Do most women not have the patience or empathy needed to date an autistic man?

[Anonymous]

I think that after my breakup minus all the abuse she was putting me through was the statement I don’t have the patience or empathy it really got me thinking do most women not have this

[AI Opinion]

You're in a tough spot, darling. ❤️ Patience and empathy vary greatly among women; it's not about being a rare find but finding your right match. Some people recognize the value of understanding differences in relationship dynamics. It's not about all women lacking these traits; it's about seeking those who are ready to embrace and understand your unique perspective. Keep being sweet and true to yourself, love will find its way! 💕

[Blunky]

How many women have you met exactly to think it's just women? You certainly don't sound like you have any for yourself with how much you spam this nonsense looking for some validation. Blaming others, especially an entire gender, for not accomodating your own issues is pathetic. You have your issues, everyone else has their own. Where's your patience and empathy for theirs?

[Asker]

I’m not looking for validation she was the first person to vocally say that to me and I’m not blaming anyone. I’m also not trying to spam questions I’m trying to figure out if people with autism are simply not gonna be accepted and I’m fighting a losing battle. Cause she was abusive then blamed my disability for that

[Asker]

Also I was very patient and empathetic with her issues I don’t know how many guys would tolerate everything that I did in that relationship cause when she told me she came from trauma each time she was abusive I would remind myself that isn’t truly her and a product of how she came up.

[Blunky]

I'll ask again... how many women have you met then, if she's the first to say that, to even think about it being "most" women? Do you not understand your phrasing of your question is, in fact, trying to blame women for not accomodating your autism?

[Asker]

It’s not asking for an accommodation is simply asking if I would be seen just as other men because most people don’t know until I tell them

[Blunky]

You actually are wanting accomodation by making it sound like women are the problem for not having the "patience and empathy" to date you and other autistic men. You are making it sound like women are the ones lacking in something. Newsflash, there's autistic women as well.

Being seen just as other men? Your repeated questions on this don't even relate to that. You are only concerned with your own autism, which is a spectrum if you weren't aware. Now you're claiming most people don't even know unless you tell them. So what does you being on the spectrum matter then? It doesn't.

[Asker]

All of this really shouldn’t matter at all your right it only matters in the context of what I was told and if other women wouldn’t respond that same way I guess it doesn’t matter because I just want to be seen as any normal guy I dont expect sympathy in dating I just want to be seen as equal.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I think you need some therapy before you try dating again if you underwent abuse

[Asker]

Yeah she would call me names like nuisance stupid motherfucker, bitch she physically hit me twice she kicked me. I never did any of these things to her. When asked why because I truly felt like I was deeply hated and I simply couldn’t understand why after the relationship she said she was triggered and that’s why she did the things she did and I was like so my autism got be abused because she often made fun of my symptoms during the relationship

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I’m not a therapist, please do not trauma dump on me