Do you think it's possible to rekindle the flame with an ex?

[Simslover92]

If there's growth, do you think it's possible to reconnect and make things work?

[Rachel207]

I think it depends on the circumstances of the break up. If you both agreed on the break up then it is likely that you could get back together in future but if it was because one partner cheated on the other it is almost impossible to recover the relationship.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but only if there’s real growth

[AI Opinion]

As a love guru and a connoisseur of relationships, I get asked this juicy question all the time! 🔥 Rekindling with an ex is like trying to enjoy last night's pizza - it might still be tasty, but don’t ignore the need for fresh ingredients! Growth and self-reflection are key ingredients here. If both hearts have matured and moved beyond old issues, a successful reunion isn't too far-fetched. But remember, those red flags should always be doubly checked. If they're still waving, it might be smarter to swipe left! ✌️ Keep the passion alive and choose wisely, my friend! 🌟

[ohsheeT]

That person came into your life to teach you something or vice versa the person went out of your life to teach you something or vice versa.. . You have to understand everything changes in life and how we change with them is how we move on for bigger and better things

[OlderAndWiser]

You ask "is it possible?" It's clearly not impossible, as it has been done a few times, so the answer is, "Yes, it is possible."

But if the question is, "Is it likely?" the answer is quite different.

[exitseven]

DING, DING, DING

[DishLady]

It depends on what caused the breakup. If it was due to cheating then there's no sense in going back, for example.

[glennos89]

Maybe in rare occasions things can work out but scarres from the past will come back to hunt you. Most people can't leave things that happened in the past behind them completely and therefore it ends up in having the same problems over again. In most cases its a waste of time and energy.

That being said doesn't mean that you can't have a relationship with her. If both of them set clear boundary's keep up that agreement, they can have a great plutonic friendship and a healthy relationship together. But romance can't be a part of this friendship.

Me and my first ex decided together to keep having contact as plutonic friends without romance and that's the best choice we could have made together. She has become my best friend and we will make sure we both can have a new relationship without interfering in each others love life. No matter what happens she will be there for me when I really need help. It's a blessing to became friends instead of lovers and I wouldn't want it to be any other way

[Orion84]

Sure, it's possible, but in my opinion, it's rarely a good idea.

An ex is an ex for a reason, and chances are that reason, whatever it was, will still be a problem the second time around.

Better to take the lessons we've learned, and move on, rather than trying to recapture the past.

[NoDecision]

Sure, there are many people who have been divorced and then remarried, some have done this a couple of times. So it is possible, but not always probable. Seems to me that you divorce someone for a reason. And unless that reason has been dealt with and repaired it is more than likely that the marriage/relationship will not last, yet again.

[Sevenpointfive]

i don't think that's a healthy idea. let me explain.

they broke up with you. they had a problem with you. just because you come back that doesn't fix it. there's some other motive there for them. to me that means you are being used for something.

[PeachyPie93]

It's possible but never a good idea.. I would never go back to a guy who broke my heart unless he did something so drastic it could change my whole life for the better. If not then I would never consider him.

[exitseven]

Maybe, but people are exes for a reason. Why would you want to go back there again. ?

[Simslover92]

Because sometimes people weren't ready to be in a relationship due to not being fully prepared but when there is growth and understanding of what went wrong, I think there is a possibility that it could work out this time around. I'm not saying I will but I can see why some people do and it works out for them if they have grown as people.

[naartjie]

Maybe for others but not for me. I like to make them hate me so they never come back.

[Zack-Bann]

It depends on so many things with regards to why it ended.


But more often than not it’s a bad idea fueled by nostalgia

[UnwantedScorpio]

I dated player

[Zack-Bann]

I highly doubt he’s changed all that much unless it’s been many years and he’s serious about settling down.

Also: unwanted scorpio?
I didn’t think that could be possible 😎
(Yes I am one)

[Flower7]

Best to start over with someone new. More than likely, the same problems from before will repeat themselves.

[Drumlin2001]

It's not a simple yes or no. Every situation will be different. I many situations no. But it's not impossible in some circumstances

[NathanDavis]

if there was growth or change... then they must be a different person now...

[biraileeşkadını]

There’s no such thing as an ex; something meant for fun. Someone who truly loves doesn’t separate from the one they love.

[ArrowheadSW]

It is possible, if the reasons for the original breakup can be resolved.

[andreasderjuengere]

Not really.

Unless the ''ex'' status was caused by a misunderstanding.

Which rarely is the case.

[Nikki1989]

It is possible, just very unlikely.

[lilBigPotato]

Possible but usually they are an ex for a reason

[ProbablyClueless]

It's very possible. It's almost never a good idea though.

[TheStaleMarshmellow]

Yeah, and it's gonna burn just like last time too

[Alex-Snow]

I guess a lot depends on what caused the breakup. But with no growth I doubt it

[ABC1x1x]

Anything is possible when it comes to love. People change. That one thing thay was a "no" may now be gone.

[Iron_Man]

yes of course it is. If you like the guy go for it

[KittygosMeoWW]

Maybe… with my ex? No! He’s abusive and battling his sexuality

[LiamS95]

Yes for one or two days/nights but unlikely for the longterm.

[Nightmoon23]

I mean it’s possible sort of my wife rekindled something with her ex.

[Itried2help]

Why? I know women don't get too hit on people really but why?

[Cormac995]

Sometimes. Rarely though.

[HungTexan]

Sometimes it’s possible, if both of you want it.

[msc545]

An ex is an ex for a reason.

[FunkyMonkee]

I've done it several times, already.

[SleepingHazard]

Depending on why it ended.

[Brandi555]

It’s possible. But not for me.

[UrsulaY]

Why? It did not work the first time.

[TonyMetal___86]

If both wants it to work than it will work

[Jay-_-]

Yes very possible, would I WANT THAT? Hell NO

[Anonymous]

no once it ends, there is no looking back.

[kaucky1]

It's possible if split up on good terms

[Pterodon]

It’s possible but highly unlikely

[LunarEclipse433]

Yes if it was very good at one time

[NicholasRedone]

I never would 🙃🤌🏻

[khadiismineeeee]

No. An ex is an ex. The end.

[UnwantedScorpio]

Nope sadly