He chose someone else (undenounced to me) so I've made it as clear as I can I don't want him in my life (known each other for 3 years) - he has no reason to be apart of it anymore and I want to get over all the wasted time. Over the last 8 months he continues to try to interact with me as he did before (when he was single), him and his girlfriend (who he only knew for 2 months) made it official/moved in together 8 months ago and are still together they do double dates/trips with his friends and dinners with his parents - this seems pretty legit, yet he won't leave me alone I have been less than pleasant to interact with throughout this time ignoring all digital contact and keeping to less then five words if that when in person, honestly can't recall the last time I even smiled in his presence. I don't understand the logic in his actions and I am having a really hard time moving on. If you lead someone on and chose to commit to another girl to whom you barely know after almost a year together why the hell are you still giving the first girl attention I can't understand why you would still be pining/trying so hard over someone you had right in front of you?
We work in a similar industry were he has full access to me whenever he wants so blocking him does nothing.. I just want to know why he wants to keep interacting with me in any capacity. Why? You have someone already she looks exactly like me so why continue this crap we will never be together and not a chance in hell am I just a friend.
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Why did you two work out?
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Yes ma'am I'm sorry typo
I thought he liked me and next thing I know he has a girlfriend he was hiding. Everyone that knows the two of us was pretty stunned apparently they thought he wanted to be with me as well and his actions to this day would imply he does have feelings of some kind but I can't really explain because I don't know, he won't let up and I would love to know why
It's best to move on. You'll forever be waiting on the whys when you could be with someone who won't leave you wondering and guessing like that. Someone who loves you won't do you like thay
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