What things do women get wrong when selecting a man?

[sage2021]

https://youtu.be/_ezY5i1DXVA?si=ikixOGsPsxnpKuBe

[FunkyMonkee]

Pretty much EVERYTHING!!
They ALL want Prince charming but, when the Prince comes a-knocking, asking them for a date, they run off with Mt. Asshole!! He beats the piss out of them and IF they ever leave him, do they actually take a chance on the Prince? Noooooo!! They run right into the arms of ANOTHER asshole that'll treat them just as bad, if not worse!! OR, they go RIGHT BACK to the one they ran away from!! I've seen it happen DOZENS of times in the past 40-some years!

[sage2021]

@FunkyMonkee

Ya know what the biggest problem is with relationships? I'll tell ya.
It's drugs and alcohol in the relationship!
If the one or both weren't on drugs and or alcohol they wouldn't be dealing with a chemicalized person!!

[Bricealan]

They think they want a 'strong' "macho' man until he beats her up because he is jealous of her.

[sage2021]

@Bricealan
I have had one guy best me up. And sometimes a woman can't tell which one is going to be that way.
The guy who beat me up convinced me that he would never hurt me that way, so I let my guard down.
He was bipolar and didn't take his medicine that day and I think he was drinking too. Bad combination!!

I have come to believe that whenever one or both people are on drugs and or alcohol that's what makes them go off!

Anyone who is in drugs and or alcohol are considered a chemicalized person in my book.

When I am seeing a guy who is straight, none of that happens and we get along great together!👍🏼😎

I have never been on drugs or drank alcohol in my entire life. I think that weak minded people have to always be high on something everyday just to get through the day.

Well, I get through my days and my life just fine without having to be high on something.

[Bricealan]

@sage2021 Once had a 'beautiful' woman friend, who was an alcoholic, and I had to break off with her for that reason. I really cared about her too. Several years later, with me living in the same apartment, she called me in the middle of the night from Florida, and wanted me to know she got into an AA program, AFTER getting in a terrible accident and nearly killing her dear daughter.

I enjoy a glass of wine but have no respect for those that do not know when enough is enough.

[MrOracle]

Women SHOULD prioritize the man's morals, values, and life goals, as these are, by far, the most important things for the long-term success of the relationship. But instead, most women prioritize infatuation (butterflies in the stomach, excitement, etc.), or shallow things like looks or income or status. And then they are surprised when things go horribly, before they do it all over again.

They never remember that the guy's looks, or the money, or the status, means absolutely nothing to them when he's cheating, or screaming at her, or is ignoring her. They get upset at his poor morals and values then, but that's who he always was. Those things rarely change. But after it falls apart, usually with lots of emotional carnage, she forgets the lesson and repeats the pattern - with full support from her friends and from society, blaming all men for her bad experiences.

[ProbablyClueless]

A lot of women get swept up in passionate displays and "sugar rush" things that don't actually show men's characters. This is a problem because the women fall for the peacocking instead of who the man actually is. Well, once the charade wears off, she sees that the man was just putting on a show and she wonders why men in her life can't provide stability.

The reason is because she isn't selecting for stability.

Women will make these extremely quick, snap decisions to cut guys off because the guy didn't provide the right spark. They end up cutting fantastic men out of their lives because they don't realize that the guy you want to marry is the one who takes you for crepes and coffee and a walk in the park, not the one who "fights for you" when your landlord wants you to get out of the apartment at the end of your lease.

[Surely]

A lot of women seem to pick the drunken macho, woman abusing man! They say that they are so much fun to hang with.
Then when babies come along. Those “men” keep living the lifestyle of partying and drinking. Running around with their friends and girl friends. Finally the baby’s mother gets tired of this and leave. Now they complain because any decent man isn’t interested in them because they have children. Even though they are always saying that their children come first while pushing any man away from them.

[exitseven]

They first thing they look at is how much money he has or what kind of career does he have.

[lorenzomichael]

What kind of question is that? And how can somebody answer it? It’s not like they’re buying a fucking car.
I don’t know eye color, skin, color, criminal record, FICA score? Shit I don’t know.

[Kelly6]

@sage2021 wow that guy explains it well.

now a days most women do these mistakes and end up in divorce

[kaucky1]

Believing in lies

[Anonymous]

Women don't date losers or fat asses