Me and my boyfriend break up a few days ago because of misunderstanding. He break up with me thinking i cause him stress and he said i already have enough stress with college and life. After weeping for few days i finally decide to move on. Today i found that im pregnant. Should i tell him or keep it to myself. Im afraid this gonna cause him more stress, but i also dont know what to do alone. Im confused
This is a difficult situation to be in, I would take time before telling him and double check to be sure that you are truly pregnant. I do think you should tell him though unless it would put you or your child at risk. I would also rely on the people closest to you for support. I wouldn’t expect him to be a father, I would hope that he’d be the type to step up but if he is not a good support system will be everything
Why weren't you using protection? You are not even married to this guy. This better be a troll question I mean come on the pill nextplenon. What were you thinking about having sex with this dude and no protection? Go to a LDS aka mormon chruch speak to the chruch bishop or president and put that baby up for adoption a mormon couple will provide a good financial stupport and a good christian environment at least a mormon couple will teach that baby christian standers. And a good christian father. PM me I have a lot of LDS friends who are looking forward for adoption. I really hope you are joking about the pregnancy thing.
@mbarsi01 You have no idea. At least LDS live a more organized lifestyle. We dont have issues about woman not knowing who the babies father is and families stay together in heaven for iternity. I see nothing wrong about share the LDS information.
Jezz lady enough with your christian family and mormon stuff, im not even christian to begin with, and who says im a kid? Im more than capable to raise a kid, my boyfriend was in college. I have my own business. And we’re differ by age. Why I wanna place my baby for adoption? And says who if a mother raise a child by her own it’s gonna be demon? What’s so great about your lds things by the way? Im asking wether or not to tell , not for people like you to rant out about you belief or disbelief here. Get off karen. Give your kids for adoption if u want, I will keep mine with me. And says who protection works 100% . And did u know if we use or not. You sounds so pathetic.
Asker you are the pathetic. one Karen your the one that was stupid and didn't use protection. That child is a bastard sadley no father figure. Dumb
I think the bastard here is you and your pathetic obsession with your religion. Or maybe your child is the bastard you talking about here karen.
Your stupid child you are carrying could be the antichrist 666.
Asker You're a whore and expecting a child that will be birn out of wedlock so yes YOUR USELESS MONSTER WILL BE A BASTARD ! BASTARDS ARE BABIES BORN OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE. LOOK IT UP KAREN. I AM WAY BETTER THEN YOU at least I am not a whore. You are !
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He doesn't think you cause him stress. You do cause him stress here is the thing if you didn't it wouldn't have been brought up. Also if it wasn't too bad he wouldn't bring it up. So him bringing it up means it is bad. You should tell him and you also need to learn how to be a good girlfriend and future wife because no man wants to be with a woman who makes his life harder.
This is a most difficult situation
I hope you decide to keep tge child - the Coalition for Life have many facilities Nation wide dedicated to helping couples and single mothers with their unplanned pregnancies.
As to whether to tell him or not?
Let me ask you- do you fear for your life if you were to tell him? If yes then don't tell him
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Personally, if it was me, and we broke up right before I found out I was pregnant, I'd just abort the child without telling him. He's out of my life now. We're not together, no way am I going to carry and give birth to my ex's child. They'll have to grow up in separate homes or in an environment with so much arguing... just not a good idea
Well, it mostly depends on how a girl felt during the duration of their relationship and also what she felt during the breakup. If it was a not-so-heavy and bad breakup, I don't think she will, and on the other hand, if it was a clean breakup because of the situation they were in and not because of their personal bond being broken, I think she can.
Of course you should tell him. He deserves to know that he is going to be a father.
I do. After reading some advice here. I decided to tell. But he just giving me bluetick and ignore my message like i never exist in his life. I started regretting telling him. Never thought he’s gonna be cold hearted. Or he already have someone else in his life and this gonna ruin his new relationship. But the one i know and love would stick by me even i only have headache. It’s like he’s changing completely different, i don’t know him anymore.
I'm so sorry that he's being that way but at least he knows the truth and you have that off your conscious. The next step is to decide what you want to do next which I know is going to be a difficult decision with how he is being.
