Why get someone else pregnant?

[quickquesocheese]

My ex boyfriends brother and his girlfriend of 12 years broke up a while ago and both parts moved on with there lifes. i knew that there had been talk for a long time inbetween them about starting a family but nothing ever really happend. well, 2 years into my ex boyfriends brothers new relationship he is now going to be a dad.

knowing both him and my ex's behaviour i dont care about what they do with their lifes (although the fact that they are both wife beaters its something that worries me about the kid) its more of a why question as to why he was so quick to start a family so quick with someone else?

[MittParekh15]

Well most of the people who came to earth are unplannwd because someone forgot to pull out on time

Yeah he seems to be preety young, however I know one of my friend who was a dad at 18

It's about when you are ready to take more responsibility

I can comment on your ex boyfriend brother situation, as I don't know his financial situation, maturity etc.. But life evolution on this planet has been in this way only and people do find a way to live

[quickquesocheese]

Insaod nothing about his age, maturity, life, whether is is mature or something, so your opinion means nothing.

[Berethor]

Well he got more mature at this point, also might felt that the new girl is wife material.

[quickquesocheese]

hmm, but no, he didn't. my ex boyfriend said himself that he only started dating her because he couldnt stand being alone after a 12 year long relationship.

[bowenw]

It could be a rebound relationship that he is using to try to get even with his ex.

[quickquesocheese]

Good point. They did meet awfully quick after his old relationship ended. But so did his ex girlfriend also.

[bowenw]

It's sad if it's a rebound relationship and they are having a baby, especially for the baby.

[quickquesocheese]

It truly is.