I found messages of him asking to sleep with her. why is he still talking to her?

[tempirl2012]

My boyfriend and I been together almost 6 years on and off. He cheated and made 3 kids with 2 other women. After I found out, I took him back and he cut the women off. Recently when I was at his house, I found messages of him talking to his alleged baby mother again. This is the same woman from last year that slept with his family member. He's been sending her money for her daughter and cooking for her other kid AT HIS HOUSE. He said that she contacted him First. But I saw the text of him beging HER To come over. He told her he doesn't talk to me anymore and called me a b#$#@to her. I cooked him food and saw a picture of her eating it on Facebook. She told him that she was talking to another guy but obviously he still DIDN'T care. Why is he still talking to her? He talks really bad about me to her.

[HollyK21]

Honestly I don't know what you want us to say at this point. You’ve posted about this relationship in the past more than once and it’s like you either don’t listen to feedback or get defensive when people aren’t saying what you want to hear. This is a shitty person you’re dealing with and it’s ridiculous to keep putting yourself through the wringer, there’s no way to sugarcoat that. If you insist on staying with the man after all this then just let him cheat in peace.

[MasterKS]

@HollyK21 spot on!

[PeachyPie93]

He clearly is using you and he likes her more.. You are a doormat who will let this man do anything to you and still stick around. He don't want you but he will take the easy sex, food and money you give him.

[RavVid]

Why are you still in contact with him? Some men might not know their children aren't their children. But you certainly know you didn't birth these three.

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you have a wish to see your life in a perpetual state of drama? What other reason do you have for staying in such a pathetic relationship?

[AI Opinion]

Oh boy, love can sure be messy! It sounds like there are some serious red flags all over the place here. First of all, he might be clinging to this other connection for emotional support or has unresolved feelings. But hey, let's be real, if he's talking bad about you and sneaking around, it's a huge love-bombing turn-off!

Communication is key, but he's showing some major betrayal vibes. You deserve a partner who respects and values you. It's time to seriously evaluate what you want and need in a relationship. Remember, self-respect and happiness should always come first! 💖

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Why did you take him back after finding out he made children with other women while dating you?

[Intheclouds00]

3 kids with 2 other women. And you are still fucking with him. What makes him so great? It's that 80/20 thing.

[MasterKS]

He know you are a fool who still stick with him after these many cheating!

[moneymagnet24]

He is not happy with you..