In a relationship what other things are as hurtful and unforgiving as cheating?

[Anonymous]

What other things would have the same effect of getting betrayed, the same as getting cheated out? Other things (besides infidelity) that would cause you to block them and never want to see them again.

I was thinking if you trust them with your money and find out they've been using it for gambling or bad things behind your back. Or you find out they've been faking care and loving you (they never even liked you), using you for a dare, for pleasure or wealth. What other things would be betrayals besides cheating?

[Summeroflove]

Being abused physically. Being called horrible names or told to die. Doing things on purpose making someone miserable. Some are better moving on from you can forgive but keep them at a distance.

[RavVid]

I think pretending they loved you for convenience and then were out the door when they didn't need you any more. Oh yeah forgot about draining the joint bank account.

Borrowing a substantial amount of money and paying it back for a while then telling you they had given enough money to you but it was only half they paid back.

Two biggest hurtful ones done to me.

[Anonymous]

An ex of mine was convinced I cheated on him so he beat me into intensive care, fractured my skull broke ribs. Before I could accept the rapes because sometimes I got into it but not where I was coughing and missing blood for a week and had two black guys

[Asker]

I'm so sorry to hear your ex boyfriend was a lowlife POS. I hope he got charged. Even if you had cheated, there is no excuse for that type of brutality.

[Vesuvius87]

Physical abuse or child abandonment. If he hits me or walks away from his own child, it's over. No second chances at all.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the spicy world of relationship drama! 😏 Besides infidelity, some soul-crushing betrayals include constant lying and manipulation. Picture this: pouring your heart and trust into someone, only to discover they've been feeding you a buffet of lies. If your partner belittles you or dismisses your feelings, that's a neon-red flag! Trust, like a delicate soufflé, can deflate with emotional abandonment or disrespectful behavior. 😬 Keep those heart shields handy, and cherish the good vibes with someone who truly gets you and treats you like the royalty you are! 😉👑

[DishLady]

The gaslighting that surrounds the cheating can have a more lasting and toxic effect on a person than the cheating itself.

[Finchie40]

Physically abused , and mentally abused , is an instant break up

[OneViewpoint]

Physical abuse.

Mental abuse.

Money handling problems like credit card debt.

Addiction to drugs and alcohol.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I suppose it's anything where they go off on a dark path that you know you cannot follow.
Cheating, financial or emotional or moral misconduct, legal irregulatories, public shaming or scandal, major breach of trust, abandonment.
All these things can effectively crush your heart and relationship.
It's not just the immediate horror, but the knowledge that the combined future you were working towards gladly has now died.

[Nikki1989]

Physical, verbal and emotional abuse.

[WhitneySnow]

Those all sound pretty bad, but cheating is the worst

[Shiprex]

Disrespect, assault, manipulation, lying, deceit, stealing, etc.

[serious]

Being childish, immature and playing mind games like playing hard to get, using the jealousy card etc.

[HungTexan]

I think manipulation and physical abuse are at least as bad as infidelity.

[Manuelwe]

Lying and stealing your money. But worse taking your money for Musk or Trump love child

[nawtee_me]

Lying and the inability to trust are reasons that might make someone want to cheat. So they are just as important

[Professor-college]

I'm not really sure what to say I mean in certain cases I have seen couples overcoming even what you just mentioned that's unforgivable.

[Asker]

True. Everyone is different. Maybe what's unforgivable to most of us isn't to them.

[Professor-college]

Yeah I mean I had a friend who was shocked that his girlfriend wasn't faithful with someone else and in the end they even got married and they went together for almost 7 years

[Anonymous]

I don't fake my love when I say it I mean it

[Caroline91]

Gaslighting…in any way.

[Alexandra1996]

Lying, abuse of all kinds. Hiding things.

[Gymrat01]

Abuse of any kind, lying.

[CubaPirate]

Lying is right up ther

[Agape93]

Rape

[James994]

Physical abuse and constant verbal abuse

[Pterodon]

Lying

[masterSir]

abuse