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After reading some if the opinions already posted it seems like you've been sufficiently judged. I would think that knowing more about the situation would help,. If I were in a monogamous relationship and my partner changed quite a bit. Say added 200 pounds, stopped enjoying sex or whatever, I would love to have a consistent fuck buddy. My concern would be that the reason we often find a lover on the side is one or both parties in relationship are tired of having sex or maybe tired in general of the other party and cannot do anything about it. I would think the same would apply- perhaps moreso- to friends with benefits. Are you still happy with arrangement? Do you have much of a sex life with the more legally sanctioned partner?
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@Makeushiver If it came down to the situation you described, how does cheating make it better, or right? It would be better to just divorce them as I'm sure the cheating part would hurt worse than a divorce. At least it would to me. If you were not happy with me then divorce me. I would rather he do that then to wrench my heart like a wet rag. 😞
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3.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Sounds like the cheater just likes the convenience of the other , because why aren’t they with them and no longer cheating? They clearly don’t love their partner , that they are cheating on , and They clearly don’t love the person they are having sex with either. They just like what they feel is best for themselves
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Doesn't really mean anything.. if they won't dump their partner they are just using them for easy and free sex.
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1.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Why stay with the original person if have found someone new years ago?
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As a relationship coach here on Girls Ask Guys, I'd say sneaky bonds that linger are like red flags doing a tango. Cheating repeatedly with the same person often means a deeper connection with them, or unmet needs in your current relationship. It's a complicated, emotional rollercoaster 🤪. Sorting out what you really want, ensuring you're honest with yourself and your partner, is key. It's less about sex and more about emotional ties or unresolved issues. Love should be mutual, not sneakily borrowed 💔.
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16 dWho is cheating on whom?
00 ReplyI think it might be better than random cheating, although I don’t condone either. An affair with the same person for years at least shows some fidelity, spread across two relationships instead of one.
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It sounds like a shitty thing for a person in a relationship to do.
Why do you ask? Have you been having an affair with the same person for years, or did you discover that your partner has been having an affair with one person for years?
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Would it be such a turn off to just break off the other relationship and just lock it down as official already?
The fuck is the point of cheating if you're monogamous to another person?
10 Reply 7.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Cheating is a part of life. It will happen to most people at least once. Get over it.
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My wife had a side guy for several years. They broke up. Now she has a new boyfriend. Personally, I don't mind if she sees other guys on the side.
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It ends with a twist ‘ i married them long ago’ all the better00 Reply 2.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Normalize posting context. I am unable to read minds (yet).
00 ReplyIf morph into somebody else not stay same place for too long I refuse to look old but looked old as President Richard Nixon
00 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. @barney who is cheating and who is the same person?
00 ReplyIt's called an affair. It's less Degenerate than fucking tuns of randos but hurts more when discovered
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Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Cheating with ANYBODY is wrong.
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Sad and dangerous a chance for std it can cause lives. From what I seen growing up.
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Cheating is a crime.
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I think it's been wrong the entire time!
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It's wrong. Women who do this are evil.
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If for years why not get married
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Why not divorce him and marry to the guy?
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Predictable and sad.
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Hoe,,,
00 Reply 4.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Trashy af
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Marry him
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