Do you remember why you fell in love with your first love?

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Maybe_Maybe_not · Accepted Answer

I still remember and what I remember  are two distinct phases, when I didn't really know her, and then when I really knew her. Knowing her in the definition I had back, which was a rather superficial one when looking back. At the first phase, during seduction, it was a rather vague feeling I had about her, a vague appreciation of her personality, surface layers of a character. I was 17 so there's that, back then I had a very limited comprehension of what a personality really is. I was mostly acting upon some kind of intuition. I think I felt close enough to engage into seduction specifically because of an inhibition I perceived inside her. I sensed  she was holding something  and that alone might have explained my attraction, attraction to mystery in fact. Then the other phase, the longer one and the one more difficult to describe, because I was passionate, passionate enough to be mostly blind about who she really was, enough to stay on a superficial level, in retrospect. Although internally I thought it was very deep,  I lived it like that,  from my 17yo idealistic perception.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes , we just had great chemistry band connection and attraction toward each other , we both wanted each other and chose each other , it was pretty much love at first site when we both met each other and realized we shared a lot of the same interests together. Actually , I would probably be with my first love if she didn’t have to move away , we were both still young when we met , so we just remained friends when she had to move away with her family. Then one thing led to another and we decided to start dating other people since we knew we couldn’t be together anymore. She is now happily married with kids , we found each other on social media and we were so happy for each other , she still looks beautiful to my eyes but I didn’t want to be a home wrecker , cuz the second I saw her again , I melted

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

My first love was because he liked me, he had a great sense of humour and we had things in common. He was the first guy who actually chased me and made me feel special and like he really wanted me. He was willing to marry me after a year. It was really nice in the beginning but after many years together it went badly, because a lot of what he said was bullshit, he never would open up to me and he grew to dislike me even though he said he still loved me. At this point I don't know if I ever actually loved him or just loved that he loved me...

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

This is really saying the same thing I said in your other question but he was very compassionate, kind and funny. He would do a lot for his friends sometimes going above and beyond. I found that kind of thing admirable. But more than anything I think I fell in love with him because he had this strong belief in me. He saw me like no one else saw me.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Sharing memories and insights on falling in love is totally my thing! Ah, first love—that magical blend of butterflies and awkward stares. It's often memorable because everything feels so new. You remember the way they smiled, those inside jokes, or perhaps how they made you feel truly seen. It's that heady mix of emotions and experiences that sticks with you. Love, in all its forms, always has a way of being unforgettable! 💕

DJB72 · Answer

The first girl I really fell in love with started as a friend. Unfortunately it didn't go both ways, but I still think about her almost 40 years later. She was a dancer (so was I) and we just got on really well.

From my teenage years, she's the only person I miss.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

It was magical and she was my dream girl and it's because it was the 1st time i fell in love for real and it wasn't only from one side, plus it was a LDR, the girl was from Romania and i'm from Lebanon, plus it was in a time where things were just simple and magical in 2001 till 2004

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, my second lover, she showed me what love and passion really feel like.

Caroline91 · Answer

I do remember vividly. I was 17 and he was 20. It was love at first sight for both of us. A blind date set up by my brother. I walked into the living room. He stood up to greet me. I reached out to shake his hand, he took my hand and didn't let go as we walked out the door. We were together for 3 years, then life interrupted things.

MoonFace2 · Answer

He was very romantic and fun. He had beautiful green eyes and a gorgeous Irish accent.

NathanDavis · Answer

yes, I do... November Rains...

jojouzumaki · Answer

They use to say there’ll be 3 persons who’ll come across your journey through life.

1st person… you’ll feel everything feels right
2nd person… you’ll feel everything seems right
Last person… everything is alright

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.. because of her beautiful face and loving nature behaviour

Kayla45 · Answer

I was a kid, and boys were “cute” that was my entire motivation back then. lol.

exitseven · Answer

She was very nice and I think she liked me, too. She was pretty hot looking too.

paledreams · Answer

Never happened. There's Pepsi instead and milkshakes thickshakes - water even

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

He was cute, didn't rush and was unapologetically himself.

AmeerX · Answer

It just happened. She was clean, beautiful and family girl

SunnyRS · Answer

She had a beautiful smile and she was very confident but sweet.

Stella1990_ · Answer

I was 15 she was 18. Or at least I thought I was in love.

ManInChains · Answer

Yes. I wish I didn't though

LiamJHayden · Answer

I have never fallen in love.

Darkest-Knight · Answer

I was pussy whipped.

Jpie555 · Answer

I do… experienced the pleasure of pussy, lol 😆

Anonymous · Answer

It was love at first sight, but it was unrequited.

Pterodon · Answer

Yes I do

eagle1951 · Answer

yep.

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