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Will You Forgive 4 Years Lies?

This is just for my curiosity.

I have a friend who introduced me to someone, they are from different country than me, I know them as a girl. She suddenly say wanna be friends with me so I let her, but she is a bit overwhelming I often almost lost contact but she will always spam text and call me until I reply.

Our friendship keep going on when it's 6 month, she suddenly say she likes me in romantic way, and I declined cuz I'm not swing that way. But we still keep talking together cuz, I got so used to talk with her it's became a habit.

And then I don't know we would keep going until 4 years, it's the longest time I ever talk with someone online, and the stupid me actually believe that she is mute, have issues about her looks so we only chat and when we okay game she would hear me but she would stay quite. And then apparently everything didn't go well for me on the forth year, many bad things happen and I told her about me almost give up life. And then she suddenly say she would take me away and ask me to hold on, just wait until he is graduated.

I still reject her cuz I am not swing that way still, but suddenly he confess the truth the next day.

All the pitiful story about her bieng a mute is lies, her family aren't broken, her dad didn't died in front of him. Or any horrible life she said to me.

And the most shocking truth is "she actually lied about her gender, she is actually a guy pretending to be a girl" I don't know maybe DID? (Dissociative Identity Disorder) I don't really care much about that. No mental illness is something to be ashamed about.

But bro... he lied to me for 4 years, and even more stupiditt is that I actually forgive him. I don't know... maybe... i got so used to have him in my life it gives me fear of loosing him. And we start officially dating this year.

What's your opinion on my situation? If you are in my shoes?
Will You Forgive 4 Years Lies?
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