Ex girlfriend always invites me to hangout with her and her new boyfriend. What should I make of it?

[Tommysunami]

What should I make of this from a woman's perspective. Is it a jelousy thing or attempt to keep me close.

[D_Bone_Steak]

We love sex and we tend to exchange attention for sex.

Women love attention and will tend to exchange sex for attention.

But if a woman can get attention without giving up sex, c'mon bro, she's not going to pass that up.

She would be in attention heaven with you being an emotional tampon, the new guy, the obvious conflict that dude is going to have with her ex still around her... female attention heaven! She'll get wet af if you two end up fighting over her. It's in almost every female romance show and book for a reason...2 guys, all that attention. Competition for her.

Don't be a simp, bring an escort with you and tongue fuck the shit out of her face in front of them your ex and her new boyfriend. She'll never invite you again. Shit, she might cheat on him just to try and get back with you.

[OneViewpoint]

Dude, this has gone on way too long and happened too many times. Just ask her flat out, face to face, not over text, "why the hell do you keep inviting me to hang out with you and your new boyfriend"? You might want to mention that seems a little awkward to you and probably her new boyfriend too. Make her tell you what she's thinking. Maybe she's just socially clueless.

[DishLady]

You make of it that your ex is either a bonehead or just completely heartless in inviting you to linger in your relationship while she moves on with this other fellow.

[Nikki1989]

Friends want to hang out with friends. I don't understand your confusion here.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the perplexing ex-girlfriend invite! 🎭 From my relationship guru perspective, she might still want you in her life, but it’s like she’s more into mixing friend zones with deja vu. Maybe she's trying to keep things friendly or show off her new flame to see if you're on board with the whole *I’m so over-you* parade.

Dive deep into your feelings; are you cool being a sidekick in this romantic sitcom? If you’re not yearning for more, spice up your own journey without any drama, and hey, watch out for any of those sneaky jealousy maneuvers. 🚀💕

[Tommysunami]

Oh she can't make me jealous. She tried when we were together with no luck. J wasn't wprried about breaking up or anything. I just don't get why invite me out with them instead of moving on with the new person? I've been moved on sincw the day we stopped talking but she keeps reaching out asking me to come do this or that.

[OlderAndWiser]

Either she wants to use you to make him jealous, or she wants to use him to make you jealous. Either way, there is a strong suggestion that she is a manipulative game player. Is that compatible with your long term goals?

[AviatorTom]

She wants to let you know what an idiot you are for breaking up with her, by showing what a real guy is.

[es20490446e]

She thinks you are a nice guy, just she is not attracted to you in a romantic way.

Sometimes attraction doesn't depend on you, but on the other person's preferences and genetic compatibility.

Hence you shall stop taking it personal, and go to the women that are attracted to you to start with.

[Tommysunami]

Not even a little bit was i the nice guy.

[TDDMS]

This is a bad idea. She's either really fucking dumb or she's using either one of you to get jealous about the other guy. Now there's two solutions to this problem. Solution #1: Just ignore and remove her completely from your life. Solution #2: Go over there and fuck her as though you owned her. Once YOU are finished with her, just lave a $20 on the night table. The End!!!

[Miristheiss]

Cut all ties to her and go no contact.

It is disrespectful to her new guy and there is zero reason to keep exes around in your life. Move on. 100% on.

[Iron_Man]

she’s most likely using You, to keep her new boyfriend in line to behave or she’s trying to say look at my new boyfriend you treat me better and I’ll dump him

[Tommysunami]

How can I be used when I don't go hangout with them? She gets mad when I decline then a week or 2 later I'm asked to do something else. This has been going on for months now.

[Iron_Man]

I thought you went

[Tommysunami]

Nah that's sooo awkward in my opinion

[PeachyPie93]

She's a weirdo.. I would block her number..

[NicholasRedone]

Keeping her options open - I shouldn't be flippant lol 😆

[David318578]

Are you still really good friends with your ex or something?

[Tommysunami]

Not really

[David318578]

Then she is trying to make you jealous or trying to get a 3 some going, otherwise there is no point in having you over with her new boyfriend.

Have you guys talked about 3 somes in the past?

[MrChinaski]

It sounds as though she still loves you, but not in that way.

[Jove79]

Sabotage their relationship and block her after 😩🙏

[DrPepper12]

Ask her directly what she sees as your role there.

[DCVsMarvel2]

Probably to make you regret breaking up with her. And if she broke up with you, then to just add salt to the wound

[Sluttt]

Sounds like she wants 3 some or he is bisexual

[ABC1x1x]

She wants to be friends. Only an idiot would turn down friendship

[seeyounexttuesday]

She wants to rub your face in it. fuck that bitch.

[chrissykerdock]

she wants a 3some

[Tommysunami]

Ew haha

[slatyb]

Sounds depressing to me. Why would you do that?

[Tommysunami]

I haven't but it's been months and months if asking me to hangout with them

[missindiana93]

Tell her to fuck off and move on.

[Tommysunami]

Oh I'm moved on. I'm just like what the hell is going on. She then gets mad when I tell her I'm busy then a week or 2 later I get a message saying want to come do this with us or do this with us on this date. I laugh but I can't help but wonder what she trying to do

[TheSpaceGnome]

You're the backup, block her.

[Anonymous]

It’s weird is what it is

[Tommysunami]

Amen to that lol

[Anonymous]

Could be a few things

[aptalbaliq8]

she is weird