He started becoming abusive?

[Anonymous]

Me and him have been dating for 2 years, Before we dated I was a virgin and he raped me. Even though I was hurt by it I became obsessed in a way. I decided to continue seeing him. I knew it wasn’t the right thing to do but part of me wanted it to work out and be with the person I lost my virginity to. As we were dating I noticed he continuously cheated on me, It has never been in person to my knowledge. in the beginning he seemed like he was trying to stop. He gave me his phone pass to reassure me but that didn’t stop him. He tried hiding it more - I kept finding it. Eventually he changed his phone password and Everything is also suddenly my fault because I went looking through his phone and don’t trust him? It bothered me a lot and I kept always trying to get the password. But one day I decided I should just try to trust him. Mainly because i cheated on him back and felt guilty for it. He never knew or found out about this. At this point I caught him at least 8 times. I felt guilty and stopped and he never found out. So afterwards, I kept having dreams of second Snapchat accounts for months and every time I asked he of course denied and got offensive till I eventually found it. He was apologetic up until I once again found it. Initially it was little shoves till recently my friend called the cops cuz he became very abusive and chocked me to points I started losing consciousness. I know this all sounds like he’s bad but there was also a lot of genuinely good moments too. I know it only becomes worse once DV starts but I also for some reason feel guilty and I feel like I ruined his life. When I saw him get arrested it tore me to pieces but I can’t get over how his face looked when he was chocking me, and the bruises he left on my body. Part of me still loves him but I’m also scared of him in a way and he also has honestly made me a bit insecure from all his cheating. But despite everything he’s done I can’t seem to stop looking for him. Any advice for me? 🥹

[Finchie40]

Sadly to say this but you need to go get some professional help and seek therapy immediately , I don’t mean that in a bad way , you clearly have experienced trauma in your life and unfortunately you kept that trauma with you without realizing you were. The fact that you were raped by him and you decided to stay with him , was the first mistake you made by staying with him. No body in their right mind Rapes anyone He clearly needs to be institutionalized as well or put into jail. Unfortunately for you , You were blinded by this because you were traumatized. People that experience trauma tend to bury it inside themselves and move on from it best they can without making a big deal about it , not realizing it was a big deal. I experienced the same thing when I was molested by an older women when I was a little boy , I didn’t think it effected me , but apparently it did without me realizing it did. So I went to therapy to help me put the trauma behind me instead of just burying it in me. So my advice to you is go get help and stay away from him as much as possible because he is clearly a fucked up individual that needs serious mental help as well

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Have a bit of courage and end it all and leave.

No second chances nor none of al that feeling sorry for him crap.

If you stay you will be abuse again at some point and it's going to be your fault for staying.

[PeachyPie93]

Get some mental help.. Tell your parents I'm sure if they knew they would not let you keep seeing this guy.

[Anonymous]

Just cut all kinds of relationship or any kind of connection with him.

[AI Opinion]

My aim here is to offer guidance and support, beautiful soul. It feels like you're tangled in a toxic web where love got twisted up with something that's definitely not love. Love shouldn't hurt like this, and it's a huge red flag if someone harms you physically or emotionally 😢.

Your safety is top priority. You showed immense courage speaking out, and I urge you to prioritize yourself. It’s okay to have mixed feelings, but remember, you deserve love that heals, not harms. Seek professional help for both emotional support and legal guidance if needed. Stay strong and always choose you! 💪❤️

[Nerdvana]

Yes, you should break up with him. He is using you. But weather you break up or not. You honestly need professional help. Do your parents knowing this is happening?

[Anonymous]

why does this sound like fanfic?

[Asker]

Idek what that is 😭

[beefcakebradybatson]

DUMP DAT DUDE !!!

[seeyounexttuesday]

fake and gay