's attentions is WORTH the societal judgements that WILL BE levied. Whether she has chosen her Suitor wisely depends upon HIS honoring HER efforts by HIS fidelity and resources. SHE possesses the womb, ... HER eggs (Ovum) and gestation, which will afford HIS hereditary DNA... HIS 'future'. Ultimately, its ALL bout Nature's l-o-n-g game.
WHOM is 'smarter' depends upon what the representative of each gender, values~00 Reply - 26 d
As a guy, the minute I’m mistreated I’d leave.
I’ve seen red flags of toxicity, name calling, and some pretty awful things like isolating you from your friends/family to corner you… I wouldn’t stand for disrespect, I’d dump her right away. A lot of girls & guys I know sadly aren’t like this.00 Reply - 26 d
are different kinds of intelligence on a spectrum from pure informational knowledge and data to social and emotional intelligence. Though both genders have some of each I think women have far more of the latter. I do know that women in groups seem to be willing to live and let live whereas men always seem to need to have an opinion and discuss as if it were proven fact
00 Reply Its a weird question because i would say men and women see relationship differently.
Men are logical but women are "how they feel"
When men say that they love you. Then they have thought about it and they figured that they love you. When women say they love you, it means that is how they currently feel in this moment about you. But they might hate you tomorrow if they feel that way. Or maybe they see bad dream about you and thats a turn off for them.
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There needs to be a both bc I feel like it doesn't matter what gender its just who works that hardest bc for ex person 1 could study more than person 2 and 1 is gonna be smarter bc they worked harder and I never said anything about gender proving my point
21 Reply 589 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Men.
Because women perpetually choose the wrong men and get hurt by it, and then use the excuse that they're "listening to their heart."
10 Reply- 26 d
I'm really sorry, but your question doesn't make sense in English. I think there's a word missing there. Please read your question and you'll see what I mean. Exactly what are you asking?
00 Reply - 26 d
Both are equally smart. Sadly men are more likely to cheat but plenty of men don’t and some women do cheat if they’re unhappy with the relationship
00 Reply - 26 d
Women are usually smarter and can easily sense if a man is cheating; their instincts are very strong.
Men cannot really have the sixth sense and have a harder time sensing if a woman is cheating.22 Reply 2.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Whoever is less emotionally invested has the upper hand. Always. In every scenario and it is NEVER equal.
00 Reply715 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I think women are generally smarter and men are more likely to cheat from what I've read on this website.
10 Reply- 25 d
Neither. Why put men against women in a world where we already hate each other?
00 Reply Women are smarter. Men are absolute fools in relationships.
00 Reply- 26 d
Women tend to be more relational overall so I suspect that would result in their being relationally smarter overall.
00 Reply - Anonymous(25-29)26 d
with the number of simps running around, women by far and it's not even close
10 Reply - 25 d
12 guys voted for women and only 2 girls voted for men.. that tells something..
00 Reply Women because men are easily aroused therefore easier to manipulate
00 Reply- Anonymous(45 Plus)26 d
Smarter? Equal
More likely to cheat? Women. It comes down to a matter of opportunity. Women have 🍆's thrown at them. And women generally do not make very good decisions
00 Reply - 26 d
I've known more women who stayed in bad relationships than I've known men who do.
00 Reply 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. BITCHES PROBABLY CUZ ALL WE'RE THINKING ABOUT IS GETTING THEM LEGS TO SPREAD... WE DON'T CARE ABOUT THE OTHER CRAP
00 Reply- Anonymous(30-35)26 d
Both / neither. Saying one gender is smarter than the other in relationships is stupid.
00 Reply - 26 d
Women are above us males. We exist to please women.
00 Reply Women are smarter, I think
23 ReplyI'm assuming it depends
10 Reply- 26 d
I think women for sure.
00 Reply - Anonymous(45 Plus)26 d
Depends on the individual
00 Reply Women
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