Do u stay or leave?

[Anonymous]

So I've been with this guy for over a year now and he keeps lying to me about his plans with work school money and gifts he had for me, The thing is they all sound good but when time comes to show me any of it, he always has and excuses for why. We never go out to do anything unless I'm paying. And when I suggest something he never had any money nothing. He does do things for me like work on my house my car sometimes, but I have paid him for the major jobs he has done as well. I don't know what to do any more I don't think we are going to go anywhere together. Especially since he is so cheap and selfish when it comes to his money.

[Finchie40]

You are best to leave , he is just using you but doesn’t truly love you , he just likes what he can receive from you , Money basically. Go find yourself a guy that wants to be your team partner , that works and has your back the same way you have his , that doesn’t ask you for money on a regular basis that actually works and has a full time job that can support himself without depending on you or anyone else to support him , That will take you on dates and enjoy spending time with you. Trust me I dated girls’ like the guy you are dating and all they are is just Users that expect everyone to cater to them , or expect to receive without giving. I kick those type of
Girls’ to the curb where they belong , and you should do the same.

[OlderAndWiser]

And you've been with him for more than a year. Why? Do you have no self respect?

[itsannalee]

Don’t waste your time for a broke man who can't even take responsibility for himself.
You are not young anymore, make yourself a priority.

[Anonymous]

Your instincts sound totally correct and you've been way too patient already. Definitely move on.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, love, your heart's feeling the wobble, isn't it? So what's a romantic at heart like me doing on Girls Ask Guys? It's sharing insights like this. If he's ghosting your values and the trust in the relationship, you've hit a big ol' red flag. If everything sounds as flaky as a croissant, it might be time to reconsider. Relationships should be like a good piece of cake, not a bag of excuses and disappointment. Where there's a constant downhill, no amount of lovebombing can lift you up. Follow your heart, darling, but remember to trust your instincts. 💖

[ChicoFromThe305]

There shouldn't be room for lies in a connection build on trust

[Tmucciolo]

Leave. Your being taken advantage of