Do you recover quickly or slowly after a break up with a romantic partner?

[SmileyLady]

Why do you think so?

[Mwolf]

What is done is done. Doesn't mean you can't remain good friends. Why spoil a good friendship even though didn't work out romantically. But I'm also less emotional, dramatic, and sensitive than the women I've met, so I don't know.

[red324]

I don't know of any women that don't automatically block a guy after breaking up, so being friends is already off the table

[Mwolf]

@red324 WDYM? Why can't people be platonic exes and still be good friends?

[red324]

Because either one or both people aren't mature enough to talk about things and work it out.

[red324]

How am I supposed to be friends with a girl breaks up over text and blocks me, let alone why would I want to? Have some respect for yourself.

[Radiate143]

No. They can't

[Mwolf]

@red324 sorry that happened to you. Unfortunately many women are like that. I have no problem staying friends with my exes. We talk several times daily still.

[Mwolf]

Still are good friends, not daily still.

[Mwolf]

You just have to have a good trusting partner and vice versa. Pretty simple, although most women make it all emotional and a mental rollercoaster for their guy.🤷🏻‍♀️ I'm more logical so I don't know

[red324]

Personally I'm just done with them when they break up. Do you really want to hear about them fucking their new guy?

[Mwolf]

@red324 sometimes things just don't work out in that way, does not mean they can't be friends.

[Mwolf]

@red324 I never have accepted relationship offers from guys like that, so I don't know. That's why you date before making it official to ensure you don't end up with a crazy ex stalker or stuck up bitch Malibu Barbie.😂

[Mwolf]

@red324 if they are truly my ex and I'm truly over them why would I care who they are fucking. Like it was said the RELATIONSHIP is done.

[red324]

I don't think it's ever over for anyone

[Mwolf]

@red324 for some it's hard to let go. Everyone is different I guess.

[red324]

I mean if I went on a date or two with a girl and she said she wanted to be friends and actually BE friends, sure but usually they just say that to let the guy down and then their is no further communication after from her. I'm fine with friends in this case because a couple months isn't usually enough time for me to actually fall for her.

[Nikki1989]

It is not how you fall down, but how fast you get up again that counts in life. I can recover very quickly.

[Shamalien]

If anyone is honest with themselves they’ll say slowly. If you think you recover quickly, you are probably ignorant to what lies just beneath the surface

[LiamJHayden]

Basically immediately. If it is not meant to be I just accept it and move on.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the post-breakup rollercoaster! As a relationship coach, I've seen and felt it all. Whether you heal quickly or slowly depends on your connection depth, personal resilience, and the classic heartbreak cocktail of emotions. Some dive headfirst into rebound-ville, while others savor every tear like fine wine. 🥂 It's all about pacing yourself and embracing those feels, darling! Remember, every heart heals differently—and yours will too. 💔❤️‍🩹

[PeachyPie93]

Depends on the person/relationship.. Im still hung up on a dickhead I loved..

[SmileyLady]

That sucks. It’s always the dick heads that hurt us the most. Give yourself time to forget him. It’ll take time, but one day you’ll forget him and find someone else you love more.

[Vanny20]

Heartbreak is such a pandemic no one should experience. It took me 2 years to completely heal up from my last break and had rendered me single till now. But I know everything happens for a reason

[Anonymous]

I never had anyone to recover from. All i had is unrequited love, and it's not easy to recover from... it takes years.

[SmileyLady]

I hear you. I’ve had years of crappy experiences with men. I’ve been in love four times; I don’t fall easily, but when I do, I fall hard.

[SmileyLady]

Just recently, I’ve met a few men who seem decent. One wants marriage, the other doesn’t yet know what he wants. I haven’t figured out what I want from either one so I haven’t made any serious commitment to either one until I know.

[SmileyLady]

I think you should keep looking. I’ve successfully met the best people while I was looking but not looking too seriously 😊. So I mean like, put yourself first and you’ll seem less needy and happier, more interesting and confident and women/men love that. I’m assuming you like women?

[Opinion Owner]

Good, you should wait until you are sure about both of them.

[SmileyLady]

Yes, my married friend said until you’re married, you’re a free agent. I’d say until you’re engaged or committed.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I like women. Ok, I'll keep looking, I like confident girls.

[SmileyLady]

Yes, do. I know some good pickup sites and the site where my friend met her husband that I directed her to. I also know dating sites are mostly just good for hook ups, but if you want something serious that lasts, trying to befriend someone you’re attracted to, postponing sex and kissing and building a foundation is usually the best way.

[SmileyLady]

Would you say you’re a shy guy?

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, I'll try, thanks for the advice :)

[SmileyLady]

You’re welcome. It’s never too late to find love. It’s only too late if you decide it is.

[SmileyLady]

I like shy men in general. With some exceptions.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I'm kinda shy.

[SmileyLady]

Cool 🥰

[Anonymous]

It takes me a long time to recover. Letting go isn't easy for me.

[Anonymous]

Long time. Because I'm all in. I shouldn't be but, that's how I love.

[WhitneySnow]

Slowly. Takes a while.

[Simslover92]

Slowly.

[Smashingdoozy]

Entirely depends on the relationship

[MemeSupreme]

quickly

it's kinda lowkey concerning

[EnjoytheDay777]

Really slowly. Oh the pain. 😔

[luvstoned4him]

slowly

[Slim57]

Slowly, I take relationships seriously

[smashleyy]

Slowly

[22LonleyGuy]

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