Me and my boyfriend break up a few days ago because of misunderstanding. He break up with me thinking i cause him stress and he said i already have enough stress with college and life. After weeping for few days i finally decide to move on. Today i found that im pregnant. Should i tell him or keep it to myself. Im afraid this gonna cause him more stress, but i also dont know what to do alone. Im confused
This is a difficult situation to be in, I would take time before telling him and double check to be sure that you are truly pregnant. I do think you should tell him though unless it would put you or your child at risk. I would also rely on the people closest to you for support. I wouldn’t expect him to be a father, I would hope that he’d be the type to step up but if he is not a good support system will be everything
Why weren't you using protection? You are not even married to this guy. This better be a troll question I mean come on the pill nextplenon. What were you thinking about having sex with this dude and no protection? Go to a LDS aka mormon chruch speak to the chruch bishop or president and put that baby up for adoption a mormon couple will provide a good financial stupport and a good christian environment at least a mormon couple will teach that baby christian standers. And a good christian father. PM me I have a lot of LDS friends who are looking forward for adoption. I really hope you are joking about the pregnancy thing.
He doesn't think you cause him stress. You do cause him stress here is the thing if you didn't it wouldn't have been brought up. Also if it wasn't too bad he wouldn't bring it up. So him bringing it up means it is bad. You should tell him and you also need to learn how to be a good girlfriend and future wife because no man wants to be with a woman who makes his life harder.
This is a most difficult situation
I hope you decide to keep tge child - the Coalition for Life have many facilities Nation wide dedicated to helping couples and single mothers with their unplanned pregnancies.
As to whether to tell him or not?
Let me ask you- do you fear for your life if you were to tell him? If yes then don't tell him
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Personally, if it was me, and we broke up right before I found out I was pregnant, I'd just abort the child without telling him. He's out of my life now. We're not together, no way am I going to carry and give birth to my ex's child. They'll have to grow up in separate homes or in an environment with so much arguing... just not a good idea
Well, it mostly depends on how a girl felt during the duration of their relationship and also what she felt during the breakup. If it was a not-so-heavy and bad breakup, I don't think she will, and on the other hand, if it was a clean breakup because of the situation they were in and not because of their personal bond being broken, I think she can.
Wow, this is difficult but I would be open and honest with my ex because to even get to that point they had to been a certain type of person for me to choose them in the first place, so yes, I would’ve told him hypothetically
Of course you should tell him. He deserves to know that he is going to be a father.
m ig u need to tell him if u r sure he is the father
He deserves to know but I'm the end it is EXCLUSIVELY your decision.
We broke up, they would only need to know if I planned on keeping the baby. 🤷♀️
Yes. He’s the father. He has a right to know. Put aside what happen between you two and tell him about the baby.
If I got pregnant I'd go on the Evening News.
If you’re certain it’s his then you need to tell him he has the right to know that
He deserves to know even if he's your ex. He's the father.
WTF? Of course you need to tell him.
Do you want to keep it?
You need to tell him
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