I almost cheated?

[Anonymous]

Hi guys, so i am in a really healthy relationship with my boyfriend but i went out last night on vacation with 2 of my friends. And i met a really nice good looking guy. He tried to flirt with me de whole time. I didn't want to give away anything in the beginning but after a couple of drinks we both got really drunk and started dancing really intimate with each other. He tried to kiss me but i was so dizzy i tried really hard not to go any further than that. And thats also what happened the most of it, we only danced My boyrfiend is a really good guy and i feel very very guilty and know deep inside i will never do something like this again, its not worth the guilt you feel after.. normally i dont ever go out i only went out on vacation i never danced with a guy in the club it was all the first time for me since we are in a relationship together for 4 years now. I was 21 and he too.

[D_Bone_Steak]

You gotta realize that guy in the club is probably in there all the damn time just picking up girls like you on the regular. If it played out you'd get porked and dropped off like the morning trash. Your man isn't red pilled because that whole vacation with the girls stuff would of been enough to assume what you're likely to end up doing. I'm not calling you out on that, but ask you to at least think about that. This really good guy is going to end up turning into a guy like me once you burn him. ... and you might not like having a guy grab you by the face and spit in your mouth just to see if you'll like it. So you were in there and got finessed by the skills a club guy developed with who knows how much practice... you feel special because of that? The man at home that actually still trusts you makes you feel special at all in comparison? Think about what you're doing... drinking in public alone is just sort of stupid.

It might be best for you to just move on instead of dragging your dedicated dude through the mud until he gets as fucked up as me.

[Anonymous]

So what’s your question? If you cheated or not? Your first mistake was getting really drunk. Your second mistake was letting this man get that close to you. I think whatever your question is you ask yourself if your boyfriend did this what would you think? Do you think he should come clean, apologize for what he did or leave it alone hoping that you never find out? If you can answer those questions honestly I think you’ll have your answers to whatever questions you may have.

[alexduriva]

You did. Sometimes it’s hard to say it frankly and admit to yourself you don’t love your partner. You’re still comfortable and enjoyable with him, you remember how it was in the past, memories hold you around him. But trust me, if you almost did the thing with a new guy, it’s the main indicator you don’t love truly your boyfriend. It doesn’t mean you’re evil or it’s someone’s else fault, life happens and people change, it’s okay to accept you lost your feelings and be honest with boyfriend.

[SlothySlob]

Were you to find out that your boyfriend danced with some other chick, but even if nothing happened, how would you react?

[Anonymous]

Is there a question here or are you just wanting to brag?

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

you basically did cheat