Getting pregnant by your best friend whose also your ex? Yay or nay?

[Anonymous]

So I slept with my best friend who is my ex and I know it wasn't smart to have unprotected sex. Yet we both aren't getting any younger. We're both about to have birthdays soon and reaching close to that 35 mark. I wonder if it's a good idea to have the baby if I do become preggers or abort the baby (with his consent of course).

I'm not really for an abortion but I'm also not for having a baby without being married. It's a sticky situation but I think I will choose to have the baby if it comes to pass.

[AviatorTom]

If you're not involved with someone else, you want to have a baby, and your ex is okay with it, there are many worse things you could do. You sound unsure though. Make sure you are totally committed to this before you take a step you might regret later.

[Asker]

Ok I will. Thanks.

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for MHO... and best wishes.

[Asker]

You're welcome. Thanks!

[Wise4myage]

Seems dumb to me, but good luck.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Wise4myage]

Your welcome.

[PeachyPie93]

No.. it's immature to bring a kid into a broken home just because you feel your time is running out.. it's smarter to just freeze your eggs..

[Subtle_Luminescence]

Reaching close to 35 mark?

Oh my bad, with age, doesn't always come maturity.

[Asker]

So not having the baby is the mature thing to do?

[Subtle_Luminescence]

You think?

[Asker]

I think it's selfish to abort a baby when we knew full well what could happen if we decided to have unprotected sex. That's immature.

[Anonymous]

Not if he doesn't know the difference between who's and whose.

[Asker]

Okay grammar police.

[Anonymous]

That was a lot of effort just to troll.

[Asker]

What do you mean? How am I trolling?

[HelpfulWoman]

easy nay nay nay

[Asker]

Okay...

[jahaims]

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