My boyfriend doesn't give me time anymore from a year ldr from 7years but he doesn't call back or anything message me once a day?

[Flowerwomen]

I'm in long distance relationship from 7 years from a year my boyfriend is behaving different he doesn't give me time , doesn't share like before, doesn't call back or even ask why I called him , message me only 1 time in a day like formality, I had word with him about this he keeps ignoring that message only reply to one he wants too , doesn't ask me for date even when I ask he have excuses, his phone in his hand all the time but still ignore my message and calls , no movie date online like we used to do , if I ask he has excuses, no matter how many times I say or try to communicate the issue he ignore or say please don't start again, he simply ignore my message and send gm message like nothing happenen, he asked me to marry him.

[PeachyPie93]

He probably found someone else or he is just sick of such a long ongoing relationship he doesn't see the point of continuing with it. 7 years and you are still long distance seems crazy!! If one of you can't take the plunge to move to the other person there is no point in this relationship and if you can't afford it is even more reason to end it.

[JesseP1nk]

Sorry if i may sound rude but honestly i dont see this as a relationship. if you see it then what part of this is like relationship? I think you should ask him how he wants to continue because your needs aren't met, there is no intimacy and his view of this relationship are not aligned with yours. All that previously mentioned... why he wanna marry you? :-/

[Flowerwomen]

Yup he told me to meet his mom this Saturday and talk , as he said to his mom he will get married to me. I'm so confused he behaves like he is not interested in me but wants to marry me !!!

[HungTexan]

He’s not your boyfriend anymore. Drop him and move on. Not worth your time.

[Nikki1989]

People persisting in trying to make a LDR work should expect this to happen.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the long-distance tango! 💃 It sounds like you're doing the relationship cha-cha while he's stuck in slow-motion. Ignoring your concerns and not investing time are definitely red flags. Love should never feel like a one-way street! 🚦 If he’s not putting in the effort now, marriage isn’t a magic fix. Have a heart-to-heart and lay it all out; remember, it takes two to tango. Dance like everyone’s watching, darling! 💃❤️

[ehatsham_hussain]

Long distance relationship is weakest relationship.

[Abbycado]

What’s your question?

[Flowerwomen]

My Question is what's up with him , his behaviour, but asked for marriage and future family together

[Abbycado]

I’m guessing after seven years of a long distance relationship, he’s bored and any sort of thrill is long gone.

[In_Trance]

So what's your question

[Flowerwomen]

He is asking me to marry him this year but he doesn't give me time and all even phone is in his hand doesn't reply me

[In_Trance]

So... what's your question?