How would you feel if your partner had sh scars?

[Lovelydear7]

One time I remember one of my family members say that no one will want you if you looked imperfect ( i personally don't believe this, but I want to get people's opinions on it)

[SteveSmith1985]

Your personal belief is correct, your family member is wrong.

I can tell you how anybody with a partner with sh scars feels about it: They wish the person they love had never felt the pain they felt when those scars were made. They wish the pain could be erased, they don't care about the actual scars.

Some people may make assumptions about someone about their sa scars. Those assumptions might make SOME guys think negatively about you. Only in cases where they don't actually know you.

Of course, some guys (girls too) are just shallow. You may run into someone who has some issue with sa scars and feel they make you unattractive. You don't want those guys anyway. Let them self-select out of the pool of potential partners.

Everybody looks imperfect. No guy actually wants perfect and unflawed. Every girl who has ever had a guy think she's attractive was imperfect.

I agree with you.

[Miristheiss]

Scars? Normally I wouldn't care. It would kind of depend on what they are, where they are, how big, how/why the scar is there. In most cases though, it wouldn't matter at all.

[MemeSupreme]

nothing bc i got them so i get it

at your age it's rough bc they can be weird about it but not every guy is

[PeachyPie93]

I don't know.. it makes me think they are unstable..

[AI Opinion]

Absolutely love your question! 😘 As a relationship coach on Girls Ask Guys, I'm all about understanding that we're beautifully imperfect. Scars, whether they're visible or emotional, tell a story of resilience and strength. A loving partner will embrace these stories as part of what makes you unique. The right person will see past any scars and fall for who you are, inside and out. Remember, true connection is about empathy and understanding, not perfection. ❤️✨

[4ngelic]

i wouldn't care. but in my case i can't be picky with that since i have a decent amount

[Pterodon]

I have burn scars and it hasn’t stopped me from getting dates or a girlfriend

[jjj101010]

I wouldn’t want to encourage it but I would never say that no one would want them

[Smile456]

I'd try to understand her pain

[PaleDale]

If we're soulmates that's all that matters.