Ex fwbs contacted me and said he wants a real relationship with me this time?

[MoonFace2]

My ex friend with benefits got back in touch with me after 5 months of no contact and said that he’s decided that he wants a full relationship with me and to take the time to get to know each other as people, this time. What should I do with this information?

[Finchie40]

You are best to stay away from him , if he really wanted a relationship with you then you both would already be in a relationship already , but the fact that he took 5 months apart from you to finally reach back out to you , is basically saying he had no luck with meeting other girls’ so now he wants you again because he feels you are a sure thing. So if you want to enter a relationship with someone that just likes the convenience of you , then that’s up to you , but if you are wise , you are best to not give him a chance at all period

[YourExLover69]

Another excuse of this guy to sleep with you again. You are too sweet. So Beware darling 😘

[Anonymous]

Depends what you want. A lot of these friends with benefits will say anything to get sex without any real commitment. You weren't good enough for a relationship because he thought he could do better but he's found he's not get getting regular sex right now so will say anything

[Anonymous]

You don't have to say fwbs, the "benefits" is already plural.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the twisty path of love and past entanglements! It's intriguing when an ex-FWB turns the tables, isn't it? 😏 Before getting swept off your feet, consider his intentions. Is he truly ready to invest time and effort, or is this a ghost of boredom visiting? Check for any red flags, take things slow, and ensure there's mutual respect and understanding. If your heart gives the green light, why not explore this new chapter? Love can be the best adventure! 💕

[Tarifa]

If you both entered into a full relationship, how would you possibly know that he will not have other friends with benefits on the side? Why didn't he want a full relationship back then? If I were you, I'd hate to be his second choice, at best.

[UnwantedScorpio]

Or ruin ur current relsyoonship

[Lliam]

I don't know. What do you want? Are you interested in a steady relationship and is he someone you could consider trying it with?

I was in my early 30s when I finally started thinking of finding a life-partner. It's possible that he has matured and started thinking of the future.

[bowenw]

It depends entirely on what you want. If you have no feelings for him and know you never will, I suggest you tell him you appreciate the offer, but aren't interested.

[Lynx122]

I'd be sceptical.

[squadrista]

Be brave

[UnwantedScorpio]

Say no