I've dreamt I was the cheater and then that I was laughing in court, should I be worried?

[Anonymous]

My parents got divorced when I was 12 years old. My mother is a narcissist and from what I've heard, sometimes it can run in the family.

I'm in a relationship (live separately) for only a month. We like each other and taking it slowly. I can't say I love him because it's too early. Anyway my dreams had me concerned. In my dream I was cheating on him. In another dream, first it was my mother laughing in court and then her face started changing and it was me.

Does this mean I'm going to become her one day? Should I be worried? Why would I treat someone poorly? I don't like ruining people's lives. The thing is I sadly looked like the younger version of mom too. She looked like me when she was my age. My dad said dreams are just dreams, that only I have control over my actions but I'm worried.

[ohsheeT]

Do you like yourself do you have a beautiful heart are you smart can you smile if you do something wrong can you say sorry but I was wrong


I doubt very much so that you are the only way that you could be is if your mom has treated you bad since you've been born and you've learned her ways but just by your words that I just read I don't believe that you are I would feel that energy if you were

[Asker]

Well yes I see myself different from my mother. I don't understand the logic of cheating and giving someone emotional pain. It's like I'm physically my mom in appearances but the kind version.

[ohsheeT]

And I bet you could pick 20 other things out that you're different from her

I didn't meet my real dad until I was like 29 and for all those years I always wondered who I was. After we meant I went to see him on a vacation I spent a couple weeks there and when I left. I wasn't looking for myself anymore but I did learn who I didn't want to be.. I don't mean that in a bad or a negative way it's just that we're two different people even though we are so much alike which kind of blew me away . But that's how life is is it people come into our lives or we see people do things and that's why they come into our lives because we get to see who we don't want to be or who we would like to be for me most of the time it's who I don't want to be

[beefcakebradybatson]

"The Cheater" was a 1965 song by Bub Kuban and the Inmen. In a case of death imitating art, the group's handsome lead singer Walter S. Nothies, called "Wally Scott", was killed by his wife's lover Dec.27,1983, and stuffed into a cistern on the couple's home. Scott's body was found in 1987, the boyfriend was arrested, tried and convicted for Scott's slaying and died in prison.(He'd killed someone else as well).

Mrs. Scott was imprisoned as an accessory to her husband's murder;she was later released and died a few years ago.

[AI Opinion]

Here to sprinkle some relationship wisdom and dream decoding magic! 😊 Dreams can be as confusing as a soap opera plot twist, right? But worry not, they don’t always predict the future. Your dreams might be reflecting fears or unresolved issues about your past, not necessarily your future. Feeling anxious about turning into your mother doesn’t mean it's destined. This might be an opportunity to explore these concerns and establish boundaries in your relationship for mental peace. You're the author of your love story, and you got this! 💪 Keep it cool and communicate openly with your partner. 🌟

[Benlovegs]

You are fine dreams stay where they come from.. in a dream

[Danny_dan92]

Oh yes.

[jahaims]

Dreams mean nothing