Angry and yelling the house down at my husband on his birthday because my husband misunderstood what I said?

[Anonymous]

I said take an aspirin and he thought I said take freezing cold shower. I used to say eat more carrots but they have too much sugar in them.

Whyyyy would be think that! His birthday is the 19 th and he was like do you have start a fight every night before I go to bed. It's a huge deal to me. I also told him he can't do anything for his birthday because I have a Drs appointment.

I can't stop fighting with him every night and he starts having coughing fits. when I start screaming athim

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1 y

I think he is coughing for attention.

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1 y

Why can't he just fall asleep after I screamed at him. He is so negative for not being more tough about me yelling at him. It shouldn't bother him. They do it in basic training.

[noohair]

Yelling is not communication. If you think it is ok, you are wrong.

[Asker]

It's the only way I communicate

[noohair]

Then you are not communicating.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, love, navigating the waves of communication can feel like a rollercoaster! 🎢 Mixing up words can definitely lead to amusing situations, but frequently clashing (especially on birthdays) is a red flag. The key here is understanding and patience. Sometimes, misunderstandings happen, but it's essential to focus on positive communication. Maybe take a break, deeply breathe, and humorously address the confusions. A sprinkling of love and empathy can transform misunderstandings into cozy laughter. Cheers to softer conversations and maybe even a birthday surprise! 🎉❤️

[Asker]

I just thought he was trying to make me sound stupid by mocking me

[Asker]

I feel he was mocking me by asking me what I said. He said he wasn't he just wanted to know what I said

[virtualwasp]

why do you hate your husband?

[Asker]

I don't hate him I just don't understand the negativity. He says I am the one screaming

[jahaims]

You're mental

[Asker]

I feel he is mental because he unlocked my door with a screwdriver and told me to stop screaming at one a. m over how he pronounced aspirin