I ask him to say sorry when he hurts me, he never notices. Even when I said im hurt he just don't say sorry until I ask from him. What should I do?

When I say I'm upset, he says "don't be sad" or he just doesn't care. He doesn't apologize. He usually only apologizes for simple things that don't make me upset, but that's very rare. but when i tell him that im sad or hurt then he says "no need to be sad" or "dont be sad" and he doesn't say sorry to me. He doesn't directly insult me ​​but you still feel little disrespects like that or sometimes it can be a big disrespect directly. But there is never any insult or bad words like curse. but he can talk very hurtful and disrespectful way sometimes. Sometimes I feel humiliated. but every couple has disagreements anyway. I never made him feel humilated, i never insulted him god knows. i never disrespected him, i didn't behave him bad. so i can't understand why sometimes he is good but sometimes behave me hurtful way. why? Please, those who have experienced this, tell me if he is a narcissist or not. If he is a narcissist, what type is he and what should I do? He apologizes for very simple things whenever he wants to, other than that, I usually say that I'm sad or im hurt when I'm upset, but that's not enough to make him say sorry. He don't care or he always apologizes when I ask from him only otherwise he never does. Many times i told him that I shouldn't ask or beg for him to say sorry, even today i said same, he says ok but he never changed, he never said sorry without me asking. Sometimes he even thinks that I'm trying to force him to apologize. He says I demand him to say sorry and he complain sometimes but i never force him, i kindly ask "please say sorry my love, im sad/hurt" i say. What should I do? What should I tell him? Im a very emotional and sensitive person but he is not like that. He is cold generally. He doesn't seem empathetic. He is not a romantic, empathetic or compassionate person. These are my observations, but maybe it's because he's introverted. Maybe he's not a narcissist. I don't want to be unfair to him.
I ask him to say sorry when he hurts me, he never notices. Even when I said im hurt he just don't say sorry until I ask from him. What should I do?
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