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I still remember and what I remember are two distinct phases, when I didn't really know her, and then when I really knew her. Knowing her in the definition I had back, which was a rather superficial one when looking back.
At the first phase, during seduction, it was a rather vague feeling I had about her, a vague appreciation of her personality, surface layers of a character. I was 17 so there's that, back then I had a very limited comprehension of what a personality really is. I was mostly acting upon some kind of intuition. I think I felt close enough to engage into seduction specifically because of an inhibition I perceived inside her. I sensed she was holding something and that alone might have explained my attraction, attraction to mystery in fact.
Then the other phase, the longer one and the one more difficult to describe, because I was passionate, passionate enough to be mostly blind about who she really was, enough to stay on a superficial level, in retrospect. Although internally I thought it was very deep, I lived it like that, from my 17yo idealistic perception.
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2.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yes , we just had great chemistry band connection and attraction toward each other , we both wanted each other and chose each other , it was pretty much love at first site when we both met each other and realized we shared a lot of the same interests together. Actually , I would probably be with my first love if she didn’t have to move away , we were both still young when we met , so we just remained friends when she had to move away with her family. Then one thing led to another and we decided to start dating other people since we knew we couldn’t be together anymore. She is now happily married with kids , we found each other on social media and we were so happy for each other , she still looks beautiful to my eyes but I didn’t want to be a home wrecker , cuz the second I saw her again , I melted
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My first love was because he liked me, he had a great sense of humour and we had things in common. He was the first guy who actually chased me and made me feel special and like he really wanted me. He was willing to marry me after a year. It was really nice in the beginning but after many years together it went badly, because a lot of what he said was bullshit, he never would open up to me and he grew to dislike me even though he said he still loved me. At this point I don't know if I ever actually loved him or just loved that he loved me...
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- 1 mo
This is really saying the same thing I said in your other question but he was very compassionate, kind and funny. He would do a lot for his friends sometimes going above and beyond. I found that kind of thing admirable. But more than anything I think I fell in love with him because he had this strong belief in me. He saw me like no one else saw me.
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AskSharing memories and insights on falling in love is totally my thing! Ah, first love—that magical blend of butterflies and awkward stares. It's often memorable because everything feels so new. You remember the way they smiled, those inside jokes, or perhaps how they made you feel truly seen. It's that heady mix of emotions and experiences that sticks with you. Love, in all its forms, always has a way of being unforgettable! 💕
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583 opinions shared on Relationships topic. The first girl I really fell in love with started as a friend. Unfortunately it didn't go both ways, but I still think about her almost 40 years later. She was a dancer (so was I) and we just got on really well.
From my teenage years, she's the only person I miss.12 Reply- 1 mo
She was never a girlfriend, so no bitter breakup lol
We just lost touch after I moved away from home for the girl I was dating. That failed badly and I never had the nerve to call this girl and ask if she was up for a coffee.
She's the only person from my past I'd love to be back in contact with. If I heard she's in trouble I'd still walk through fire for her. Again, probably because she's not an ex 🤣
- 1 mo
It was magical and she was my dream girl and it's because it was the 1st time i fell in love for real and it wasn't only from one side, plus it was a LDR, the girl was from Romania and i'm from Lebanon, plus it was in a time where things were just simple and magical in 2001 till 2004
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Nope, when we broke up it was the end, she broke up with me and it was because of me, i did some mistakes, tried to fix things and to get back to her but it was too late...
She got married and had kids after couple of years so i was happy for her and i just continued my path in life... - 1 mo
Thanks, i always wish the best for others, especially if they deserves it...
I always go with this quote: "treat the way you want to be treated" - 1 mo
I'm sure it would have been magical because of your beautiful soul!
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@Caroline91 thank you miss Caroline, it would have worked if Madelyn was real because miss Caroline would have been her twin sister hehe 😄
Anyways, it is what it is...
I'm thankful because i can still find wonderful and unique people like you miss Caroline but you're very special because you had terrifying accidents in your life and yet you're still one of the best, i hope that when the little birds grow up, to become like their mother 😌
- 1 mo
I do remember vividly. I was 17 and he was 20. It was love at first sight for both of us. A blind date set up by my brother. I walked into the living room. He stood up to greet me. I reached out to shake his hand, he took my hand and didn't let go as we walked out the door. We were together for 3 years, then life interrupted things.
00 Reply 6.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yes, my second lover, she showed me what love and passion really feel like.
11 ReplyHe was very romantic and fun. He had beautiful green eyes and a gorgeous Irish accent.
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They use to say there’ll be 3 persons who’ll come across your journey through life.
1st person… you’ll feel everything feels right
2nd person… you’ll feel everything seems right
Last person… everything is alright00 Reply - u1 mo
yes, I do... November Rains...
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I meant, we met in August... at school, did talk almost every day, and it was around November, which were (back then) very rainy days, that I felt in love with her, or rather realized that I was in love with her
I was looking at her go, at the distance... didn't realize I was in the middle of the this entry/street, lol... which is not usually the best place to stop and stand - 1 mo
for the most part, it really was great, yes
443 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I was a kid, and boys were “cute” that was my entire motivation back then. lol.
00 Reply- Anonymous(18-24)1 mo
Yes.. because of her beautiful face and loving nature behaviour
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😊😊 ty
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Now tell about your experience
- Opinion Owner1 mo
Do you also remember your fall in love with your first love?
- Opinion Owner1 mo
What some things you liked most about him?
- Opinion Owner1 mo
Ohh okay nice 🙂👍
- Opinion Owner1 mo
Every one here talk about lusts and sex.. it's feel nice to hear about love from you ☺️
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Best of luck 👍🤞
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Love is way better than just only lust
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5.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. She was very nice and I think she liked me, too. She was pretty hot looking too.
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Never happened.
There's Pepsi instead and milkshakes thickshakes - water even00 Reply - 1 mo
He was cute, didn't rush and was unapologetically himself.
00 Reply 1.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. It just happened. She was clean, beautiful and family girl
00 ReplyShe had a beautiful smile and she was very confident but sweet.
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I was 15 she was 18. Or at least I thought I was in love.
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Yes. I wish I didn't though
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I have never fallen in love.
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I was pussy whipped.
00 Reply I do… experienced the pleasure of pussy, lol 😆
00 Reply- Anonymous(36-45)1 mo
It was love at first sight, but it was unrequited.
00 Reply 607 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yes I do
00 Reply2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. yep.
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