No he doesn't he doesn't even care about her.
This baby should be place for adoption and not just any family. I a talking about a christian family will be the perfect fit for this baby.
Wow, this is difficult but I would be open and honest with my ex because to even get to that point they had to been a certain type of person for me to choose them in the first place, so yes, I would’ve told him hypothetically
ig u need to tell him if u r sure he is the father
I never been with anyone else but him. Im 1000% sure but also i don’t know how he will react
laly520 You kids have no idea what a huge responsibility it is to raised a child people at your age do not have the mature mentality capacity no good income to raise a baby. What she seriously needs to do is look for a christian adoption Agency or a LDS chruch and find a good christian family that will actually be a good example for that baby. I will bebtelling my friend that she is expecting and looking for a good christian parents.
laly520 She clearly states she's in college. A 30-35 year old should had finish college a while ago. It is obviously she isn't well financially stable. Well kids your age don't act like actual adults. I mean do you have good created? Do have an established career by now? Do you own a house? If you answer all No then you are not a real adult yet. I have seen a lot of people your age still living at home with parents.
s @Alwayreckles93 I moved out to live on my own at the age of 18, I do have a career (I work as software developer) while finishing my last year of studies, I can't invest money (our savings) yet into buying a house (not just any house cuz we dont plan on getting a small one) cuz my fiance isn't from the US so we aren't sure yet where to stay considering the possibility of moving to his country
I do pay all of my bills, take care of my pets, of my sick father etc etc
I have lost my mother at a very young age, growing up in a household with no female figure was too hard n challenging not to mention my father used to be absent most of the time (he is a veteran) n all of that made me mature before my age
I am 23 yo but mentally.. its not the case at all
He deserves to know but I'm the end it is EXCLUSIVELY your decision.
Yes. He’s the father. He has a right to know. Put aside what happen between you two and tell him about the baby.
We broke up, they would only need to know if I planned on keeping the baby. 🤷♀️
If I got pregnant I'd go on the Evening News.
If you’re certain it’s his then you need to tell him he has the right to know that
No I disagree. I personally believeshe sould look for an LDS chruch and find a good christian family that will raise this baby with decent values. If she keeps the baby she will raised a demonic spoiled brat. You young people think it's a joke but babies deserve to grow up with achristian mother and father. What kind of idipt has sex and no protection?
Lady get out of here nobody cares about your religion and if you’re older and wiser don’t go on an app asking younger people questions. I never mentioned raising the baby I said he deserves to know he made offspring. Believe it or not there are many good people that aren’t Christians
Listen kid if you were over the age of 40 I would kept my mouth shut but boy I raised my younger little brothers who happend to be your same age So a young little isn't going through to tell me what to do. Go say that to the Karen asker.
@Alwayreckles93 fine I will. You need to stop pushing your bullshit on others. Religion is one of the shittiest things to subject a child too. Especially if they are zealous religious family. Which would be you. A child should be in a home where it will be loved not a home where it is going to be manipulated and brainwashed into believing in fairytale and other made up shit. As a father of 3 little ones my children will be free to follow what they wish when it comes to a belief system. If they want to be religious they will have that option. Religious quacks line you foist your religion onto children and then wonder why your children grow up borderline retarded.
@JacobJordan Aww look youxarebtrying to be a role model to this looser 22 year old. First of all I didn't ask fornyour opinion and I do not care about your existence retard! My gosh all that profanity I will be reporting you. You worldly people live a sinful life and if people want to raised their kids with christian values I don't see nothing wrong. But sure if in your delusional world getting drunk smoking party you sleeping around with different woman you live sinful lifestyle your demonic world then that's you but don't go attacking good people. I livemy life much better then you ever will. Grow up! I am seriously starting to agree with 70 year old people You are enough prove that millenials are stupid and careless. Uh I hate my own generation I was born in. You should be a shae of yourself!
