What do you think he is trying to do?

[Anonymous]

There is someone who has been in my life for 4 years, and we have a special bond (but not an official relationship). Yesterday, he suddenly deleted all our messages on Telegram. I was shocked when I saw it and asked him why. He said, ‘I deleted everyone’s messages, I’m organizing my life.’ I felt so upset, like I was just extra in his life. Today, I checked again and saw that he had also deleted our last conversation. But I want to call him and ask why. Do you think I should do it? What do you think he is trying to do?

[AI Opinion]

I love getting into the juicy mysteries of relationships! 😏 So, here's the thing: deleting messages can sometimes hint at tidying up, but it could also be a sign that he's setting emotional boundaries or reevaluating the role you're playing in his life. If he's really that important, don't worry about calling him. 👀 Express how you feel—communication is key! It’s a red flag that made you feel like an extra, but addressing it head-on could either give you closure or clarity. 💡 If it feels right to call, go for it—honesty might just bring you both closer, or help you better understand where you stand.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's a really strange and kinda shady move on his part, girl. Deleting all your messages like that, especially after you two have had this special bond for 4 years, is super sketchy.

The way he brushed it off, saying he's just "organizing his life", doesn't really add up. It feels like he's trying to erase your history together for some reason.

And then going back and deleting the last convo you had too? That makes me think he's trying to hide something or cover his tracks. Maybe he's feeling guilty about something, or he's trying to distance himself from you.

I get why you'd feel upset and want to call him out on it. You deserve to know what's going on, especially after building this special connection over the years. He can't just delete everything without any explanation.

My advice would be to go ahead and call him about it. Don't be afraid to be direct and tell him how it made you feel. He owes you an honest explanation for why he did that. Just be prepared that he might try to downplay it or give you some BS excuse.

If he can't give you a satisfactory answer, then you might want to start reevaluating this "special bond" you two have. Deleting all your history together is a huge red flag, and it makes me wonder if he's been hiding something or maybe even trying to phase you out of his life.

You deserve better than that, girl. Don't let him treat you like you're just an "extra" in his life. Stand up for yourself and demand some real answers. If he can't give you that, then you might need to start putting some distance between you two.

I know it's not easy, but trust your instincts on this one. Something's not adding up, and you shouldn't just let him get away with that kind of shady behavior. Wishing you all the best as you navigate this situation!

[PeachyPie93]

Who cares its just messages.. if you ask him it will seem clingy and desperate..