A long time ago boyfriend promised not to ever gamble again and now he broke his promise?

[curious_lady]

[Subtle_Luminescence]

He did it once, he may do it again. Not very trustworthy he's in the his regard. But what's your question?

[curious_lady]

I don't know how to act I don't want to fight he said we need to talk like he already knew I would not like this so he apologized like a hundred times and I just ignored his sorry. I just said just come home and hug me and he arrived and he hugged me, he was apologizing and I was just silent, I said let's just sleep.

[Subtle_Luminescence]

Reasonable reaction. Persistent mistakes and apologies not backed by change in behaviour eventually tire people out. Gambling is an addiction indeed. Give him an ultimatum. Be nice but firm that you won't tolerate it.

[curious_lady]

He never made a mistake this was the first time. But I guess I want him to be perfect. And I know he wants this from me too.

[moneymagnet24]

Once a gambler always a gambler..
You deserve hot boyfriend 😘 re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[LonelyEryn]

Honestly I wouldn't stand for it

[AI Opinion]

Your boy's dabbled in the ol’ promise-breaking magic, huh? 🎩✨ Trust is clutch in relationships, and breaking it is a definite red flag. It's crucial to have a heart-to-heart about why he gambled. It could be a stress thing or just a slip. Understanding goals and limits might help squash this betrayal and get the love train back on track. Time to chat it out and see where the chips fall! 💕🃏

[curious_lady]

He is a good man and he was always honest with me never did anything to hurt me but this hurt me... because now I wonder what else can he do

[Abbycado]

Okay. What’s the question?

[DerekC321]

Sorry, it's an addiction

[curious_lady]

Yes, I know. But I thought his character and his promise to me and his love for me and our baby is stronger than addiction. This just makes me so sad.

[DerekC321]

I hear you. It sucks. But I don't think it means he loves you any less. But that doesn't change the fact that he's hurting you. There's help for that. Have you ever thought of him getting help?

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes he did. What is your question?

[curious_lady]

I don't know how to act... he never lied never broke a promise never did anything to hurt me... and this hurt me. I feel like I might stop trusting him and I don't want that

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes it hurts. What will you do moving forward?

[curious_lady]

I love him. I need him. He takes care of me it's not like he gambled all our money. He gives me money he buys me things he pays our bills. I don't like gambling but even more I hate lies.

[BarryLiverstone]

Then tell him that you love him and need him. And reassure him that you trust he may gamble some but that he will still take care of you. Just ask him what he needs from you. Have you asked him that lately?

[curious_lady]

Yeah well he apologized like 500 times he was just saying I am sorry I am sorry and again he promised not to do it again and these last few days he really came home immediately after work, bought me gifts and new things for the house.
Yeah I will ask him

[Pterodon]

Dump him. He can’t or won’t keep his word

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Dump the bitch