@JacobJordan Oh yeah 22 year olds are stupid cretures I can't stand Gen Z. And I don't understand why Ge z see you dumb ass as rolemodels stupid. Now live me alone retard!
mbarsi01 aww do you need a pacifier? Ok baby now go get your blanky. Guess what Mr. blueberry youare lucky this is a site or I would be calling the cops on you! And I don't appreciate you making fun of me making menasone of your clowns. Respect your olders! NOW SHIT YOUR MOUTH MR. BLUEBERRY! I willbe reporting you! HOW ABOUT THAT MR. KAREN.
@Alwayreckles93 cry more bitch. You are an example of everything wrong with people in there 30s. Pushing your shit advice on others trying to be a virtue signaler because you fucked your life royally and can't cope. Go pray to your God maybe he'll help you.
@JacobJordan Oh you didn't have to tell me your useless mom is a bitch ok dumk. Guess what retard I own a paid off house, I paid off truck and I am debt free something a useless stupid 22 year old gen z woman can't managed to do. Idiot! You are going to shit on your saggy old wrinkle ass telling me I have alooser life okay. I am not the one that has to work in a minimum wage job like the 22 year old loosers. A woman my age has wealth financial stability and owns properties something a dtupid 22 year ld younger woman don't have but yet you loosers chase after stupid younger woman that's what is more upsetting to me. And I am freaken tired of men like you using the trem Karen for successful woman like me. Now I will be repirtimg and if possible I will sue you for harassing me idiot! I bet you must be a stupid catholic like this idipt here. Nicetwo compadres chilling harassing a successful woman nice!
@Alwayreckles93 lol look at that virtuous religion shining through. Try and sue me fuckwafer I would love that. Last dumb bitch that tried is now homeless. I have multiple properties multiple houses cars and more than 1 business. I will literally bury your dumbass under a mountain of your own failures. Now learn your fucking place and shut up. No one needs your dog shit advice. You failed your family and likely your husband if you even have one
@Alwayreckles93 also you aren't successful. You are a Karen. You went from trying to be virtuous to immediately hostile off a handful of comments making assumptions about others. You are a disease and a joke. Also I love the hypocrisy of telling someone to respect there elders when you go and disrespect someone older than you. So not only are you a fake whiny bitch Karen. You are a hypocrite. Now to assist you with your "imma sue you" bitch fit. I am presently in Chisinau Moldova. Go ahead and phone them number is 373 22 40 8300. When they laugh at you don't come crying here. Now as for your childish assumption that I am catholic I am not religious at all. I am married and have been since before you even hit puberty. Now due us a favor and close your mouth clown. I'll let the embassy to expect a call from a pathetic whiny brat who couldn't find her remaining brain cells if they were clapping in front of her.
@JacobJordan I know my place you dumb shit. I bet you must be a warlock or a satanist. You are possess by demons. Oh you want to tacked by my family nice try my mom hates my guts for no reason. I have no contact with them. I know my place and I will not have a stupid moron like you attacked me. I bet you must be a satanist or a warlock doing satanist work. I am a good christian. Your wife is a Karen. I am probably even more successful then you will ever be. I bust working hard. I dont care about family I've mist funerals weddings faily gathering look at me now successful. Something a 22 year old doez nothave. I bet no younger woman has ever flirrted woth you. People always tell me I look 21. I don't have to respect you and if you put a spellone let me tell you its not goung to worm because My heaven Father is protecting me.
@JacobJordan Ibreak each and every curse you send In JESUS NAME!
@JacobJordan Anyways why are you on thisn22nyear old kids side and not my side? Idiot!
@JacobJordan Let me guess you must be one of Fuentes and shadesMcgee firnds on this site. A bunch of old millenials. Anyways a woman my age has more to offer then a stupid 21 year old useless woman.
