Do you give too much of yourself to others?

Question

Dongie · Accepted Answer

... and I've been trying to end that for over a decade.

grega239 · Accepted Answer

Not anymore

Summeroflove · Answer

It’s normal to care what people think of you to a extent. But people will judge no matter who you are what’s best is finding those people who really matter. Real friends can be brutally honest sometimes. They may say things that are controversial but you’ll know they are telling you the truth. You know they genuinely like you and you know I’d they don’t.

Fake people most of the time in their heads believe they are the nicest people in the world. Because they are nice to your face and go behind your back. In reality they are the biggest assholes of them all

ohsheeT · Answer

I Have and I do..
And probably not enough to or for people that really need it the most. There's a time when we all wish we had someone.
Any one in moments of our lives just to take over for a few mins. Or a helping hand.. or even a kind word.

And all the above is why I give of myself . Over and over and over.

It's because I know what it's like feeling there's no way out. And also knowing I will go till my last breath making in work because I also know after that moment. In time.
A nother one will start.. and starting it with a smile is the best.

Finchie40 · Answer

No, I only give myself to someone that gives to me in return , I don’t mind doing small favors for people but if it gets to a point where I am constantly giving to them. and not receiving anything in return , I will stop giving to them completely and realize they are just using me and a waste of my time.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I did when I was younger. I am still absolutely devoted to my wife and would give my life to keep her safe.

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Yes, "giving too much of yourself to others" means putting the needs of others so far ahead of your own that you neglect your well-being, often leading to feelings of exhaustion, resentment, and a lack of personal boundaries, indicating an unhealthy imbalance in your relationships.
Key signs you might be giving too much:
Feeling constantly drained or burnt out: When you consistently prioritize others' needs to the point where you have little energy left for yourself.
Difficulty saying no: Feeling obligated to say yes to requests even when you don't have the time or capacity.
Resentment towards others: Feeling angry or bitter about the demands placed on you, even if you initially agreed to help.
Neglecting your own needs: Ignoring your physical and emotional needs to cater to others.
Low self-esteem: Feeling like your worth is tied to how much you do for others.
Fear of rejection: Avoiding conflict by giving in to others' requests out of fear of being disliked.

How to address giving too much:
Set boundaries: Clearly communicate your needs and limits to others.
Practice self-care: Prioritize activities that replenish your energy and well-being.
Learn to say no: Don't be afraid to decline requests when necessary.
Identify your motivations: Examine why you feel the need to constantly give to others and address underlying issues like low self-esteem or people-pleasing tendencies.
Seek support: If needed, talk to a therapist or counselor to gain insights and strategies for managing your giving tendencies.

Unit1 · Answer

Do you give too much of yourself to others?

I used to back in the day.

Got burned. Burned out. Tired. Imagine receiving attacks in response to being helpful.

I reflected upon the past and decided.

No more.

Help when it's due or kindly & actually asked for or when I care. Otherwise I move on and protect myself and my energy. I don't want to make sleeping 12+ hours my standard but my "sometimes".

ChiTown33 · Answer

Only to those I KNOW really deserve it. If you're worried about how much you're giving someone then you really don't have a healthy relationship. It's EASY for me to give to the ones I love. Because I WANT to. And I know they would do the same for me.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Even under a poetic perspective, I can't loose what I give. I'm not loosing anything because I love someone, I'm just living.

ChillNsweet32 · Answer

Only a selected few are worthy of my giving nature. But other than that nope, I don't have the energy or time for it.

just_a_potato · Answer

This is a reoccurring problem with me. I'm slowly unlearning this.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

No, there aren't others around for me TO give too much of myself to!

Anonymous · Answer

No. Knowing when to pull back is an important skill when someone is monopolising your time.

If someone reacts shittily to you pulling back even a little, its time to revaluate their place in your life.

Med_guy1978 · Answer

To everyone but now I still do but to people who deserve it.

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

Probably because I will bend over backwards to help someone. But some take advantage of you and don’t see the whole picture

strateguy632 · Answer

Yes, for a short time.  Usually humans show greediness so i then block them.

CindyRuns · Answer

At times, yes, but the rewards of doing it are worth every bit of it !!!

kaucky1 · Answer

They expect them to stay on them but unable to give self an erection

Agape93 · Answer

Yeap. I don't have much left to give anymore

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I know the reasonable limits -  my balls stay outside

Rosexøxø · Answer

Sometimes… 👀🫠

LiamJHayden · Answer

Honestly I give too little except to my very closest friends.

Anonymous · Answer

Is there such a thing as giving too much of yourself to your partner if they are doing the same?

Garud · Answer

used to, but I have learnt my lesson.

jazzy34 · Answer

Yup. That’s my toxic trait. 😔

Stephanie2004 · Answer

Probably I think it how I was raised unable to stop.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Yes and now i wish if i didn't...

Angelo75 · Answer

Just in one answer "Yes!"

scott04sa22 · Answer

I just go with the flow

Aurav22 · Answer

No maam

SleepingHazard · Answer

Pretty sure I do.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Yes I pimp everyone out

Staximus · Answer

Way too much

UrsulaY · Answer

No..

moneymagnet24 · Answer

No I'm not stupid

exitseven · Answer

not anymore.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

No--

AmeerX · Answer

I do.

GlowUpGirly5 · Answer

No lol

Do you give too much of yourself to others?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Do you give too much of yourself to others?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.