Guys, Would you let your woman have a sugar buddy?

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Me and my husband always joke about me getting one to pay for my expensive taste lol

And for the people who don't know a sugar buddy is a man who sends a woman money for conversation they never do anything sexual

[Stevepro68]

Well I'm not married but I have been in a vomited relationship with my girlfriend of 4 years. When we met she was a SW. Apparently I can handle it. She would shake her booty and they rain cash on her. I'm not saying there weren't challenges. But I will say flying 1st class and taking marvelous vacations all paid for by these men lusting after her. felt pretty good. With one exception a very old man who really was on love with her. She never led him on always told him that it was a fantasy that would never happen. He seemed to be ok as her friend and they had what I would say is typical lap dance type experience. Yet when she admitted to him that we were together. It crushed him. When they first met she was with a girl long term and I think he felt ok with the rejection because she was living with a woman. Obviously she is bisexual a lot of SW are by the way. When she went with me and then became committed it was really hard for him. Painful experience even for me.. I know how awesome she is I totally understood his love. Anyways it can be done but you have to have a secure guy a smart girl and really hard for someone to not get hurt.

[Stevepro68]

WTF auto correct Vomited should be committed

[SteveSmith1985]

Absolutely not. That's gross, and weird as hell. It seems exploitive. The whole concept. Collecting money to talk to somebody? Goddamn, I thought I felt strongly about people buying and selling sex. To me this is even worse. It's taking money from the sadest motherfuckers on earth. It's profiting off of loneliness.

I've never heard this term before. I think the whole thing is super wrong. (although I'd be a lot richer if I were charging to talk to people. Still. Hell no. That's messed up)

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to help you navigate the colorful world of relationships, and this scenario definitely adds some zest! If your dynamic is built on clear boundaries and your husband is genuinely comfortable with the arrangement, then who's to say you can't add a little sugar to your life? Just watch out for those red flags, communication is key! 🍭✨

[molonski2]

Having had quite a bit to do with sugar babies , these relationships are always complete , so never try and kid yourself that its any other way..

Outside of that you are looking for an impotent idiot , they would be hard to find.

So the answer is an obvious NO , that's if you want your marriage to continue , no one is going to send you money for nothing , unless they are insane.

[Miristheiss]

Absolutely not. If she is talking with some other man who is paying her for her time then she is not my woman. If she even considered participating in something like this then she's no woman I'd ever choose to be with anyway. She is degenerate and for the streets.

[Anonymous]

No. I don’t even get why a man would be w a girl like this. If he is he has to be some simp ass male to accept a girl like that. She’s no better if she’s willing to take on another man by entertaining him w conversations just to get money for her expensive lifestyle. How’s the saying go, “she belongs to the streets.” Or only takes the right price for her to show her T n A.

[godfatherfan]

Why do people your age want to do anything other then work for their things? You want to be a prostitute just because you are too lazy to work. And yes, you can be a hooker without having sex. I feel so sad for your generation.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

If you read you would see it was a joke and I've worked 40 hour weeks since I was 16 helped raise my nieces and now work 40-50 hour weeks so Def not lazy don't have to take the joke as hard as a dick lol

[michalpl00]

No. You seriously gonna let another man pay for you. Disrespect to your partner. Its gentleman 101. Man proves for his woman. But doesn’t spoil her making himself poor. That is not okay. But if you want another to pay for you, he is gonna sleep with you.

[Anonymous]

No, not a Chance. If you have expensive taste it sounds like you have an issue that is causing an emotional need for expensive things that is unresolved. Life can be great without expensive things all the time. Much of time expensive things are just marketing hype. You should let that shit go and get in tune with what is important. This coming from a guy that can afford most things this world has to offer. Its all bullshit really if you want to know.

[Shiprex]

NOPE
She wouldn't be mine if she needed someone else to "pay for her" and that notion is exactly that of a SW who may at times offer talking and chatting to clients instead of sex.

[Joshydavid25]

No, that's crazy and exploiting the loneliness of some man for a financial gain.. Who'll eventually want more.. I can't believe money is so important, that people would stoop to that kind of thing.

[Billlewis]

Please ask your husband if he'd consider allowing you to have an online male pay pig. Thank you very much.

[Oldschool1981]

LOL, sure. My wife already has a boyfriend 12 years younger. She seems to make out like a bandit

[Anonymous]

It depends I guess.

Sugar Buddy is a ‘new concept’ so, if it were to occur I’d have to be reassured by her and her alone. It just sounds weird on a surface level is all.

I don't know

[Blunky]

I would say that's completely messed up in the head to even consider... but I've seen worse desperation from people on this site.

[ZephyrFluer]

Nope too weird. And Ill just talk to her instead. I am a little eccentric so she doesn't need another weirdo on the mix. She got me already.

[Phoenix98]

Nope it's just another form of prostitution plus it may start out that way but the guy will always end up wanting more in the end.

[NathanDavis]

my exes would talk to people for free... imagine that...

[MrCharlie13]

Sure, why not... But rule number one is "no feelings involved"

[Shy_Steve]

I wouldn't if it was an attractive straight Guy.

I don't think most Men would unless they know for sure there is no chance he would he would want to have Sex with her.

[glennos89]

Never! Only guys who aren't loyal themselves will allow you to

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, companionship should never be monetized, make your own damn money.

[bowenw]

It may feel kind of weird. An online one would probably be as far as I would like it to go.

[LiamJHayden]

She wouldn't need one, and no, I would not want her in any way beholden to someone in that way.

[oswaldcobblepot]

Absolutely if it meant I didn't have to pay for everything.

[DrPepper12]

I don't know. If she was COMPLETELY transparent maybe. Is this irl convo?

[Anonymous]

Another guy pays the ho and I get to use her? Why not!

[Finchie40]

No, that’s demented shit lol

[Nerdvana]

Why would any man ever give a woman money just to talk to him?

[Sudheerk]

No, Relationship is not timepass, it's responsibility

[Hellraiser1984]

F no. Because she'll eventually cheat on me. She can get a job if she wants stuff.

[blackeagle007]

Paying a woman to talk to me? I got better things to do with my $

[Avicenna]

Hell no...