If someone hurts or cheats on you there's only 3 reasons why they did. Want to know what they are?

[sage2021]

https://youtu.be/CTarVLFvtf4?si=F3UalhOv_8-OuEIs

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1 y

I guess people think that they know it all and don't want to learn anything new. I find the videos that I post full of useful messages and information. I have learned a lot from watching them but I don't think that I am a know it all. Even at my age I still thrive on learning things. I don't have to do that but I'm not going to let my brain wilt away.

[SueShe]

If someone hurst me emotionally or physically and/or cheats on me, then I don't need to know the reason because that person would not live long enough with me to tell me why he did it.

He would be out of my place within the hour and he would become yet just another unknown person to me. I would not want to know about him, his family and relatives or whether he is dead or alive. The less I am reminded of what kind of perverted person he is, the better I feel.

To me, the second I find out, he is dead in my mind.

[Dongie]

I discovered another one a while back. Menopause. She just changed over night. After being ripped up a couple of times she admitted it may be from Menopause. Now its no more friends at all.

[1920s_Vamp]

she wants you back!

[Dongie]

How would you know?

[Dongie]

Who are you?

[1920s_Vamp]

if she admitted it was from her Menopause that was her way of saying she wanted you back and you did not pick up on that.

[Dongie]

No, ma'am. She said this, then a few weeks passed, and she did it a couple more times, then accused me of calling her something after we were good when I didn't. And she cut me out. I was left standing there, so to speak.

[1920s_Vamp]

have you tried reaching out again? after all
of what took place? sometimes people just need time to sift through their emotions and from what i have heard Menopause is no picnic. It can really put someone into a depression.

[Dongie]

She could I can't. I feel I would be invading her area. I don't think she wanted anymore than friendship, and that eroded away. It ended strangely after 2.5 months of being peas & carrots.

[1920s_Vamp]

ok. sorry it ended this way for you. hope you find someone special

[Dongie]

Hah, thanks!

[KrakenAttackin]

There is a great video from "The Good Wife"(?), about how there are neurochemical changes in women during menopause and how western women REFUSE to accept this as a change within themselves, and instead blame their husbands. The amount of women filing for divorce during menopause is striking, yet another reason western women cannot be trusted.

[Dongie]

Ouch! Isn't it a pity! I should be clear at my age. I don't forsee nabbing one 10 years younger than myself.

[1920s_Vamp]

lots of younger girls like older men @Dongie

[KrakenAttackin]

@1920s_Vamp Buy men are done with the hassle.

[Finchie40]

I didn’t watch the video but I know Selfishness is one of the main reasons why people cheat.

[Sevenpointfive]

just tell us. this isn't a tabloid.