If a man says let’s live in the moment, and see where it goes about our relationship, does that mean he doesn’t want to commit long term?

[desperatelyhungry]

My boyfriend and I have been together 5 months. Overall I think we have a good relationship. Pretty good communication. We have established we love each other and he considers me his family. We live an hour apart so we only see each other weekends. We have agreed we live in the present and see where it goes. I agreed with this at first but now it upsets me when he says that cause I worry in the back of his mind he would be able to just let me go and get back to living his life. He’s not sure if he wants marriage or kids, neither am I, but I know I don’t want him going anywhere anytime soon. I worry when he says about not worrying the future that’s because he doesn’t necessarily see me in it. I don’t wanna ask specifically because I am scared of the answer

[DJB72]

If you've been together more than 3 months and he's not prepared to even consider something other than the "moment" then find out if "in the moment" it felt right to kick his nuts was better than planning a long term strategy for life...

[bowenw]

It sounds like he wants to be noncommittal so he can leave at any time and be able to say he never promised anything.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Nikki1989]

He wants to have an each-way bet on you. It doesn't exactly sound promising.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic "live in the moment" dilemma – jumps right out from the Relationship Handbook (if there were one)!😄 This could be about savoring the now without pressure, or a subtle way of saying commitment isn't on his agenda right now. If he considers you family and emphasizes love, it's a tender connection, but hey, if worries crawl under your skin, give it a little chat. Communication is the real MVP of relationships! Just take it smooth and don't let fear of the answer hold you back. 📞 It's your peace of mind we're living for!

[LazerBean]

Yes.