I can’t stand my husband anymore , how to find a better woman for him?

[Anonymous]

I ignored him every time he talks to me. He just doesn’t get that I am not interested in his boring lane conversations. The worst thing is that he thinks that I am still with him because I love him. He acts like a nerd who you treat bad and forgives you after to belittle him. I can’t. He’s a hard working man, faithful and good looking. What woman on f-cling earth would take him away from me? No one because he’s boring! I really want to break him down bad until he realizes that i want him to initiate the divorce papers so I don’t feel bad he will be lonely for the rest of his stupid life. The way he fucking esta stresses me the f out. He’s not nasty but puts things that are not supposed to go there or maybe I just can’t stand him and everything pisses me off about him. I present myself single and have tell him if I find a better man or as soon as we finish the house we are building I’m out.
He’s a f coward who avoids confrontations when people treated me bad in front of him that this is what I became … his number one hater.

[Summeroflove]

You need to divorce him that’s probably why you married him was to use him and the fact you feel remorse means you need to do some SERIOUS repenting. The first step tell him you’re no longer in love with him and divorce. You’re both better off alone in peace then together that’s obvious.

You said he’s loyal and a good man meaning there is probably a woman out there who will want him. You both were Honesty probably never meant to be with one another. You breaking it off will hurt but he will move on it will hurt worse when you keep tearing him down. I can only guess you’ve had multiple affairs.

You probably married him because he’s a hard worker. A gold digger. You deserve to be miserable if you never married for love. He doesn’t

[Asker]

Actually I was the one with money when I met him but now I’m sick and I can’t work so he’s helping with the payments. He doesn’t make much ok. A year ago I was almost about to lose my car because he did t want to help me but when he got cancer I had to work extremely hard to pay all the bills while he was at the hospital recovering. Of course I want to divorce him so bad but there’s a contract business and as soon as that is over im out. Also I have a chicken heart but now I’m just trying to ignore him so he can tell i don’t want him because after many times I have put him down he doesn’t understand. He’s a good man but not for me. I am there ti fight for you and defend you from everything he won’t and will only mind he’s business even talk to people who talk shit about me because he said that’s none of my business. I have a chicken heart otherwise I will destroy that business without caring much

[Summeroflove]

DIVORCE HIM

[Summeroflove]

Stop making excuses for yourself. You know you’re being a shitty person. Let him either be alone in peace or find someone who will love him. You’re going to be the DEATH of him

[Summeroflove]

I don’t care about any other contracts. Tell him the truth and tell it to him hard and file for divorce.

[Finchie40]

Just divorce him and leave him , don’t worry about finding him another woman , that’s something he can do on his own time

[Alwayreckles93]

Just get the day divorce papers started already! If you are malicious by making his life a living hell. Just live! I cut you some slack just for the fact that he can not forced you to live him. Just live and let him find some other girl that is best fit for him.

[PeachyPie93]

So divorce him, you are the one being a coward since you don't love him but won't take the next step. You are actually wasting his time and chance to be with someone who actually enjoys him so stop pussy farting around and get the papers.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to help navigate these emotional storms with empathy and humor. Love, you're in a bit of a tangled web here. 😅 It sounds like there's a lot of frustration and resentment built up, and you're wishing for some distance, but let's remember every relationship deserves clear communication. Why not have an honest heart-to-heart with him, instead of resorting to hurtful tactics? It might not be lovebombing, but it could spark a positive change or at the very least, give you both a sense of clarity. Remember, breaking someone down isn't the answer—even a nerd deserves love! 💖

[Mrtcn01]

I m so sorry for you but if you decided to divorce you should take a look again your mutual decision which you made beofre like building house etc.. the more you give the more you can't go.. as in your story he does not give any satsicaftion neither in bed nor in emotional life.. in my oppinion take 1 wwek holiday far from home.. and stay alone just 2 days.. than start think your future life without him than turn back explain and put it on way..

[Anonymous]

Every single word of this post makes you sound like a terrible, nasty, selfish, narcissistic person. He's better off without you. Dump him you're doing him a favor just don't sue him for all his crap like a W.

[slatyb]

Why don't you divorce?

[Anonymous]

i assume he was the one who asked you out

[jahaims]

You're trash

[Anonymous]

Just walk away

[Anonymous]

. Ok