@Alwayreckles93 if your profile picture is you. You look like you are 45 lol. Keep making assumptions. Your mom hates you because look at you. You are pathetic. If you really want to do a dick measuring contest. I have $2,342,084,771.56 in my bank account. And 6.87b split across 10 accounts. 1 to my wife, 1 for each child and another 6 that will be assigned when my children have kids. Along with investments in most major stocks that I started 20 years ago. I have houses specifically in moldova, romania, France, Germany, USA, Scotland, and 2 in Bali. I am not on anyone's side except that which is the good advice. Not every 22 year old Gen z is a horrible person. Many of them benefit from having a role model or someone who can provide them with good advice. Is keeping the baby expensive? Yes. Is it feasible alone? It can be. Should she follow the advice of a woman who has spent the last 2 days insulting nearly everyone on this question? No. You exemplify the problems our society has. You are disrespectful. You are combative. Your advice is likely to make her more miserable. And you are a walking contradiction. You told @mbarsi01 to respect his "orders" (it is elders dear) and then when I stepped in as your elder you immediately attempted to disrespect me. And still are. Now when I said I am not religious at all that includes being a Satanist or a warlock (not sure what that is) as I presume both are religious things. Regarding the assumption that no younger woman has flirted with me. I wouldn't know I am happily married and I can't recognize flirting anyway. So I urge you to walk away with what little remains of your dignity. You can apologize to @mbarsi01 and the asker for the disrespect and aggression or you can continue to deal with me. Either way I will not tolerate you foisting your bullshit and spewing your hatred and anger at young adults.
Mbarsi01 really you will report him?
I will benreporting your useless ass then
@Alwayreckles93 that 21 year old "stupid useless" woman has already proved she is infinitely more valuable than you will ever be. She should be proud of herself willing to take the responsibility of raising a child. Meanwhile you are showcasing that not everything gets better with age. Now I will once again advise you to... shut. The. Fuck. Up. You are making yourself look like an ass and for someone supposedly so virtuous you have committed more sins in the last 3 hours than anyone on this site has in the last 2 weeks.
@JacobJordan You are the pathetic one hre instead of neimg on my side you sit on your lazy ass diffending a stupud 22 year old. What are youtrying to be the cool rolemodel millenial what's up Dude grow up. I wasn't disrespectful. I spoke what I had to say. You are just overly sensative. It upsets me that you actually diffended this younger stupid guy who has no life instead of me. Well lt me tell you dude you need glasses People are constantly telling me I look 19 and I look way better more curenthen a stupid. ugly younger woman. I do not look 45😡🤬🤬🤬🤬you are just jelous. I paid a lawyer and I made sure I took away everything from my mom that once belong to my father. I am the real actual owner not my mom. That bitch can die for all I care.
mbarsi01 this is a conversation with adult so stay out of it Mr Blueberry!
@JacobJordan Why are you on Mr Blueberry side? And not on mine?
@Alwayreckles93 you are hilarious. And an awful person. If you had actually been respectful and giving good advice I would have defended you. But you aren't. You are toxic. Rude. And all around a piece of shit. And fuck you mean you look 19? Lol you are at least 25 lbs overweight. Even with make up on and your hair dyed you have pudgy cheeks and lines. Now walk away before things get worse. You can insult me all you want but you are not going to insult that young woman and having back up. Fuck that. You want an ally stop being a cunt. Act your damn age instead of throwing a pathetic temper tantrum. I mean seriously are you 31 or 3?
@JacobJordan You are an evil veil men! You areba horrible human being! Howndarebyou say that 21 year old is better me. How darebyou call me old! I am a rela blonde I was born with super blonde hair. You are just jelous. Your wife is the the good example of Karen! I am not overnweight I look fantastic!
mbarsi01 ok mr blueberry you andbyour new compadre here can burn in hell!
@Alwayreckles93 bitch please you are 1 donut away from being a baby whale. 🤣🤣. You don't even know my wife. Your hair is not naturally blonde your profile picture alone says your full of shit. You forgot to get it dyed before that picture apparently. You have been calling me old for about an hour lol. Hypocrite. And if calling you out for being a cunt and defending others makes me an "evil veil (I presume you meant vile) men (i presume you meant man)" then so be it. I will reiterate once again you can apologize to both @mbarsi01 and the asker of the question for your disrespect and we can move on or you continue to deal with me. Either way until such time as you apologize and start behaving yourself I am going to defend them from you.
He deserves to know even if he's your ex. He's the father.
WTF? Of course you need to tell him.
Do you want to keep it?
Yes i intend to keep it. Should i tell him or just do my life and let him do his
You need to tell him
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